Free e-book: Forgiving infidelity
These steps will help you get out of the crisis.
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The pain is almost unbearable. Being betrayed hurts immensely and pushes us to our emotional limits. The ground shakes. Nothing is the same anymore.
We desperately wish we could undo the horrific event. Wake up from this terrible nightmare. It couldn't possibly have happened! And yet—even though we desperately don't want to believe it—
it. Did. Really. Happen.
What began as "Cheating between us? Never!" has become "It's irreversible." Since then, there's been a "before" and an "after" in the relationship's history.
What this "after" might look like will become clear in the coming weeks and months—but the rupture itself cannot be undone. It's permanent. Consciously realizing and accepting this is the first crucial step in coping.
Even if it's small comfort: you are not alone in this situation.
A great many partnerships are shaken to their core over the years because (at least) one of them could not resist a strong attraction, cheated on the other - and this cheating eventually came to light.
Since infidelity unfortunately occurs so frequently, there is now scientifically sound knowledge about the "dos and don'ts" in this life situation.
- What helps people in such an exceptional situation – and what doesn't?
- What would further worsen the situation?
- What decisions should not be made in a state of acute shock?
- What is needed for those affected to find peace again?
- How can control over the emotional chaos be regained?
Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler is one of the leading partnership experts and couple researchers in the German-speaking world.
Hardly anyone else knows as well as he does what people go through in such exceptional times, what complications are to be expected, and what is needed in an acute disaster situation to prevent the situation from escalating further.
For more than 45 years, Prof. Schindler has been competently guiding couples and individuals through severe relationship crises – especially in acute emotional emergencies.
- shortly after an 'affair' was exposed,
- when those affected are deeply desperate and
- None of those involved know how things can proceed from here.
He would most like to offer advice and practical help to all those seeking assistance in his Munich teaching practice and to help them personally, in order to
- to be prepared for all the expected obstacles,
- to know exactly how to avoid them,
- to navigate through the extreme stress situation as unscathed as possible and
- to emerge from the current emotional storm without suffering 'long-term damage'.
Unfortunately, that's not possible. Therefore, he – together with his colleague Dr. Judith Gastner – has compiled the most important dos and don'ts for disaster situations in a free e-book and a subsequent free email series for you.
This allows you to benefit from the combined knowledge and wealth of experience from several decades of couple therapy and relationship research, regardless of time and place.
Being cheated on feels awful - no one should be left alone during this difficult time.
Our greatest wish as couple therapists is that you will emerge from the current stressful phase of your relationship with as few "long-term consequences" as possible.
If you wish, we will provide you in the coming days and weeks with the know-how you need in the current chaos to ‘survive emotionally’ and not do anything impulsively that you might soon regret.
All you have to do is enter your email address here. We can then immediately send you the free e-book by Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler and Dr. Judith Gastner
as a first-aid package :
"Forgiving infidelity - These steps will help you get out of the crisis"
50 pages packed with knowledge from couples therapy research and practice.
Everything you need to know now to overcome the current crisis.
User reviews:
"After my husband's affair, I felt like my life was a complete mess, through which I was wandering totally disoriented. The e-book gave me direction again."
Sofie G.
"I could barely sleep because of the 1001 questions swirling around in my head. I felt so alone and misunderstood. Now I finally have answers and know that I'm not the only one who feels this way.
My life is slowly getting back on track. Thank you for the wonderful help in my time of need!"
Tanja H.
With our expertise and decades of experience, we are happy to support you through this exceptional situation.
We wish you strength and composure today. Sincerely,
Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler & Dr. Judith Gastner
