Taboo topic: affairs
- Has your partner cheated on you?
- Has the ground been ripped out from under your feet?
- Have you been plunged into emotional turmoil and can't find your way out?
- Do you wish in vain to wake up from this terrible nightmare?
Being betrayed by a beloved partner is one of the most devastating emotional wounds in life.
The incomprehensible thing is that although infidelity and affairs occur extremely often and are among the most common reasons for separation, they continue to be treated as a taboo subject in our society .
Relationship research has intensively investigated the causes, courses, and consequences of affairs in recent decades. However, while experts now know precisely which attitudes and behaviors will help those affected get back on their feet as quickly as possible, this highly relevant information has still not reached society.
Unfortunately, this means that many of the well-intentioned pieces of advice you hear in the midst of emotional turmoil are counterproductive!
Having personally supported hundreds of couples and individuals after an affair in our couples therapy practice over several decades, we have decided to make the most important insights available to you as an audio program for immediate support, regardless of time and place.
You have a 14-day statutory right of withdrawal. After payment, you will be redirected to the download area IMMEDIATELY.
Even though it may be hard to believe: you currently hold all the cards. However hopeless your current situation may feel, nothing is lost yet.
The two relationship experts Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler and Dr. Judith Gastner , together with the team from PaarBalance, have developed a unique audio program that provides support and structure in the emotional chaos for people who have just learned of their partner's infidelity.
There are very clear "dos and don'ts" in the current painful and exceptional situation. The sooner you heed these, the sooner you can end your current suffering.
You are not alone. You can rely on the combined expertise gained from over 45 years of couples therapy. And – most importantly! – you can also rely on yourself.
We have witnessed so many people regaining stability after severe relationship crises. Therefore, we are firmly convinced:
You too will find the right way out of this crisis! And probably not only that: in all likelihood, you will even emerge stronger from the current mess – even if you are currently struggling with anger, despair, and feelings of powerlessness.
Learn how to regain control and navigate around as many dangerous obstacles as possible.
…an interview with Emma, who was cheated on by her husband
… the expert discussion with experienced couple therapists
… Checklists, worksheets & other helpful tools
You have a 14-day statutory right of withdrawal. After payment, you will be redirected to the download area IMMEDIATELY.
If you order the audio program now, you will receive these 2 bonuses for free:
The approach barometer reflects the development between you and your partner. This allows you to reliably assess whether and when the time is right for a fresh start.
This overview will help you make the right decisions with the necessary confidence.
As additional support, we have recorded our popular news series "Forgiving an Affair" in its entirety. The nine short audio clips illuminate individual aspects of the emotional rollercoaster that most people experience during such a severe relationship crisis. The clips cover topics such as:
- The shock after the fraud: How to prevent further escalation
- Escape the triangle trap! Here's how to behave strategically.
- "The end." or "A new beginning"? - The right timing is crucial.
And much, much more...
You have a 14-day statutory right of withdrawal. After payment, you will be redirected to the download area IMMEDIATELY.
Currently, you have the opportunity to book the audio program "Taboo Topic Affair" in combination with an emergency telephone coaching package with the author of the audio series, Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler .
The personal emergency consultation package includes:
Benefit from Prof. Dr. Schindler 's decades of experience and hundreds of coaching sessions on precisely this topic.
After booking, Prof. Schindler will contact you and you can arrange an appointment for the first coaching session.
Durch einen wirklich saublöden Zufall hab ich herausbekommen, dass meine Freundin eine Affäre mit einem Kollegen hatte. Da ist von einer Sekunde auf die andere meine bisher heile Welt zusammengebrochen! Doch dann habe ich "Tabuthema Affäre" entdeckt. Die Audios haben GENAU auf MICH und unsere Situation zugetroffen. Ums kurz zu machen: Wir haben es geschafft! Es war hart, aber jetzt sind wir uns näher denn je 🙂.
Michael K.
Liebe Frau Dr. Gastner, lieber Herr Prof. Dr. Schindler,
Ihr e-Book und das Audiobook zum Thema Fremdgehen ist ein unglaubliches Geschenk!
Seitdem ich vor 6 Wochen herausgefunden haben, dass mein Mann, mit dem ich seit 25 Jahren „glücklich“ zusammen lebte, eine Affäre hat, die seit 7 Monaten bestand, lese ich ununterbrochen Beziehungsratgeber und suche nach Hilfe, um mich aus der Gefühlshölle befreien zu können.
Als ich gestern durch Zufall Ihr e-Book und im Anschluss die Audiodateien gefunden habe, war ich unglaublich erleichtert und habe sechs Stunden mit Zuhören und Lesen verbracht.
Bei dem Interview mit „Emma“ musste ich sehr viel weinen.
Vielen lieben Dank, dass Sie Menschen helfen und an Ihrer Erfahrung teilhaben lassen!
Vielen Dank auch für die E-Mails, die so viel Trost spenden.
Herzliche Grüße
Luisa N.
Dass wir nach der Affäre jetzt wieder eine glückliche Beziehung führen und letzten Monat sogar geheiratet haben, haben wir zu einem großen Teil Ihnen zu verdanken.
Ruth L.
Es war beruhigend für mich zu merken, dass hier ‚echte‘ Paartherapeuten dahinter stehen, mit viel Erfahrung.
Michael K.
Dank „Tabuthema Affäre“ konnte ich Klarheit darüber gewinnen, wie es zu all dem gekommen ist und, viel wichtiger, wie ich meine Beziehung ab sofort so in die Hand nehmen kann, dass ein solcher Vertrauensbruch nicht mehr vorkommen sollte.
Tom B.
You have a 14-day statutory right of withdrawal. After payment, you will be redirected to the download area IMMEDIATELY.
The audio program consists of the following files, which you can download directly after successful payment:
- A thematic introduction
- The encouraging account of a woman affected (Emma: mother of three and doctor) who was cheated on by her husband two years ago (Interview: Dr. Judith Gastner)
- An expert discussion with the two couple therapists Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler and Dr. Judith Gastner
- A summary with an outlook (Audio: Dr. Judith Gastner)
- 12 helpful suggestions and recommendations for working on your own (PDF for printing)
- 9 short audio clips on specific aspects of the topic: "Fraud - what now?"
- The approach barometer - an interactive tool that shows you at a glance where you and your partner currently stand and when a good time for a fresh start would be.
- Tips for further support services
“Taboo Topic Affair” was developed by the PaarBalance team together with Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler and Dr. Judith Gastner .
Professor Dr. Ludwig Schindler is a certified psychologist and psychotherapist. He is one of the leading experts in the field of couple therapy in Germany and is the author of several specialist books in this area.
Dr. Judith Gastner is a certified psychologist, psychotherapist, and educator. She worked for 10 years as a research assistant at the Technical University of Munich and now runs her own practice as a behavioral therapist and coach.
The audio program is just right for you if you have found out that your partner has cheated on you - regardless of whether they 'confessed' it to you or whether you found out some other way.
In "Taboo Topic: Affair" you will learn how to ensure that the betrayal you have suffered does not only mean pain and despair for you, but also growth and self-discovery.
Of course. You can listen to the audio program anywhere and at any time – regardless of whether you have a PC, a notebook, a tablet or a smartphone available.
The audio files are in MP3 format, the checklists and worksheets are in PDF format. You will need a (free) Google account for the proximity barometer.
The complete audio program has a length of approximately 4.5 hours.
You should try to set aside at least 1-2 evenings and listen carefully to the audios, ideally with a pen and paper, to really get the best possible benefit from the profound insights and recommendations.
Of course, there is also the time needed to implement the initiatives.
Yes, of course you can. While some of the content builds on each other, it is also perfectly understandable on its own.
To complete your payment, you will be
redirected to Digistore24. There you can
choose between the following payment methods:
- PayPal
- Credit card
- SEPA direct debit
The payment process takes about 2 minutes.
Once the payment process has been successfully completed, Digistore24 will send you your payment information via email. This email will contain a link to a PDF of your invoice, which you can save or print.
As you wish. However, most of the content of "Taboo Topic: Affair" is tailored to you personally.
The checklists and PDFs contain some questions that you could potentially fill out together with your partner, if you both want to and the atmosphere between you (already) allows for it.
Of course! Because the principles we teach apply to all forms of love relationships and partnerships.
For the sake of clarity, we mostly refer to "you" and "your partner" in the audio program.
You can reach us at any time via our contact form: www.paarbalance.de/kontakt/ .
Alternatively, you can send us an email to: [email protected] .
We will get back to you as soon as possible.
In case of serious personal or relationship crises, you should contact a crisis center, a specialist doctor or a psychotherapist in your area as soon as possible:
www.paarbalance.de/beziehungstipps/notfalladressen-und-unterstuetzung-vor-ort/
You have a 14-day statutory right of withdrawal. After payment, you will be redirected to the download area IMMEDIATELY.
