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Relationship tests

Where do we stand as a couple right now? Where do I stand? Where does the other person stand? What's going well between us? Where is there room for improvement? Here you'll find our scientifically based CoupleBalance relationship test as well as a number of short tests on specific relationship topics.

Find out how your relationship is doing.

Relationship tests help you put your partnership to the test. They offer you the opportunity to gain clarity about your strengths and weaknesses and to better understand the relationship.

In addition to our scientifically based relationship test (approx. 10 minutes), we offer you quick self-tests on the following topics:

Use these tests to connect with yourself and your relationship on a new level and grow together!

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Relationship test (free – 10 min.): How is my relationship doing?

Want to learn more about the strengths and weaknesses of your relationship? With PaarBalance’s scientifically based online relationship test, you’ll instantly receive your personal relationship profile. 10 minutes well spent.

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In love with someone else! Now what? – Take the test.

Are you in a committed relationship and have fallen in love with someone else? What might be the reasons behind this and what can happen next?

Grown apart: 11 typical signs & phases as well as proven tips for love

Have you and your partner grown apart? Here we explain the most common reasons and 11 typical warning signs, describe the ‘classic’ relationship phases, and give concrete recommendations on what you can do for your love now.

Recognizing, resolving & overcoming emotional dependency: The 5 best tips

Experiencing emotional dependency is very distressing. How can one recognize and resolve emotional dependency, overcome fear of loss, feel freer (again) – and ultimately have a healthy, equal partnership?

Male sexual dysfunction – The 7 most common reasons & what helps now

“A man is always in the mood for sex!” – right? What does it mean when a man no longer desires his partner? What can you do if you’re experiencing a loss of libido, and what can you do if your partner does? You’ll find the answers here.

Female lack of sexual desire – The 6 most common reasons & what helps now

When one partner loses interest in sex, it can seriously damage a relationship. What are the most common causes of low libido in women? How can libido be rekindled? You’ll find the answers here.

The 5 Love Languages – take the test!

Each of us expresses love in our own way. Why it’s so important in a relationship to know your own ‘love language’ and that of your partner, and when it’s highly recommended to learn a ‘foreign language’ – you’ll find out here. Includes a self-test.

No more sex in the marriage

Many couples eventually reach the same point: things aren’t really working (or working) in the bedroom anymore. Our couples therapists have examined seven of the most common sex myths and explain what’s needed for a relaxed approach to the topic of sex.

Zu wenig Zeit in der Beziehung

In the early stages of a relationship, most people newly in love spend every free minute together. But the path from “togetherness around the clock” to “Maybe we’ll manage to talk for a few minutes tonight” is usually surprisingly short…

Overcoming jealousy: These expert tips will help you.

Whether you want to fight jealousy because you are tormented by it yourself, or you feel unjustly accused by your jealous partner: Strong jealousy puts a strain on every relationship!

Take the relationship test now and gain clarity!

How is my relationship?

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Unsere Autoren & wissenschaftliche Leitung

Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler

Einer der führenden Experten im Bereich Paartherapie in Deutschland.
Autor von Standardwerken für Therapeuten und Paare.
Gibt Fortbildungen & Supervision zum Thema Paartherapie und Beziehungsgestaltung.
Leitet kognitiv-verhaltenstherapeutische Lehrpraxis in München.

Dr. Judith Gastner

Diplom-Psychologin, Psychotherapeutin und Pädagogin.
10 Jahre lang wissenschaftliche Mitarbeiterin an der TU München.
Gibt Workshops, Supervision & Interviews zum Thema Paarbeziehungen & Lebensqualität.
Praxis als kognitive Verhaltenstherapeutin und Paartherapeutin in München.

Romantic relationships are dynamic. When two people commit to each other, it's the beginning of a never-ending process. Each partner develops and changes over time – and so does the couple's interaction and their overall dynamic. That's why it's always exciting to explore different relationship topics.