{"id":65979,"date":"2021-11-07T18:46:31","date_gmt":"2021-11-07T17:46:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/"},"modified":"2026-05-05T07:32:44","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T05:32:44","slug":"verliebt-trotz-beziehung","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/","title":{"rendered":"In love despite being in a relationship &#8211; What you should do now &amp; absolutely avoid"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-tcb-events=\"\"><img alt='Standard Blog-Post' src='https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&#038;d=https%3A%2F%2Fb3247eyo-a.myrdbx.io%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&#038;r=g' 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Dezember 2025 <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"\">Quality assurance<\/span><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/prof-dr-ludwig-schindler\/\" style=\"outline: none;\"><span>Prof. Dr. Dr. Ludwig Schindler<\/span><\/a><span style=\"\">Share this article \ud83d\udc47\ud83c\udffb<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/wa.me\/?text=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><a href=\"mailto:?subject=Verliebt trotz Beziehung&amp;body=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden: https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/t.me\/share\/url?url=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/&amp;text=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden:\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/&amp;text=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden:\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><a href=\"#\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a>[tcb-script]document.addEventListener(&#8220;DOMContentLoaded&#8221;, function() {    const copyLinks = document.querySelectorAll(&#8220;.copy-link&#8221;);    copyLinks.forEach(link =&gt; {        link.addEventListener(&#8220;click&#8221;, function(event) {            event.preventDefault();            const textToCopy = &#8220;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/&#8221;;            navigator.clipboard.writeText(textToCopy).then(function() {                alert(&#8220;Link wurde in die Zwischenablage kopiert!&#8221;);            }).catch(function(error) {                alert(&#8220;Fehler beim Kopieren des Links: &#8221; + error);            });        });    });});[\/tcb-script]<span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch showing a couple having to choose between affair depicted as the devil and fidelity as an angel\" data-id=\"59390\" width=\"734\" data-init-width=\"800\" height=\"238\" data-init-height=\"260\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Artikel-Header-7-Phasen-einer-Affaere.jpg\" data-width=\"734\" data-height=\"238\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 260;\" title=\"Two sides of an affair\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Quick start: In love despite being in a relationship&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\"><span style=\"\"><strong>Reasons why you fall in love with someone else:&nbsp;<\/strong> Being in love with another person doesn&#8217;t necessarily mean the end of your current relationship. It can be a sign that there are unmet needs and desires within your existing relationship \u2013 <a href=\"#tve-jump-191eed8908a\" style=\"outline: none;\">learn more. \u2193<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"\"><span style=\"\"><strong><strong>Breakup \u2013 yes or no?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/strong> An affair or a new romance requires honest reflection. Ask yourself what you truly want and make a conscious decision for your future.<a href=\"#tve-jump-191eed96541\" style=\"outline: none;\"> You can find helpful guidance here. \u2193<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"\"><span style=\"\"><strong><strong>Take action!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/strong> Seize the opportunity to actively work on your relationship. Open communication and targeted measures \u2013 such as our<a href=\"#tve-jump-191eedb7862\" style=\"outline: none;\"> free online relationship test<\/a> \u2013 can often lead to renewed trust and intimacy. \u2193<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Suddenly your emotional world is turned upside down. You no longer know what to feel or think. Butterflies in your stomach AND a lump in your throat \u2013 what a strange combination!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Excitement and guilt alternate.<\/p>\n<p>On the one hand: your long-term relationship \u2013 your partner, with whom you have already experienced and shared so much and who is so familiar to you. And on the other hand: HE\/SHE.<\/p>\n<p>The third person, catapulted into your life by chance? by fate?, has plunged you headlong into a new emotional world and awakened long-buried (or never-before-known) chords within you &#8211; and suddenly makes you question everything that is and that was.<\/p>\n<p><strong>&#8220;What&#8217;s happening to me?&#8221; &#8220;How is it possible that I&#8217;m so completely thrown off balance and in a whirlwind of emotions?&#8221; <\/strong><br \/><strong>Here you&#8217;ll find tips and answers to many confusing questions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\ud83d\ude80 Already <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">65,511 people<\/span> have gained clarity through the test.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1693144028318\"><strong>Is it possible to fall in love while in a relationship?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Over the course of years and decades of living together, it must be taken into account that there are not only phases in which one feels very close to one&#8217;s partner, but also phases in which \u2013 for very different reasons \u2013 more distance arises and one sees him or her in a different light.<\/p>\n<p>Many people reach a point of great uncertainty during a long-term relationship and ask themselves: &#8220;Should I continue to hold on to my partnership &#8211; or is there an alternative that could make me (even) happier?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>With today&#8217;s life expectancy, a relationship can last half a century or more. During such a long period, it&#8217;s almost inevitable that at some point, one partner won&#8217;t feel some attraction outside the existing relationship \u2013 be it through\u2026<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>a rekindled <em>childhood love<\/em> , awakening earlier feelings of infatuation.<\/li>\n<li>The encounter with a <em>fascinating person<\/em> who awakens in us a long-forgotten or previously never experienced cocktail of emotions: excitement, infatuation, and desire.<\/li>\n<li>a <em>good friend<\/em> (a <em>good female friend<\/em> ) or even <em>your<\/em> best friend ( <em>a<\/em> best female friend), who gives you a kind of attention and goodwill that you no longer experience in your relationship.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If such an attraction occurs at a time when one does not feel particularly close to their long-term partner, it is understandably associated with even greater inner turmoil, fear and strong insecurity.<\/p>\n<p>In such or similar situations, it can quickly happen that one falls head over heels in love with someone else and is swept away almost uncontrollably by the allure of the new and exciting \u2013 even if the committed relationship or marriage is perceived as generally stable and &#8216;good&#8217;. <br \/>Suddenly, one finds oneself surreptitiously glancing at one&#8217;s phone every few minutes \u2013 longing for a message from the object of one&#8217;s desire. This yearning and excitement almost drive one to madness.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1735998930224\"><strong><strong data-renderer-mark=\"true\">Interest in another woman despite being in a relationship: What do these feelings mean for the relationship?<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">It&#8217;s not unusual to feel interested in other women even while in a committed relationship. This feeling, often described as a crush, &#8220;newly infatuated,&#8221; or &#8220;newly in love,&#8221; triggers emotional turmoil for many. Whether it&#8217;s a harmless infatuation or a genuine longing can sometimes be difficult to discern at first.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\"><strong><em>Such feelings of infatuation \u2013 despite a committed relationship \u2013 can have various causes, such as\u2026&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">the need for more emotional closeness or more passion<\/li>\n<li data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">the desire to be seen and appreciated<\/li>\n<li data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">the longing for new experiences and variety<\/li>\n<li data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">the feeling of a very special harmony and \u201csoul kinship\u201d&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">It is important to consciously perceive and reflect on one&#8217;s feelings without acting rashly. Open communication with one&#8217;s partner about one&#8217;s own needs and desires can help to avoid estrangement and to improve and deepen the relationship.<\/p>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">Furthermore, one should be aware of the consequences for the existing partnership if current feelings of infatuation with someone else are acted upon\u2026<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1735998930225\"><strong><strong data-renderer-mark=\"true\">My wife has feelings for another man: causes and solutions<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"2262\">Witnessing one&#8217;s wife develop feelings for another man is, for most people affected, initially extremely distressing and frightening. &#8220;Love wants to possess.&#8221; Despite polyamory and open relationship models, a large proportion of those in committed relationships find it difficult to imagine sharing their loved one with another (sexual) partner.<\/p>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"2635\">That makes it all the more important to communicate with each other as carefully and honestly as possible in order to understand the causes and find solutions together.<\/p>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"2783\">Several couples report that through such an emotionally stirring and intense period and the resulting intense conversations about their feelings, wishes and needs, they were able to reawaken their previously somewhat \u201cdormant\u201d relationship from its slumber and ultimately strengthen it.<\/p>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"3091\">During such emotionally turbulent times, it can be helpful to seek professional support in the form of couples therapy. A professionally trained, neutral third party can help overcome communication barriers and develop new perspectives.<\/p>\n<p data-renderer-start-pos=\"3382\"><strong><em>Ultimately, it requires patience, understanding, and the willingness of both partners to hold on to the relationship, grow together, and find a shared path that benefits both.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028319\"><strong>In love despite being in a relationship &#8211; the romantic fantasy of a fresh start<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>You&#8217;re probably feeling extremely agitated right now and having confusing daydreams about what it would be like to leave your long-standing relationship behind and start your life completely anew \u2013 alongside this incredibly exciting person, in whose presence everything might be so much more beautiful and thrilling. In this phase of confusion and chaos, it can be difficult to clearly see your love for your partner with your own eyes.<\/p>\n<p>But even if this fantasy may be tempting:<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Such a fresh start requires careful consideration. Anyone who wants to embark on a new love after leaving a relationship starts with a significant burden: they must first deal with a painful breakup.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028320\"><strong>Underestimated bonding = rude awakening<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple looking at a happy relationship after a second chance\" data-id=\"59911\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"800\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"350\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Zweite-Chancen-in-der-Beziehung.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 350;\" title=\"Second chances in a relationship\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Between people who have been together for a long time, something we call &#8216;bond&#8217; develops. We humans are not only <em>social<\/em> beings, but also, and especially, <em>bonding<\/em> beings. Bonding is, so to speak, part of our very being and cannot simply be shed. Our partner becomes a part of our life story, of our own self \u2013 even if the relationship wasn&#8217;t always experienced as passionate and loving.<\/p>\n<p>The vital importance of bonding is explained in psychology by the fact that it is an evolutionary achievement intended to ensure the safe upbringing of offspring and, later, the cohesion of a pair to facilitate the raising of the next generation. This existential significance explains why the associated feelings are so powerful.<\/p>\n<p>Love creates bonds, and bonds sustain love. <em>The longer a relationship lasts, the stronger the forces of connection become.<\/em> However, it&#8217;s often believed that passionate love inevitably evolves into companionship over the years. Scientific studies show that this isn&#8217;t always the case. Lifelong relationships tend to follow phases. Depending on the personal development of each partner and how they nurture the relationship, there will be periods of greater and lesser passion and intimacy. A waning of romantic love is not inevitable. Even if it diminishes temporarily, whether or not greater closeness and feelings of love will return depends on how the relationship continues to develop.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>So far, so good. But why do people fall in love despite being in a relationship?<\/strong><\/em><br \/> On the one hand, we humans are creatures of habit \u2013 valuing reliability, familiarity, and predictability \u2013 and on the other hand, we are constantly searching for new, intense, and exciting experiences and emotional states.<\/p>\n<p>The constant, familiar emotions often fade in our perception and become a kind of background noise. New, unusual, and unpredictable things capture our attention. This can then lead us, during a period of lacking intimacy, to massively <em>underestimate<\/em><br \/> the deep bond we&#8217;ve built with our long-term partner and <em>overestimate<\/em> the quality (and future viability) of a new attraction .<em><\/em><em><\/em><\/p>\n<p>When a breakup finally occurs, there is often a rude awakening. <br \/>The old clich\u00e9 of &#8220;I didn&#8217;t appreciate it until I lost it&#8221; becomes a bitter reality.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028321\"><strong>Should I tell my partner that I&#8217;m in love with someone else?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a arguing couple sitting on the sofa, with the woman covering her ears.\" data-id=\"52480\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Verliebt-trotz-Beziehung-dem-Partner-erzaehlen.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"How to communicate when you're in love despite being in a relationship\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The answer is almost always: No! <br \/>As a rule, it is better to first bring order to your own emotional world.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">It&#8217;s advisable to think things through before confronting your partner with your own jumbled feelings. If you thoughtlessly confront your partner with your own emotional turmoil, you might ruin your chances of a future together.<\/p>\n<p>Be aware: The news of your sudden infatuation will most likely deeply unsettle and hurt your partner. He may no longer reciprocate the same trusting love and affection as before, at least for an extended period. Infatuation with someone else or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/fremdgehen\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">infidelity<\/a> is often accompanied by profound emotional wounds. The atmosphere between you could initially be characterized by mistrust, making it even more difficult for you to <em>calmly<\/em> assess your own feelings and decide on the next steps.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, for the sake of everyone involved, take the time to gain as much clarity as possible about your own emotions before making a far-reaching\u2014and potentially irreversible\u2014decision or even mistakes. You can also seek advice from professional therapists or trusted friends to gain a clearer perspective.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028322\"><strong>Breakup or not? Questions you absolutely should be asking yourself now.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple sitting sadly at a table, contemplating their shared future with the help of signposts.\" data-id=\"52955\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"457\" data-init-height=\"478\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Verliebt-trotz-Beziehung-Trennung.webp\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"457\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 478;\" title=\"In love despite being in a relationship; when to break up\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Before you embark on an affair or second relationship (or continue to hold onto one) or even consider separating from your partner and thinking about a serious attempt at a relationship with the other person, you should answer the following questions:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Would I really be ready to leave my existing relationship and my life as I know it behind?<\/li>\n<li>Have I (or have we) already tried everything to breathe more life back into our relationship?<\/li>\n<li>Am I convinced that a sustainable love relationship can develop from my current infatuation?<\/li>\n<li>Could I live with the consequences if I were to lose my steady partner \u2013 if my current crush and I didn&#8217;t become a couple and our current relationship could potentially be damaged?<\/li>\n<li>Do I take enough care \u2013 even outside of our relationship \u2013 to ensure that I am well and that my life is fulfilling?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Only if you have answered all questions with a (at least relatively) clear &#8220;yes&#8221; does it make sense at this point to think more concretely about separating from your partner and attempting a relationship with the &#8216;third person&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p>Otherwise, you should take as much time as possible to sort things out internally. There is no acute emergency that would force you to make a hasty decision.<\/p>\n<p>You can find more blog posts on the topic of &#8220;separation&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung\/\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a> .&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028323\"><strong>Take action!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>To remain consistent with one&#8217;s own biography in the long term, it is important to be able to say to oneself later on \u2013 regardless of what the future ultimately brings:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em><strong>I didn&#8217;t throw away our established relationship lightly.<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em><strong>I gave our relationship a real chance when I was having doubts.<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<li><em><strong>I did everything I could to try and re-establish closer ties.<\/strong><\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Many studies show that the atmosphere and sense of togetherness in a relationship can change for the better within weeks. Take action! Give yourself and your partner another fair chance and calmly examine your feelings for the &#8216;third person&#8217; as well as your willingness to completely turn your life upside down again \u2013 with all the consequences.<\/p>\n<p>Such a phase of reflection and taking time is important in any case: If it ultimately comes to a separation from your partner and a fresh start with the person you have (newly or again) fallen in love with, you will start with a much greater chance that this new relationship will also be successful.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693296045180\"><strong>Consider the beginnings of your growing partnership!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple sitting on a pile of hearts, thinking about the past in thought bubbles.\" data-id=\"49177\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Verliebt-trotz-Beziehung-Erinnerungen-Vergangenheit.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Relationship: A Look into the Past\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>In a period of great uncertainty, it is all the more important to pause and look at one&#8217;s past relationship history with as calm a perspective as possible:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What were we like when we met and fell in love?<\/li>\n<li>How did we treat each other?<\/li>\n<li>What was special about us? What made us who we were?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693296045181\"><strong>And then: What happened next?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Have we continued to treat each other with the same respect and attention throughout our relationship as we did at the beginning?<\/li>\n<li>Have we held each other tightly lately? Kissed each other for longer than a fleeting moment? Greeted and said goodbye to each other affectionately?<\/li>\n<li>Did we support each other (in which areas was it easier for us, in which more difficult)?<\/li>\n<li>Were we interested in how the other person was doing? Did we feel seen and heard?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693296045182\"><strong>Ask yourself: What do you see when you focus the spotlight on the positive aspects of your partnership?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>What were (and are) our strengths as a couple?<\/li>\n<li>What did we accomplish well together? What can we be proud of? Why did we succeed?<\/li>\n<li>What wonderful experiences did we share? What do I fondly remember?<\/li>\n<li>What have I liked and appreciated about my partner so far?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693296045183\"><strong>What images come to mind when you think about a future together with your current crush?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>What will likely remain after the initial infatuation has faded?<\/li>\n<li>Will I still like about him (her) later what I find particularly fascinating now?<\/li>\n<li>Do we have what it takes to become a strong team in the long term?<\/li>\n<li>How could I fit into his (her) life?<\/li>\n<li>To what extent could he (she) &#8216;fit&#8217; into my life so far (circle of friends, family, children, job, interests)?<\/li>\n<li>Will I still look at him (her) with those head-over-heels eyes in the future?&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693058012268\"><strong>Test: How is your relationship really doing?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>To help you make your decision, you can take our scientifically developed CoupleBalance relationship test (free of charge).<\/p>\n<p>Take a moment to step away from the current emotional turmoil and examine your existing partnership or marriage from a bird&#8217;s-eye view:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>How am I <em>experiencing<\/em> my relationship right now?<\/li>\n<li>How am I currently <em>shaping<\/em> my partnership?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The test is free of charge. It takes about 10 minutes.<\/p>\n<p>Immediately afterwards, you will receive (free of charge) detailed feedback on the various areas of your relationship. Using a traffic light system, you will quickly recognize where potential problems lie and in which aspects you as a couple might be significantly stronger than you thought.<\/p>\n<p id=\"tve-jump-191eedb7862\">Using this personal relationship profile, you can probably assess the current situation much more objectively and are more likely to make a well-founded decision about what the next steps should be.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Take your relationship test now! (free)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>How is your relationship? <br \/>What are your strengths and weaknesses?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Flyer from PaarBalance Online Coaching with personal relationship profile for relationship problems\" data-id=\"53041\" data-init-width=\"1000\" data-init-height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/beziehungsprofil.webp\" data-width=\"212\" data-height=\"212\" width=\"212\" height=\"212\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1000 \/ 1000;\" title=\"Relationship profile Relationship test\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>You will find out immediately afterwards in your personal PaarBalance relationship profile (free).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Start your relationship test now!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"\">\u2713 Scientifically sound <br \/>\u2713 Includes detailed analysis <br \/>\u2713 Your data will not be shared <br \/>\u2713 100% free &amp; non-binding<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">100% secure. We comply with data protection regulations. Registration for the relationship test is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">free<\/span> . <br \/>Please read this important information beforehand: <br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/datenschutzerklaerung\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">Data Protection<\/a> &nbsp;\u1427 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/agb\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">Terms and Conditions<\/a> &nbsp;\u1427 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/allgemeine-informationsvertragsbedingungen\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">General Information Agreement Terms and Conditions<\/a> &nbsp;. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Transparenzerklaerung.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">Transparency Statement<\/a><\/p>\n<p>We sincerely hope that you will be able to make a decision that suits you and that will make you happy and feel right in the long term.<\/p>\n<p>All the best to you and warmest regards!<\/p>\n<p>Yours sincerely, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/dr-judith-gastner\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">Dr. Judith Gastner<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Related articles on the topic of being in love despite being in a relationship<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/\" dynamic-postlink=\"tcb_post_the_permalink\" data-shortcode-id=\"52528\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1737414740471\" style=\"\"><span data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Love or habit? How is your relationship?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/\" title=\"Love or habit? How is your relationship?\" data-css=\"\">Love or habit? How is your relationship?<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Is habit in a relationship the &#8222;beginning of the end&#8220;? Or a natural and necessary component? Our couples therapists answer this and other questions in this article.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/#more-65900\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/fremdverliebt\/\" dynamic-postlink=\"tcb_post_the_permalink\" data-shortcode-id=\"52528\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1737414740471\" style=\"\"><span data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Love or habit? How is your relationship?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/fremdverliebt\/\" title=\"In love with someone else! Now what? \u2013 Take the test.\" data-css=\"\">In love with someone else! Now what? \u2013 Take the test.<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Are you in a committed relationship and have fallen in love with someone else? What might be the reasons behind this and what can happen next?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/fremdverliebt\/#more-65906\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehung-retten\/\" dynamic-postlink=\"tcb_post_the_permalink\" data-shortcode-id=\"52528\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1737414740471\" style=\"\"><span data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Love or habit? How is your relationship?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehung-retten\/\" title=\"Saving your relationship: Here\u2019s how! The best tips from couples therapists.\" data-css=\"\">Saving your relationship: Here\u2019s how! The best tips from couples therapists.<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Arguments, jealousy, or lack of affection: there are many reasons why couples can find themselves in a serious relationship crisis that brings them to the brink of separation. Then the question arises: &#8222;Is our relationship even salvageable? And if so, how?!&#8220;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehung-retten\/#more-65959\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1690967237765\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/h2>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1685450315605\"><strong><strong><strong>Why do people fall in love with someone else despite being in a relationship?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Although we humans are creatures of habit who value reliability and predictability, we also seek new and exciting experiences. If feelings in a long-term partnership become too commonplace, another person can quickly be perceived as exciting, and one might even fall head over heels in love with him or her \u2013 especially during a more distant phase of the relationship.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698675235411\"><strong><strong><strong>Does love automatically fade in a long-term relationship?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">According to scientific studies, love doesn&#8217;t automatically diminish in long-term relationships. However, long-term relationships do go through phases. It&#8217;s important to realize that feelings change over the years. For many couples, infatuation develops into deep connection and love. However, the butterflies in the stomach rarely flutter anymore.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698675235412\"><strong><strong><strong>Should you talk to your partner about being in love with someone else?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">Experience in couples therapy shows: Don&#8217;t have this conversation until your own feelings and thoughts are somewhat sorted out. After all, this conversation would very likely make your partner feel extremely insecure and damage their trust. This makes it all the more difficult to sort out the current emotional turmoil and could potentially destroy any chance of a future together.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698675235413\"><strong><strong><strong>Should you break up with your partner if you&#8217;re in love with someone else?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">A hasty <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/\">breakup, even if you still love each other,<\/a> is not advisable. Have you truly invested enough heart and soul into the current relationship? Are you prepared to permanently leave behind this established partnership \u2013 with all the consequences, even if no new relationship develops? Don&#8217;t do anything rash that can&#8217;t be undone.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698675235414\"><strong><strong><strong>In love despite being in a relationship. What happens now?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Before deciding to end a relationship and rushing into a new one, you should give the old one a fair chance. Think back to how it all began. How did the relationship develop? Are there still loving gestures and support between you? What would happen with the other person after the initial infatuation faded? Would your life plans even be compatible?<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>How long does infatuation with someone else last?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">The duration of infatuation with someone else varies greatly. It depends on the intensity of the feelings, satisfaction (or dissatisfaction) in the existing relationship, and individual life circumstances. Some people experience intense infatuation with someone else only for a short time and can move on relatively quickly. For others, infatuation with someone else can last for several weeks or even months. Almost always, the crucial factor is how one deals with their own emotions and whether those affected consciously take steps to gain more clarity regarding their needs and desires in their committed relationship.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you fallen in love with someone else despite being in a relationship? 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data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47828\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Quick start: In love despite being in a relationship&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-styled_list tcb-icon-display\" data-icon-code=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47829\" style=\"\"><ul class=\"tcb-styled-list\"><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed4782a\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47831\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed4782b\" style=\"\"><strong>Reasons why you fall in love with someone else:&nbsp;<\/strong> Being in love with another person doesn't necessarily mean the end of your current relationship. It can be a sign that there are unmet needs and desires within your existing relationship \u2013 <a href=\"#tve-jump-191eed8908a\" class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" style=\"outline: none;\">learn more. \u2193<\/a><\/span><\/li><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed4782a\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47831\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed4782b\" style=\"\"><strong><strong>Breakup \u2013 yes or no?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/strong> An affair or a new romance requires honest reflection. Ask yourself what you truly want and make a conscious decision for your future.<a href=\"#tve-jump-191eed96541\" class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" style=\"outline: none;\"> You can find helpful guidance here. \u2193<\/a><\/span><\/li><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed4782a\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47831\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-191eed4782b\" style=\"\"><strong><strong>Take action!&nbsp;<\/strong><\/strong> Seize the opportunity to actively work on your relationship. Open communication and targeted measures \u2013 such as our<a href=\"#tve-jump-191eedb7862\" class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" style=\"outline: none;\"> free online relationship test<\/a> \u2013 can often lead to renewed trust and intimacy. \u2193<\/span><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928bfc1c5f\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-59982\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" data-css=\"tve-u-1920f68b05b\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>Suddenly your emotional world is turned upside down. 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class=\"tve-cb tve-toc-content\">\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-list tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save tcb-no-clone tve-no-dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac64\" style=\"\" data-styled-scrollbar=\"0\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac65\" style=\"\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"tve_ct_content tve_clearfix\"><div class=\"ct_column\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693144028318\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">1.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693144028318\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Is it possible to fall in love while in a relationship?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1735998930224\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">2.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1735998930224\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Interest in another woman despite being in a relationship: What do these feelings mean for the relationship?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1735998930225\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">3.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1735998930225\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">My wife has feelings for another man: causes and solutions<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693144028319\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">4.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693144028319\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">In love despite being in a relationship - the romantic fantasy of a fresh start<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693144028320\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">5.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693144028320\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Underestimated bonding = rude awakening<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693144028321\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">6.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693144028321\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Should I tell my partner that I'm in love with someone else?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693144028322\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">7.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693144028322\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Breakup or not? Questions you absolutely should be asking yourself now.<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693144028323\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">8.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693144028323\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Take action!<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693296045180\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">9.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693296045180\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Consider the beginnings of your growing partnership!<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693296045181\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">10.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693296045181\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">And then: What happened next?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693296045182\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">11.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693296045182\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Ask yourself: What do you see when you focus the spotlight on the positive aspects of your partnership?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693296045183\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">12.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693296045183\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">What images come to mind when you think about a future together with your current crush?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693058012268\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">13.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693058012268\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Test: How is your relationship really doing?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1690967237765\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">14.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1690967237765\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider tve-vert-divider\" data-style=\"tve_sep-1\" data-color-d=\"rgb(217, 217, 217)\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac67\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-4\" data-thickness-d=\"2\"><hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-4\" style=\"\"><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899bfd4\" id=\"tve-jump-191eed8908a\"><h2 class=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028318\"><strong>Is it possible to fall in love while in a relationship?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>Over the course of years and decades of living together, it must be taken into account that there are not only phases in which one feels very close to one's partner, but also phases in which \u2013 for very different reasons \u2013 more distance arises and one sees him or her in a different light.<\/p><p>Many people reach a point of great uncertainty during a long-term relationship and ask themselves: \"Should I continue to hold on to my partnership - or is there an alternative that could make me (even) happier?\"<\/p><p>With today's life expectancy, a relationship can last half a century or more. During such a long period, it's almost inevitable that at some point, one partner won't feel some attraction outside the existing relationship \u2013 be it through\u2026<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li>a rekindled <em>childhood love<\/em> , awakening earlier feelings of infatuation.<\/li><li>The encounter with a <em>fascinating person<\/em> who awakens in us a long-forgotten or previously never experienced cocktail of emotions: excitement, infatuation, and desire.<\/li><li>a <em>good friend<\/em> (a <em>good female friend<\/em> ) or even <em>your<\/em> best friend ( <em>a<\/em> best female friend), who gives you a kind of attention and goodwill that you no longer experience in your relationship.<\/li><\/ul><p>If such an attraction occurs at a time when one does not feel particularly close to their long-term partner, it is understandably associated with even greater inner turmoil, fear and strong insecurity.<\/p><p>In such or similar situations, it can quickly happen that one falls head over heels in love with someone else and is swept away almost uncontrollably by the allure of the new and exciting \u2013 even if the committed relationship or marriage is perceived as generally stable and 'good'. <br>Suddenly, one finds oneself surreptitiously glancing at one's phone every few minutes \u2013 longing for a message from the object of one's desire. This yearning and excitement almost drive one to madness.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899bfd4\"><h2 class=\"\" id=\"t-1735998930224\"><strong><strong data-renderer-mark=\"true\">Interest in another woman despite being in a relationship: What do these feelings mean for the relationship?<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">It's not unusual to feel interested in other women even while in a committed relationship. This feeling, often described as a crush, \"newly infatuated,\" or \"newly in love,\" triggers emotional turmoil for many. Whether it's a harmless infatuation or a genuine longing can sometimes be difficult to discern at first.&nbsp;<\/p><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\"><strong><em>Such feelings of infatuation \u2013 despite a committed relationship \u2013 can have various causes, such as\u2026&nbsp;<\/em><\/strong><\/p><ul class=\"\"><li class=\"\" data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">the need for more emotional closeness or more passion<\/li><li class=\"\" data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">the desire to be seen and appreciated<\/li><li class=\"\" data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">the longing for new experiences and variety<\/li><li class=\"\" data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">the feeling of a very special harmony and \u201csoul kinship\u201d&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">It is important to consciously perceive and reflect on one's feelings without acting rashly. Open communication with one's partner about one's own needs and desires can help to avoid estrangement and to improve and deepen the relationship.<\/p><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"1385\">Furthermore, one should be aware of the consequences for the existing partnership if current feelings of infatuation with someone else are acted upon\u2026<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d899bfd4\"><h2 class=\"\" id=\"t-1735998930225\"><strong><strong data-renderer-mark=\"true\">My wife has feelings for another man: causes and solutions<\/strong><\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"2262\">Witnessing one's wife develop feelings for another man is, for most people affected, initially extremely distressing and frightening. \"Love wants to possess.\" Despite polyamory and open relationship models, a large proportion of those in committed relationships find it difficult to imagine sharing their loved one with another (sexual) partner.<\/p><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"2635\">That makes it all the more important to communicate with each other as carefully and honestly as possible in order to understand the causes and find solutions together.<\/p><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"2783\">Several couples report that through such an emotionally stirring and intense period and the resulting intense conversations about their feelings, wishes and needs, they were able to reawaken their previously somewhat \u201cdormant\u201d relationship from its slumber and ultimately strengthen it.<\/p><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"3091\">During such emotionally turbulent times, it can be helpful to seek professional support in the form of couples therapy. A professionally trained, neutral third party can help overcome communication barriers and develop new perspectives.<\/p><p data-renderer-start-pos=\"3382\"><strong><em>Ultimately, it requires patience, understanding, and the willingness of both partners to hold on to the relationship, grow together, and find a shared path that benefits both.<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028319\"><strong>In love despite being in a relationship - the romantic fantasy of a fresh start<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>You're probably feeling extremely agitated right now and having confusing daydreams about what it would be like to leave your long-standing relationship behind and start your life completely anew \u2013 alongside this incredibly exciting person, in whose presence everything might be so much more beautiful and thrilling. In this phase of confusion and chaos, it can be difficult to clearly see your love for your partner with your own eyes.<\/p><p>But even if this fantasy may be tempting:<\/p><p><em><strong>Such a fresh start requires careful consideration. Anyone who wants to embark on a new love after leaving a relationship starts with a significant burden: they must first deal with a painful breakup.<\/strong><\/em><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028320\"><strong>Underestimated bonding = rude awakening<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a374165c2\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\" style=\"\"><picture loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-52479\" data-id=\"52479\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"In love despite being in a relationship - commitment is the crucial factor.\" data-width=\"573\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-19208cde1c5\" data-height=\"325\" mt-d=\"-1.0149999999999864\" ml-d=\"0\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple looking at a happy relationship after a second chance\" data-id=\"59911\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"800\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"350\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Zweite-Chancen-in-der-Beziehung.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c34d42650\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 350;\" class=\"wp-image-59911\" title=\"Second chances in a relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>Between people who have been together for a long time, something we call 'bond' develops. We humans are not only <em>social<\/em> beings, but also, and especially, <em>bonding<\/em> beings. Bonding is, so to speak, part of our very being and cannot simply be shed. Our partner becomes a part of our life story, of our own self \u2013 even if the relationship wasn't always experienced as passionate and loving.<\/p><p>The vital importance of bonding is explained in psychology by the fact that it is an evolutionary achievement intended to ensure the safe upbringing of offspring and, later, the cohesion of a pair to facilitate the raising of the next generation. This existential significance explains why the associated feelings are so powerful.<\/p><p>Love creates bonds, and bonds sustain love. <em>The longer a relationship lasts, the stronger the forces of connection become.<\/em> However, it's often believed that passionate love inevitably evolves into companionship over the years. Scientific studies show that this isn't always the case. Lifelong relationships tend to follow phases. Depending on the personal development of each partner and how they nurture the relationship, there will be periods of greater and lesser passion and intimacy. A waning of romantic love is not inevitable. Even if it diminishes temporarily, whether or not greater closeness and feelings of love will return depends on how the relationship continues to develop.<\/p><p><em><strong>So far, so good. But why do people fall in love despite being in a relationship?<\/strong><\/em><br> On the one hand, we humans are creatures of habit \u2013 valuing reliability, familiarity, and predictability \u2013 and on the other hand, we are constantly searching for new, intense, and exciting experiences and emotional states.<\/p><p>The constant, familiar emotions often fade in our perception and become a kind of background noise. New, unusual, and unpredictable things capture our attention. This can then lead us, during a period of lacking intimacy, to massively <em>underestimate<\/em><br> the deep bond we've built with our long-term partner and <em>overestimate<\/em> the quality (and future viability) of a new attraction .<em><\/em><em><\/em><\/p><p>When a breakup finally occurs, there is often a rude awakening. <br>The old clich\u00e9 of \"I didn't appreciate it until I lost it\" becomes a bitter reality.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028321\"><strong>Should I tell my partner that I'm in love with someone else?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a374249c3\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-52480\" data-id=\"52480\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"In love despite being in a relationship: Should I tell my partner?\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928c025697\" data-height=\"429\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a arguing couple sitting on the sofa, with the woman covering her ears.\" data-id=\"52480\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Verliebt-trotz-Beziehung-dem-Partner-erzaehlen.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c34d44a6a\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-52480\" title=\"How to communicate when you're in love despite being in a relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>The answer is almost always: No! <br>As a rule, it is better to first bring order to your own emotional world.<\/p><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">It's advisable to think things through before confronting your partner with your own jumbled feelings. If you thoughtlessly confront your partner with your own emotional turmoil, you might ruin your chances of a future together.<\/p><p>Be aware: The news of your sudden infatuation will most likely deeply unsettle and hurt your partner. He may no longer reciprocate the same trusting love and affection as before, at least for an extended period. Infatuation with someone else or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/fremdgehen\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">infidelity<\/a> is often accompanied by profound emotional wounds. The atmosphere between you could initially be characterized by mistrust, making it even more difficult for you to <em>calmly<\/em> assess your own feelings and decide on the next steps.<\/p><p>Therefore, for the sake of everyone involved, take the time to gain as much clarity as possible about your own emotions before making a far-reaching\u2014and potentially irreversible\u2014decision or even mistakes. You can also seek advice from professional therapists or trusted friends to gain a clearer perspective.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\" id=\"tve-jump-191eed96541\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028322\"><strong>Breakup or not? Questions you absolutely should be asking yourself now.<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a37452215\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-52482\" data-id=\"52482\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"478\" title=\"In love despite being in a relationship: Break up or not?\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 478;\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928c1314e4\" data-height=\"424\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple sitting sadly at a table, contemplating their shared future with the help of signposts.\" data-id=\"52955\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"457\" data-init-height=\"478\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Verliebt-trotz-Beziehung-Trennung.webp\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c34d4557f\" data-height=\"457\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 478;\" class=\"wp-image-52955\" title=\"In love despite being in a relationship; when to break up\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>Before you embark on an affair or second relationship (or continue to hold onto one) or even consider separating from your partner and thinking about a serious attempt at a relationship with the other person, you should answer the following questions:<\/p><ol class=\"\"><li>Would I really be ready to leave my existing relationship and my life as I know it behind?<\/li><li>Have I (or have we) already tried everything to breathe more life back into our relationship?<\/li><li>Am I convinced that a sustainable love relationship can develop from my current infatuation?<\/li><li>Could I live with the consequences if I were to lose my steady partner \u2013 if my current crush and I didn't become a couple and our current relationship could potentially be damaged?<\/li><li>Do I take enough care \u2013 even outside of our relationship \u2013 to ensure that I am well and that my life is fulfilling?<\/li><\/ol><p>Only if you have answered all questions with a (at least relatively) clear \"yes\" does it make sense at this point to think more concretely about separating from your partner and attempting a relationship with the 'third person'.<\/p><p>Otherwise, you should take as much time as possible to sort things out internally. There is no acute emergency that would force you to make a hasty decision.<\/p><p>You can find more blog posts on the topic of \"separation\" <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung\/\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a> .&nbsp;<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693144028323\"><strong>Take action!<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>To remain consistent with one's own biography in the long term, it is important to be able to say to oneself later on \u2013 regardless of what the future ultimately brings:<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li><em><strong>I didn't throw away our established relationship lightly.<\/strong><\/em><\/li><li><em><strong>I gave our relationship a real chance when I was having doubts.<\/strong><\/em><\/li><li><em><strong>I did everything I could to try and re-establish closer ties.<\/strong><\/em><\/li><\/ul><p>Many studies show that the atmosphere and sense of togetherness in a relationship can change for the better within weeks. Take action! Give yourself and your partner another fair chance and calmly examine your feelings for the 'third person' as well as your willingness to completely turn your life upside down again \u2013 with all the consequences.<\/p><p>Such a phase of reflection and taking time is important in any case: If it ultimately comes to a separation from your partner and a fresh start with the person you have (newly or again) fallen in love with, you will start with a much greater chance that this new relationship will also be successful.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693296045180\"><strong>Consider the beginnings of your growing partnership!<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a374af580\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-49177\" data-id=\"49177\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"A tip for those who are in love despite being in a relationship: Look to the past.\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928c1857a5\" data-height=\"429\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple sitting on a pile of hearts, thinking about the past in thought bubbles.\" data-id=\"49177\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Verliebt-trotz-Beziehung-Erinnerungen-Vergangenheit.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c34d47fb3\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-49177\" title=\"Relationship: A Look into the Past\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>In a period of great uncertainty, it is all the more important to pause and look at one's past relationship history with as calm a perspective as possible:<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li>What were we like when we met and fell in love?<\/li><li>How did we treat each other?<\/li><li>What was special about us? What made us who we were?<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693296045181\"><strong>And then: What happened next?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><ul class=\"\"><li>Have we continued to treat each other with the same respect and attention throughout our relationship as we did at the beginning?<\/li><li>Have we held each other tightly lately? Kissed each other for longer than a fleeting moment? Greeted and said goodbye to each other affectionately?<\/li><li>Did we support each other (in which areas was it easier for us, in which more difficult)?<\/li><li>Were we interested in how the other person was doing? Did we feel seen and heard?<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693296045182\"><strong>Ask yourself: What do you see when you focus the spotlight on the positive aspects of your partnership?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><ul class=\"\"><li>What were (and are) our strengths as a couple?<\/li><li>What did we accomplish well together? What can we be proud of? Why did we succeed?<\/li><li>What wonderful experiences did we share? What do I fondly remember?<\/li><li>What have I liked and appreciated about my partner so far?<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693296045183\"><strong>What images come to mind when you think about a future together with your current crush?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><ul class=\"\"><li>What will likely remain after the initial infatuation has faded?<\/li><li>Will I still like about him (her) later what I find particularly fascinating now?<\/li><li>Do we have what it takes to become a strong team in the long term?<\/li><li>How could I fit into his (her) life?<\/li><li>To what extent could he (she) 'fit' into my life so far (circle of friends, family, children, job, interests)?<\/li><li>Will I still look at him (her) with those head-over-heels eyes in the future?&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693058012268\"><strong>Test: How is your relationship really doing?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>To help you make your decision, you can take our scientifically developed CoupleBalance relationship test (free of charge).<\/p><p>Take a moment to step away from the current emotional turmoil and examine your existing partnership or marriage from a bird's-eye view:<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li>How am I <em>experiencing<\/em> my relationship right now?<\/li><li>How am I currently <em>shaping<\/em> my partnership?<\/li><\/ul><p>The test is free of charge. 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If feelings in a long-term partnership become too commonplace, another person can quickly be perceived as exciting, and one might even fall head over heels in love with him or her \u2013 especially during a more distant phase of the relationship.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8462\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8463\" id=\"t-1698675235411\"><strong><strong><strong>Does love automatically fade in a long-term relationship?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8464\">According to scientific studies, love doesn't automatically diminish in long-term relationships. However, long-term relationships do go through phases. It's important to realize that feelings change over the years. For many couples, infatuation develops into deep connection and love. However, the butterflies in the stomach rarely flutter anymore.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8462\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8463\" id=\"t-1698675235412\"><strong><strong><strong>Should you talk to your partner about being in love with someone else?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8464\">Experience in couples therapy shows: Don't have this conversation until your own feelings and thoughts are somewhat sorted out. After all, this conversation would very likely make your partner feel extremely insecure and damage their trust. This makes it all the more difficult to sort out the current emotional turmoil and could potentially destroy any chance of a future together.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8462\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8463\" id=\"t-1698675235413\"><strong><strong><strong>Should you break up with your partner if you're in love with someone else?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8464\">A hasty <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/\">breakup, even if you still love each other,<\/a> is not advisable. Have you truly invested enough heart and soul into the current relationship? Are you prepared to permanently leave behind this established partnership \u2013 with all the consequences, even if no new relationship develops? Don't do anything rash that can't be undone.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8462\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8463\" id=\"t-1698675235414\"><strong><strong><strong>In love despite being in a relationship. What happens now?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Before deciding to end a relationship and rushing into a new one, you should give the old one a fair chance. Think back to how it all began. How did the relationship develop? Are there still loving gestures and support between you? What would happen with the other person after the initial infatuation faded? Would your life plans even be compatible?<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8462\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8463\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>How long does infatuation with someone else last?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-18b80ef8464\" style=\"\">The duration of infatuation with someone else varies greatly. It depends on the intensity of the feelings, satisfaction (or dissatisfaction) in the existing relationship, and individual life circumstances. Some people experience intense infatuation with someone else only for a short time and can move on relatively quickly. For others, infatuation with someone else can last for several weeks or even months. 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font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f92\"] strong { font-weight: 600 !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f93\"] { --g-regular-weight: 400; --g-bold-weight: 500; font-family: \"Noto Sans\" !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; font-size: 11px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f93\"] strong { font-weight: 500 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f92\"] { font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f94\"] { margin-bottom: 30px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f95\"] { max-width: 30%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f96\"] { max-width: 850px; --tve-alignment: left; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; margin: 0px auto 50px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f97\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; line-height: 1.25em !important; font-size: 14px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3d49f98\"] { max-width: 70%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18c87c57880\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d2f7917d\"] { width: 100%; --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; margin-bottom: 20px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d362bfda\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac60\"] { --g-regular-weight: 400; --g-bold-weight: 700; border-width: medium; border-style: none; border-color: currentcolor; border-image: initial; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,rgb(127,127,127)); --tve-color: rgb(127,127,127); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(127,127,127); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-bold-weight,bold)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; padding: 8px 15px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-image: none !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac60\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) ) !important; --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac60\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac61\"] { --tve-toc-indent: 15px; max-width: 100%; float: none; --tcb-local-color-f1170: rgba(65,178,233,0.7); position: relative; display: block; overflow: hidden; padding-right: 1px !important; margin: 30px auto 0px !important; --tcb-local-color-a027f: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tcb-local-color-21e68: rgb(184,211,255) !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 100% !important; z-index: 3 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac61\"] .tve-toc-title-icon { color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; font-size: 15px !important; width: 15px !important; height: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac62\"] { --tve-border-width: 0px; --tve-border-radius: 0px; background-image: none !important; border-radius: 0px !important; border-width: medium !important; border-style: none !important; border-color: currentcolor !important; border-image: initial !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; --background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] { --tve-font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold); --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-font-size: 16px; border-top-left-radius: 10px; border-top-right-radius: 10px; overflow: hidden; border-bottom-right-radius: 0px !important; border-bottom-left-radius: 0px !important; background-image: linear-gradient(var(--tcb-local-color-a027f),var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --tve-applied-background-image: linear-gradient(var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f),var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; padding: 17px 15px 12px 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; z-index: 3 !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] blockquote, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] address, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] .tcb-plain-text, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] label { font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-bold-weight,bold)); font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] blockquote, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] address, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] .tcb-plain-text, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] label, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] h1, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] h2, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] h3, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] h4, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] h5, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] h6 { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac64\"] { overflow: visible; padding: 0px 15px 10px 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac65\"] { overflow: hidden; border-radius: 0px 0px 12px 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac65\"] { background-image: none !important; --background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] > .tve-content-box-background { background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"].tve-state-expanded > .tve-content-box-background { background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"].tve-state-expanded { overflow: hidden; --animation-angle: -90deg; border-bottom-right-radius: 10px !important; border-bottom-left-radius: 10px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"]:hover:not(.tve-state-expanded) { border-bottom-right-radius: 0px !important; overflow: hidden !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac66\"] { line-height: 1.2em !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac67\"] .tve_sep { background-image: url(\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg viewBox='0 0 12 2' xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg' transform='rotate(90)'%3E%3Cline x1='0' y1='1' x2='12' y2='1' stroke='rgb(217,217,217)' stroke-dasharray='4' stroke-width='3' \/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\"); --tve-applied-background-image: url(\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg viewBox='0 0 12 2' xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg' transform='rotate(90)'%3E%3Cline x1='0' y1='1' x2='12' y2='1' stroke='rgb(217,217,217)' stroke-dasharray='4' stroke-width='3' \/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\"); background-size: 2px 2px; background-position: center top; width: 2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"].tve-state-expanded .tve-toc-title-icon { font-size: 15px !important; width: 15px !important; height: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac68\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac69\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6a\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6b\"] { --g-regular-weight: 400; --g-bold-weight: 700; border-width: medium medium 2px; border-style: none none dotted; border-color: currentcolor currentcolor rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.1); border-image: initial; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,rgb(80,80,80)); --tve-color: rgb(80,80,80); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(80,80,80); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(80,80,80)); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(80,80,80); padding: 8px 15px !important; background-image: none !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6b\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6b\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); border-left-width: medium; border-left-style: none; border-left-color: currentcolor; background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac66\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; color: var(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 18px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac66\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac63\"] .tve-toc-title-icon { color: var(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; font-size: 18px !important; width: 18px !important; height: 18px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6c\"] { padding-left: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac64\"] > .tve-cb { display: block; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac61\"] > .tve-cb { display: block; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; border-width: medium; border-style: none; border-color: currentcolor; border-image: initial; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-color-7)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-color-7); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; --tve-border-width: 0px; --tve-applied-border: none; font-family: var(--tve-font-family,Mulish); --tve-font-family: Mulish; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,var$(--tcb-color-7)); --tve-applied---tve-color: var$(--tcb-color-7); text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline); --tve-text-decoration: underline; padding: 5px 15px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 2px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(23,67,120)) !important; --tve-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(23,67,120)) !important; --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)) !important; --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899ac6d\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); border-left: 2px solid var(--tcb-local-color-f1170); background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d899bfd4\"] { margin-top: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47826\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: none; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none; --tve-border-width: 0px; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; border-width: medium !important; border-style: none !important; border-color: currentcolor !important; border-image: initial !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47827\"] { max-width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; padding: 15px 15px 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47828\"] { padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 18px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47829\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191eed4782a\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191eed4782b\"] { line-height: 1.5em !important; padding-top: 6px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191eed47829\"] li { margin-bottom: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75618\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: none; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none; --tve-border-width: 0px; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; border-width: medium !important; border-style: none !important; border-color: currentcolor !important; border-image: initial !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561a\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; padding: 15px 15px 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; z-index: 10 !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561b\"] { padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 18px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper { width: calc(100% + 0px); }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n+2) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n+2)) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n) { margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"] { border-radius: 0px; overflow: hidden; margin: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561d\"] { max-width: 17.1992%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561e\"] { max-width: 82.7998%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561f\"] { margin-left: -30px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75620\"] { margin: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561f\"] > .tcb-flex-col { padding-left: 30px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper { border-bottom-width: medium; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-color: currentcolor; border-top-width: medium; border-top-style: none; border-top-color: currentcolor; --tve-border-width: 0px; padding: 5px 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper:hover { background-color: rgba(183, 183, 183, 0.05) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper::after { background-attachment: scroll; background-image: none; background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat; background-size: auto; background-color: rgba(183, 183, 183, 0.05) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] { --tve-font-size: 14px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75622\"] { border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-radius: 5px; background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; --background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; background-size: cover !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --background-size: cover !important; --background-position: 50% 50% !important; --background-attachment: scroll !important; --background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75623\"] { width: 230px; float: none; max-width: 105px; margin: 0px auto !important; padding: 0px !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 79% !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list .thrv-content-box [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75624\"] { height: 105px !important; --tve-applied-height: 105px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75623\"]:hover [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75622\"] { background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; background-size: cover !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] a, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] ul, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] ul > li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] ol, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] ol > li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] h1, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] h2, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] h3, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] h4, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] h5, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] h6, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] blockquote > p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75621\"] pre { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,14px); }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fba75627\"] { justify-content: flex-start !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fba7561c\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n)) { margin-right: 30px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a374165c2\"] .tve_image_frame { height: 250.49px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19208cde1c5\"] { margin-top: -1.015px; margin-left: 0px; width: 100% !important; max-width: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928bfc1c5f\"] { width: 30px; --tve-alignment: center; float: none; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; margin-top: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928bfc1c5f\"] img { opacity: 0.7; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb44fa\"] { --tve-border-radius: 214px; border-radius: 214px; overflow: hidden; width: 45px; position: absolute; top: 8px; left: 0px; margin-top: 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb44fb\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 12px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb44fc\"] { text-decoration-line: none !important; text-decoration-thickness: initial !important; text-decoration-style: initial !important; --eff: none !important; text-decoration-color: var(--eff-color,currentColor) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb44fd\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb44ff\"] { padding-left: 54px !important; margin-top: 7px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4500\"] { padding-left: 54px !important; padding-top: 1px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4501\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4502\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px 10px 10px 15px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4503\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4504\"] { --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4505\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; text-decoration-line: none !important; text-decoration-thickness: initial !important; text-decoration-style: initial !important; text-decoration-color: var(--tcb-text-decoration-color,initial) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4506\"] { color: var(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; font-size: 14px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4507\"] { font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; box-shadow: none !important; border-bottom-width: medium !important; border-bottom-style: none !important; border-bottom-color: currentcolor !important; background: none !important; text-decoration: none !important; transition: none !important; padding-left: 0px !important; --eff: none !important; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4507\"]:hover { text-decoration: none !important; background: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4508\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4509\"] { max-width: 50%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb450a\"] { background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb450b\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4508\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb450c\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 5px 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb450d\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb450e\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-border-top-left-radius: 5px; border-top-left-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-top-right-radius: 5px; border-top-right-radius: 5px; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; margin-right: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb450f\"] { max-width: 50%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4510\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; padding-top: 0px !important; justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4511\"] .tve_sep { width: 100%; border-width: 2px !important; border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4511\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; padding-top: 15px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4512\"] .tve_sep { width: 100%; border-width: 2px !important; border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb4512\"] { padding-top: 15px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd2\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 12px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd3\"] { font-size: 25px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 25px; height: 25px; --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2); --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2); --tve-icon-size: 25px; border-width: medium; border-style: none; border-color: currentcolor; border-image: initial; border-radius: 0px; --tve-applied-border: none; background-size: auto; background-attachment: scroll, scroll, scroll; background-position: 50% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat; padding: 0px !important; background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; --background-image: none !important; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd3\"] > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2); }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd4\"] { --tve-border-radius: 100px; border-radius: 100px; overflow: hidden; background-color: var(--tcb-color-6) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-6) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-6) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd5\"] { float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; max-width: 60px; padding: 10px !important; margin: 0px auto 0px 6px !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 60px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd6\"] { min-height: 25px !important; --tve-applied-min-height: 25px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd7\"] { max-width: 15%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd8\"] { max-width: 84.9991%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bd9\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; margin-top: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bda\"] { padding-left: 10px !important; padding-top: 1px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; padding-bottom: 1px !important; margin-bottom: 5px !important; margin-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bdb\"] > .tcb-flex-col { padding-left: 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bdb\"] { margin-left: 0px !important; padding-top: 10px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; padding-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bdc\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bdd\"] { justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bde\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; padding-top: 0px !important; justify-content: flex-start !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bdf\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 5px; border-bottom-right-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 5px; border-bottom-left-radius: 5px; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; margin-right: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be0\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be1\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be2\"] { max-width: 50%; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be0\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be3\"] { margin-top: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 5px 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be4\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be5\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be6\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be7\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be8\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5be9\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bea\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5beb\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 5px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bed\"] { padding-top: 3px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bee\"] { padding-left: 10px !important; padding-top: 2px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; padding-bottom: 5px !important; margin-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bef\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bef\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bef\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bf0\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bf0\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bf0\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfbb5bf1\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; 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