{"id":65945,"date":"2022-08-28T00:17:17","date_gmt":"2022-08-27T22:17:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/"},"modified":"2026-05-05T07:45:21","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T05:45:21","slug":"trennung-trotz-liebe","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/","title":{"rendered":"Breakup despite love: What to do? Tips from couples therapists"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-tcb-events=\"\"><img alt='Standard Blog-Post' src='https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&#038;d=https%3A%2F%2Fb3247eyo-a.myrdbx.io%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&#038;r=g' srcset='https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=512&#038;d=https%3A%2F%2Fb3247eyo-a.myrdbx.io%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&#038;r=g 2x' class='avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo tve_image' height='256' width='256'  data-d-f=\"author\" title=\"Standard Blog-Post\" width=\"500\" height=\"500\" loading='lazy' decoding='async'\/><\/span><span data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_author_name\" data-shortcode-name=\"Author name\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/author\/jgastner\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Dr. Judith Gastner&quot;,&quot;data-css&quot;:&quot;tve-u-192dfccc19c&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19c\" style=\"text-decoration: none;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/author\/jgastner\/\" title=\"Dr. Judith Gastner\">Dr. Judith Gastner<\/a><\/span><span style=\"\">Paartherapeutin und Psychotherapeutin<\/span><span style=\"\">Category:<\/span><span data-attr-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc191\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/category\/trennung\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Separation &amp; Separation on time&quot;,&quot;data-css&quot;:&quot;tve-u-192dfccc191&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_categories\" data-shortcode-name=\"List of categories\" style=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/category\/trennung\/\" title=\"Separation &amp; Separation on time\">Separation &amp; Separation on time<\/a><\/span><span>Article last updated on <span data-attr-date-format=\"j. 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Dezember 2025 <\/span><\/span><strong><span style=\"\">Quality assurance<\/span><\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/prof-dr-ludwig-schindler\/\" style=\"outline: none;\"><span>Prof. Dr. Dr. Ludwig Schindler<\/span><\/a><span style=\"\">Share this article \ud83d\udc47\ud83c\udffb<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/wa.me\/?text=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><a href=\"mailto:?subject=Trennung trotz Liebe: Wann ist sie sinnvoll?&amp;body=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden: https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/t.me\/share\/url?url=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/&amp;text=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden:\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/&amp;text=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden:\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a><a href=\"#\" target=\"_blank\"><\/a>[tcb-script]document.addEventListener(&#8220;DOMContentLoaded&#8221;, function() {    const copyLinks = document.querySelectorAll(&#8220;.copy-link&#8221;);    copyLinks.forEach(link =&gt; {        link.addEventListener(&#8220;click&#8221;, function(event) {            event.preventDefault();            const textToCopy = &#8220;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/trennung-trotz-liebe\/&#8221;;            navigator.clipboard.writeText(textToCopy).then(function() {                alert(&#8220;Link wurde in die Zwischenablage kopiert!&#8221;);            }).catch(function(error) {                alert(&#8220;Fehler beim Kopieren des Links: &#8221; + error);            });        });    });});[\/tcb-script]<span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple in front of a sign: the decision is to separate.\" data-id=\"59357\" data-init-width=\"800\" data-init-height=\"260\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Artikel-Header-Trennung-trotz-Liebe.jpg\" data-width=\"734\" data-height=\"238\" width=\"734\" height=\"238\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 260;\" title=\"Article Header: Breakup Despite Love\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><em><em><em>Should we <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/soll-ich-mich-trennen\/\"><em>separate even though <\/em><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-ich-ihn-noch\/\"><em>love<\/em><\/a><em> is still <\/em><em>there? Should we continue life alone, without our trusted partner? &#8211; When should we fight for our relationship with all our might, and what are the arguments for letting go of each other?<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-ich-ihn-noch\/\"><em><\/em><\/a><em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Quick start: Breakup despite love&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\"><span style=\"\"><strong>Reasons:&nbsp; Problems such as persistent misunderstandings, differing visions for the future, or poor communication often lead to a breakup. <\/strong><a href=\"#tve-jump-191fe65630f\" style=\"outline: none;\">Learn<\/a> how to identify your personal reasons and address them openly here. \u2193<a href=\"#tve-jump-191fe65630f\" style=\"outline: none;\"><\/a><br \/><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span><strong>Breakup due to an affair:<\/strong> An affair often strikes at the heart of a relationship and puts trust to a severe test. But does infidelity necessarily mean the end? Not always! <a href=\"#tve-jump-191fe6948e6\" style=\"outline: none;\">Read more here \u2193<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"\"><span style=\"\"><strong>A second chance for love:<\/strong> Even if you&#8217;re considering breaking up, it&#8217;s often worth reconsidering the relationship. Professional support can help you find new paths forward \u2013 <a href=\"#tve-jump-191fe669956\" style=\"outline: none;\">read on to find out how.\u2193<\/a><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Breakups are among the most emotionally impactful and stressful experiences in our lives &#8211; and this also applies to couples who have not felt truly connected or &#8216;liked&#8217; each other for a long time.<\/p>\n<p><strong>However, it becomes truly painful when love is still there &#8211; and yet a separation is on the horizon.<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\">What are the possible reasons for a <strong>breakup despite love<\/strong> ?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\">Why do couples repeatedly choose to end a relationship despite loving each other?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\">When is this advisable from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/?p=58095\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">a couples therapy perspective ?<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>When not?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"\"><strong>You can find out more about this topic in our blog article.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\ud83d\ude80 Already <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">65,511 people<\/span> have gained clarity through the test.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820218\"><strong>Beware of unprofessional advisors!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>In planning this article, we first looked around a bit in the vicinity of Dr. Google for the keyword \u201cseparation despite love\u201d to get a sense of what can already be found &#8216;on the net&#8217; about this not so rare topic.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, we would like to issue a warning at this point:<\/p>\n<p><strong>The first search results for \u201cseparation despite love\u201d included several articles that, in our opinion, far too readily recommend ending what we believe to be a generally stable relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As relationship researchers and long-time couple therapists, we would like to emphasize how important professional support is:<\/p>\n<p>Many of the reasons given there for why a relationship should be ended do not, in most cases, constitute valid arguments for a final separation \u2013 especially not in the case of a potential \u201cseparation despite love\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If there is still a good deal of affection, connection and love between the partners, then separating \u2013 even though they <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebt-er-mich-noch\/\"><strong>love<\/strong><\/a><strong> each other \u2013 is only very rarely advisable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820219\"><strong>Avoid separation &#8211; why?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">One of the most important principles in research on relationships and happiness is:<\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><strong>It&#8217;s better to experience something new with an old partner than to repeat the same old things with a new partner.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple looking at each other with hearts while doing a handstand\" data-id=\"48941\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"457\" data-init-height=\"478\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Liebe-ich-ihn-noch-Was-tun-Loesung-Tipps.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"457\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 478;\" title=\"Do I still love him? Test\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Ready for a few changes? Sometimes, just a few adjustments are needed (without turning your whole life upside down) for both of you to feel significantly better immediately (again).<\/p>\n<p>Divorce is one of <em>the<\/em> most drastic and stressful life events imaginable. We humans are attachment beings \u2013 a bond that has grown over time cannot simply be severed. It is almost always worthwhile to fight for a relationship and not end it hastily \u2013 due to (usually surmountable) challenges or (temporary) headwinds \u2013 especially if both partners still feel love, if there is a family involved, and\/or if much in the shared history of the relationship was or still is good.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In the following sections, we will take a closer look at the reasons for ending a relationship and the possible solutions for the many &#8216;other cases&#8217;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820220\"><strong>First and foremost: Honestly examine the various issues in your relationship!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">If we have the impression that things aren&#8217;t (or no longer are) going smoothly in our partnership, we should <u>n&#8217;t<\/u> end the relationship as quickly as possible and break up with each other forever. Instead, we should first do everything we can to understand as precisely as possible why and in which areas the problems are currently occurring.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A clear view of the resources and challenges in the couple relationship, as well as the search for causes and reasons for the current dissatisfaction, are the most important prerequisites for taking the right path forward.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820221\"><strong>How is your relationship doing right now? Take the test! (free)<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>For this purpose, the renowned relationship expert Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler and colleagues developed the scientifically based CoupleBalance relationship test (for German-speaking countries). It allows people in existing partnerships to see the most important aspects of their relationship quality and the challenges they face in their partnership at a glance.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\">Where do our strengths lie?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\">Where and why is it creaking?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\">What exactly do we need to feel better as quickly as possible?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>What constitutes a fulfilling love?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Using the test results, a personal relationship profile is created for you, giving you an immediate overview of where you currently stand in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Find out if and how your relationship still has a real chance of becoming happy (or happier) again &#8211; or most likely not.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Take your relationship test now! (free)<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>How is your relationship? <br \/>What are your strengths and weaknesses?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Flyer from PaarBalance Online Coaching with personal relationship profile for relationship problems\" data-id=\"53041\" data-init-width=\"1000\" data-init-height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/beziehungsprofil.webp\" data-width=\"212\" data-height=\"212\" width=\"212\" height=\"212\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1000 \/ 1000;\" title=\"Relationship profile Relationship test\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p>You will find out immediately afterwards in your personal PaarBalance relationship profile (free).<\/p>\n<p><strong>Start your relationship test now!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"\">\u2713 Scientifically sound <br \/>\u2713 Includes detailed analysis <br \/>\u2713 Your data will not be shared <br \/>\u2713 100% free &amp; non-binding<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">100% secure. We comply with data protection regulations. Registration for the relationship test is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">free<\/span> . <br \/>Please read this important information beforehand: <br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/datenschutzerklaerung\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">Data Protection<\/a> &nbsp;\u1427 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/agb\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">Terms and Conditions<\/a> &nbsp;\u1427 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/allgemeine-informationsvertragsbedingungen\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">General Information Agreement Terms and Conditions<\/a> &nbsp;. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Transparenzerklaerung.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\">Transparency Statement<\/a><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820222\"><strong>The most important questions you should ask yourself now<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Before you continue reading, you should try to answer the following two basic questions intuitively:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Do I <strong><em>basically<\/em><\/strong> want to continue my relationship? <br \/>-&gt; (rather) YES\/(rather) NO<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Do I feel that my partner <strong><em>basically<\/em><\/strong> wants to continue our relationship? <br \/>-&gt; (rather) YES\/(rather) NO<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Very important: Listen to your gut feeling at this point!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you perceive a clear &#8220;NO!&#8221; within yourself?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Does this mean you no longer feel a sense of &#8220;we&#8221;, you no longer believe that you can be happy together, and the idea of \u200b\u200bcontinuing to share life into old age perhaps even fills you with vague anxiety?<\/p>\n<p>-&gt; Then a &#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-auf-zeit\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">temporary separation<\/a> &#8221; could be the next important step to experience what life without each other is <em>really like or <\/em><em>would<\/em> feel like in the long term .<\/p>\n<p>Are you prepared for a <strong>separation with all its consequences ?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So you are absolutely sure that you want to separate permanently and no longer need a &#8216;test phase&#8217; (in the sense of a temporary separation)?<\/p>\n<p>-&gt; Then, <strong>accompanying mediation<\/strong> for the specific steps of the separation should be considered &#8211; especially if a fair arrangement regarding shared children, pets or shared property needs to be found.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Is your intuitive answer &#8220;YES!&#8221;?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Does that mean you still like each other and would &#8216;actually&#8217; prefer to stay together?<\/p>\n<p>Then you should seriously consider how a (possibly already severely) strained relationship can be transformed so that both partners once again experience being together as enriching. Read the entire blog article to the end in peace and quiet, ideally without interruptions.<\/p>\n<p><strong>It is quite &#8216;normal&#8217; that we often find it difficult to focus our &#8216;inner spotlight&#8217; on the positive aspects of our partnership.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Our &#8216;internal critic&#8217; persistently points out when something is not the way we would like it to be, and often whispers phrases in our ear such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>You no longer treat each other with respect.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Your trust has been damaged.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>You let yourself be treated too much!<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>You don&#8217;t talk to each other nearly enough &#8211; and certainly not honestly.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>It scares you to think about the future with him\/her.<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>When was the last time you two had a relaxed period?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Didn&#8217;t you say yourself recently that you&#8217;re no longer happy?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>You see absolutely no point in torturing yourselves any longer. <\/em><br \/><em>etc. etc.<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Although this voice is an important inner &#8216;warning voice&#8217; and points to areas where there is clearly a need for change, you should currently avoid being fundamentally unsettled by such thoughts and being carried away by (pre)happy decisions.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If there is still love in your relationship and you have been happy together for extended periods in the past, it helps to first remove as much pressure as possible. Consciously allow yourselves a period of reflection \u2013 with an extensive review of the past and an open-ended outlook. Allow yourselves to do things a little differently than before and to try new things without having to immediately commit to a medium- and long-term plan.<\/p>\n<p><strong>You can always separate if necessary &#8211; but usually there are many reasons to first take stock and conduct a reality check:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\">What can likely be changed? What cannot?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"\">Where should we invest energy for change?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>In what respects would more acceptance and composure be needed?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Only then can meaningful further decisions be made.<\/p>\n<p>Before the coaching begins, you can (free of charge) take the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungstest\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">PaarBalance relationship test<\/a> to receive sound feedback on the areas where your resources as a couple lie and where there is concrete potential for improvement.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131946\"><strong>10 typical reasons for a breakup despite love<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>What are the most common reasons why people seriously consider a &#8221; <strong>separation despite love<\/strong> &#8220;? What is experienced as so stressful that at least one of them talks about the topic of separation or that a separation actually occurs?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Even though your personal relationship situation is certainly unique, couples often struggle with similar issues over the course of long-term partnerships \u2013 yet almost no one (not even close friends) really talks about it openly. Fear of loss is, after all, extremely closely related to jealousy\u2026<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Do you recognize your personal \u201crelationship issues\u201d in the following?<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693504820223\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(1) Jealousy<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a jealous Stone Age woman looking angry at her husband with 2 other women\" data-id=\"48981\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"800\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"454\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Emotionale-Abhaengigkeit-Eifersucht.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 454;\" title=\"Dependence on the partner\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;What do you have to do with them?! You can&#8217;t just leave me standing here alone?!&#8221; &#8211; Almost everyone who loves knows moments of jealousy.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Intense jealousy can put a tremendous strain on a relationship. It is sometimes referred to as the &#8220;flip side of the coin of <em>love<\/em> &#8220;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Those who love (and perhaps also have the perception that they love the other person <em>more<\/em> than vice versa) desperately want to &#8216;keep&#8217; their loved one and consequently struggle with fears of loss.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Fear of loss<\/em> is closely linked to <em>jealousy<\/em> &#8230; Unfortunately, these feelings can become so dominant that all the good moments are increasingly pushed into the background. <br \/>In most cases (unless it&#8217;s <em>pathological<\/em> jealousy accompanied by threats and violence), you shouldn&#8217;t end a long-standing, happy relationship\u2014 <em>provided<\/em> the excessively jealous partner is willing to work on their overwhelming feelings.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/eifersucht-bekaempfen\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">In our blog article on fighting jealousy<\/a> , we explain how to overcome attacks of jealousy .<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693504820224\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(2) Extramarital affair<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a man sitting on the ground thinking about his wife's affair\" data-id=\"49066\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"460\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Beziehung-retten-Betrug.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"460\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Saving a relationship when a partner is cheating\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;You&#8217;ll never forget what she\/he did to you!&#8221; &#8211; Yes, unfortunately, that&#8217;s true. <strong>Forgetting<\/strong> an affair is almost impossible. Anyone who wants a fresh start together must find a way to <strong>forgive<\/strong> \u2013 otherwise, there will never be a love based on equality.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Extramarital affairs and infidelity are among the most common causes of a &#8220;separation despite love&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>The stronger the feelings, the more the breach of trust hurts. Often we simply don&#8217;t know (anymore) what could help us lessen the suffering \u2013 except: ending the relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Those who find themselves in such a desperate situation and talk to close friends or acquaintances are often prematurely advised to separate. Although those close to you mean <em>well<\/em> , they may not always be <em>good<\/em> (or objective) advisors. From the perspective of relationship research, there are various constructive ways to deal with infidelity. However, a &#8216;separation despite love&#8217; is usually not the best choice. Those who separate too hastily deprive themselves and their partner of the crucial opportunity to learn from the mess\u2014both individually and together\u2014and ultimately emerge from this disastrous situation as a stronger couple.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Even though it may sound unimaginable at first: Most couples who have managed to stay together despite the relationship catastrophe of infidelity <em>and<\/em> to change important aspects later report an openness and equality they had never experienced before.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>We have also written a separate article on this topic entitled &#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/affaere-verzeihen\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">Forgiving an Affair<\/a> &#8221; \u2197, which should help you in this situation.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693504820225\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(3) Different lifestyles<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a woman lying in bed, one man thinking she's lazy and another thinking she's careless.\" data-id=\"53866\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"768\" height=\"457\" data-init-height=\"436\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Narzisst-erkennen-Verhalten.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"457\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 768 \/ 436;\" title=\"How to recognize narcissists by their behavior\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;How could you do that?!&#8221; or &#8220;Why do you always have different plans than me?!&#8221; &#8211; &#8216; <strong>Opposites attract!&#8217;<\/strong> might be true at the beginning of a relationship. Later on, however, a lot of acceptance, tolerance, and self-care are needed.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">While life plans for the distant future may initially seem secondary in the early stages of a relationship, they gain increasing importance in longer partnerships. Sometimes this importance is so profound that couples ultimately separate \u2013 even though they actually love each other.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If you and your partner have a generally good relationship, the motto is: Find <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/kompromisse-in-der-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\"><strong>compromises<\/strong><\/a><strong> ! <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/kompromisse-in-der-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\"><strong>Compromises<\/strong><\/a><strong> are only good if both parties are willing to compromise to roughly the same extent.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Of course, you can&#8217;t have half a child \u2013 but in many areas, a solution is possible. For example: One partner dreams of traveling the world, while the other is currently focused on their career. In cases like these, a &#8220;temporary separation&#8221; could be considered, allowing both partners to develop their potential without either feeling frustrated or living in conflict with their needs \u2013 while ultimately ensuring they can stay together or find their way back to each other.<\/p>\n<p>However, such a temporary separation needs to be well thought out and well prepared, which is why we <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-auf-zeit\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">have written a separate article on the topic of &#8220;temporary separation&#8221;<\/a> .<\/p>\n<p><strong>In any case, the following applies: Be creative and work together on solutions that you may not have encountered in your environment before and that may initially seem very unconventional.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693504820226\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(4) Unrequited love<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a woman kneeling, looking at a statue of her former happy relationship\" data-id=\"48980\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"800\" height=\"457\" data-init-height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Emotionale-Abhaengigkeit-und-Bindungsangst.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"457\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 450;\" title=\"Fear of commitment and emotional dependency\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;Can you say with certainty that he\/she cares about your relationship as much as you do?&#8221; Answering this question can sometimes hurt &#8211; or open up new perspectives.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\"><strong>Does one partner invest a huge amount in the relationship over a long period of time, but receive hardly anything in return?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Engage in the most open communication possible with your partner to find out if a lack of love is truly the cause of his\/her behavior.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There can also be completely different reasons why &#8216;giving and taking&#8217; (at times) no longer feels balanced.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Worries, personal problems, fear of commitment, stress, introversion and many other factors could play a role here and be mistakenly interpreted as a &#8216;lack of love&#8217;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, it&#8217;s also quite possible that one partner simply <strong><em>loves differently<\/em><\/strong> than the other, meaning they express their affection in a different way than you intuitively do and &#8216;understand&#8217;. For more information, please read <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/5-sprachen-der-liebe\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">our article on the 5 Love Languages<\/a> .<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, considering a separation despite love only makes sense if it has been proven that one partner <em>truly<\/em> feels significantly less than the other.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Otherwise, especially in a relationship constellation that is (still) not perceived as optimal, where there is a conscious effort to find a good way of interacting, lasting positive changes can occur, with which everyone ultimately feels (significantly) more comfortable.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693504820227\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(5) Constant dispute<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Illustration of a arguing couple, where the man is pointing his finger at his partner.\" data-id=\"52954\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Wie-Beziehungen-funktionieren-Beziehungsmythos-Streit.webp\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Argument in relationship\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;Arguments are like a cleansing thunderstorm!&#8221; Oh really? &#8211; At least one of the two partners doesn&#8217;t experience it that way.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Another typical scenario that can lead to couples considering separation, even if they love each other, is when they argue intensely and regularly. Arguments are draining. Arguments hurt. Arguments leave scars.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Strong feelings of love often quickly escalate a delicate situation and can contribute to frequent conflicts. The situation can repeatedly escalate to such a degree that separation \u2013 despite the love \u2013 seems like the only viable solution.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>However, even on this point, couple research offers reassurance:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Even in cases of prolonged and intense conflict escalation, the vicious cycle can often be broken \u2013 if at least <em>one<\/em> of the two parties truly wants to do so and bravely tackles the issue of &#8220;resolving conflicts more constructively&#8221;.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>You can find out how this can be achieved in our article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/staendiger-streit-in-der-beziehung\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">&#8220;Constant arguments in your relationship? Here&#8217;s what you should know!&#8221;<\/a> .<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693504820228\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(6) Too little time for each other<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple with 6 arms holding many objects and overwhelmed by everyday tasks\" data-id=\"48929\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-fehlende-gemeinsame-Zeit.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Lack of shared time in relationship\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">The daily grind can be incredibly draining for couples. Couples who are also parents are all too familiar with the concept of &#8220;mental load&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Especially when love in a partnership is strong (or was <em>very<\/em> strong at the beginning of the relationship), it hurts when there is hardly any time spent together anymore. This can go so far that one partner experiences almost chronic heartbreak and, out of grief and pain, eventually even considers separation \u2013 despite love (and indeed, <em>great<\/em> love!).<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s not a good idea in this particular case. Because <strong>finding more time (in the sense of &#8216;quality time&#8217;) for each other is almost always &#8216;just&#8217; a matter of logistics, setting priorities, and self-organization.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>This article offers suggestions on how to successfully integrate more enriching partner time into everyday life: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/zu-wenig-zeit-in-der-beziehung\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">&#8220;Too little time in the relationship&#8221;<\/a><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693504820229\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(7) Lost Passion<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple lying together in a marital bed, turned sideways away from each other\" data-id=\"48930\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"460\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinandergelebt-Folgen.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"460\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Consequences of growing apart as a couple\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Frustration instead of desire? &#8211; Eroticism changes for all couples over the years. But especially after a lull in desire, it can be exciting to find the right way to reconnect physically and (re)explore each other.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\"><strong>No relationship is as passionate after five years as it was in the first few months.<\/strong> Often, the passion diminishes so much (or even disappears completely) that one&#8217;s own needs are no longer met for an extended period.<\/p>\n<p>In fact, sometimes this even leads to an extremely painful breakup despite love, because one of them longs for the passionate feelings to be rekindled and is convinced that the only solution is a <em>new<\/em> partner.<\/p>\n<p><strong>However, here too we strongly advise you to first make a conscious attempt to (re)discover the buried desire with your <em>current partner.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693504820230\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(8) Lack of respect and interest<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a woman stuffing a rag into her husband's mouth to keep him quiet.\" data-id=\"49018\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Toxische-Beziehung-Emotionen-Drama.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Emotional rollercoaster ride in toxic relationships\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">True love without respect? Doesn&#8217;t exist!<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\"><strong>What helps when one partner becomes increasingly disinterested or even disrespectful towards the other? <br \/><\/strong><strong>-&gt; Clear boundaries and direct communication!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>No one should tolerate disrespect. Even if the other person &#8220;didn&#8217;t mean any harm&#8221; but was simply careless, it&#8217;s important to address it directly and clearly without starting an argument.<\/p>\n<p>If the situation does not improve, it must be clearly stated that things cannot continue this way.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Being regularly belittled or humiliated destroys one&#8217;s self-esteem in the long run. If even after clarifying conversations, a more respectful approach doesn&#8217;t develop, separation (despite love) may ultimately be the best option.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It is highly likely that another partner can be found with whom a loving relationship on equal terms is possible, characterized by respect and goodwill.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1698154131947\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(9) Toxic relationship<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a man talking angrily about housework while his wife looks away in annoyance.\" data-id=\"48850\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Apokalyptischer-Reiter-Paarbeziehung-2-Verachtung.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Contempt in the relationship\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">At the beginning, passionate declarations of love and intimacy \u2013 but shortly afterwards, accusations and blame? Toxic interaction patterns destroy us to our core.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">The term &#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/toxische-beziehung\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">toxic relationship<\/a> &#8221; is being used increasingly without context. Just because a couple occasionally argues or one of them hasn&#8217;t always been 100% honest, doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s a chronically toxic relationship.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, there are relationships that are so characterized by lies, manipulation, threats and blame from one partner and subservience, self-abandonment and unconditional tolerance from the other partner that they can actually be described as &#8220;toxic&#8221; (i.e.: poisonous, toxic, damaging).<\/p>\n<p>In these situations, <strong>separation may ultimately be the only viable option, even if love persists<\/strong> . The manipulative partner often lacks the ability or willingness for the necessary self-reflection, or is not motivated to permanently change their behavior.<\/p>\n<p>To learn how to specifically recognize whether your relationship is toxic, and what you should or shouldn&#8217;t do in this case, read our article: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/toxische-beziehung\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">Toxic Relationship &#8211; How to Recognize It and What to Do?<\/a><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693212124229\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(10) violence<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a knight on horseback riding towards a seated woman with a lance.\" data-id=\"49046\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Beziehung-Krise-psychischen-Stoerung-Sucht-Gewalt.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Relationship crisis due to psychological abuse\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">There can be no compromise when it comes to threats, intimidation, and physical violence. They are an absolute no-go and have nothing to do with love.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Repeated physical violence and a violent partner who is unwilling to control their aggression is indeed one of the few cases where there is no other professional advice besides ending the relationship as soon as possible. You should protect your own health and safety as early as possible.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Unfortunately, in cases of domestic violence, the outbreaks often become more violent and frequent over time, and boundaries are increasingly broken down.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even if you still love your partner, you should definitely put a stop to it before it&#8217;s too late in the worst-case scenario.<\/p>\n<p>You can find competent contacts in such an emergency situation, among other places, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/notfalladressen-mediation\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">at our emergency contact addresses<\/a> .<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131948\"><strong>Why you should (almost always) give your love another chance<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">We have outlined the most common reasons for a &#8216;separation despite love&#8217;. Perhaps you recognized yourself in one or more of the described dynamics, or perhaps there is a completely different, individual reason why you are considering a separation \u2013 even though you &#8216;actually&#8217; still love the person by your side.<\/p>\n<p>Our urgent appeal (provided that you are not involved in a toxic and\/or violent situation):<\/p>\n<p><strong>If love is still palpable and you are not 100% sure whether there can be a future as a couple or not, then in case of doubt, try everything again to save your relationship!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Even if you ultimately conclude that separation (despite love) is the only viable option, you won&#8217;t have to struggle later with the nagging question: &#8220;Did I give up too soon? Should we have given each other another chance? Did we really try everything? What if&#8230;?&#8221;<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131949\"><strong>The uncertainty after the breakup<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Separation from a partner is \u2013 even if ultimately all reasons speak in favor of it \u2013 usually extremely painful and is one of the most stressful so-called &#8216;life events&#8217;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>If uncertainty arises as to whether you have really made the right decision, the emotional crisis is prolonged and worsened.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Furthermore, if children are involved, the feeling of not having tried everything to save the family can potentially stay with you for a lifetime.<\/p>\n<p>Therefore, apart from the aforementioned exceptional cases, it is almost always worthwhile to fight for the relationship again and give each other a fair chance.<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131950\"><strong>Use professional support!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>You&#8217;ve decided to give it your all to save your relationship? Congratulations! Then you&#8217;ve already taken the most important first step. \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Now we can only urge you:<\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><strong>Seek professional support! No one should have to face a relationship\/life crisis alone without professional support.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131951\"><strong>The minefield of relationships<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Anyone actively considering a breakup despite still being in love probably feels like their relationship is a minefield, or their daily life is dominated by the worry that the next misunderstanding or momentary lapse in judgment could ignite another argument in seconds. Both partners often feel emotionally overwhelmed. Unfortunately, hurt feelings can all too easily cloud their judgment.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Such a minefield should be defused as quickly and permanently as possible. To do this, one should know as precisely as possible what to do and what to avoid at all costs. Having a professional explosives expert on hand can be advantageous in this situation. \ud83d\ude09<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ideally, the current danger zone will gradually transform back into a lush green meadow where one can feel safe and comfortable.<\/p>\n<p>If you do not wish to seek personal advice, there are also options to deal with your relationship independently \u2013 regardless of time and place \u2013 within a structured professional framework.<\/p>\n<p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/online-coaching\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">PaarBalance<\/a> offers such a possibility .<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 style=\"\" id=\"t-1693212124232\"><strong>Save your relationship with CoupleBalance &#8211; Scientifically sound help from the comfort of your home<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p style=\"\">The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/online-coaching\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">CoupleBalance coaching program<\/a> provides you with a clear structure that allows you to systematically solve relationship problems and (re)establish your partnership on a firm, harmonious foundation.<\/p>\n<p><span><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Online relationship coaching package shown with an orange button to learn more.\" data-id=\"48902\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"345\" data-init-height=\"361\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Paartherapie-online-mit-dem-PaarBalance-Coaching.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"345\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 361;\" title=\"Online couples therapy, marriage counseling\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Wissenschaftlich fundierter Paartherapie online f\u00fcr den einzelnen Partner? Das gibt es mit dem PaarBalance-Coaching.<\/p>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/online-coaching\/\" style=\"outline: none;\">PaarBalance<\/a> ist das einzige <strong>wissenschaftlich \u00fcberpr\u00fcfte<\/strong>, interaktive <strong>Online-Coaching-Programm<\/strong> zur <strong>Verbesserung von Paarbeziehungen<\/strong> im deutschsprachigen Raum, das auch vom <em>einzelnen<\/em> Partner durchgef\u00fchrt werden kann.<\/p>\n<p>Anhand von 18 Online-Lektionen erhalten Sie praktische Empfehlungen und konkrete Handlungsanweisungen, wie Sie Ihre Beziehungsqualit\u00e4t verbessern, (auch langj\u00e4hrige) Probleme l\u00f6sen, eine Partnerschaft auf Augenh\u00f6he f\u00fchren und wieder zu mehr Leichtigkeit und Lebensfreude finden k\u00f6nnen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Starten Sie Ihr Coaching mit einem klaren Bild Ihrer Beziehung!<\/strong> Nutzen Sie unseren kostenlosen PaarBalance Beziehungstest, um wertvolle Einblicke in Ihre Beziehung zu erhalten. Der Test zeigt Ihnen auf, wo Ihre gemeinsamen St\u00e4rken liegen und in welchen Bereichen Verbesserungspotenzial besteht. So k\u00f6nnen Sie Ihr Coaching gezielt angehen und Ihre Beziehung noch weiter st\u00e4rken.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Vertrauen Sie auf Ihr Bauchgef\u00fchl: Sie wissen selbst am besten, welche Art von Unterst\u00fctzung gerade die passende ist, um eine Entscheidung bei der gro\u00dfen Frage &#8220;Soll ich mich (trotz Liebe) trennen oder sollen wir noch einmal alles versuchen?&#8221; treffen zu k\u00f6nnen. Hauptsache, Sie legen beherzt und konsequent los!!<br \/><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ich w\u00fcnsche Ihnen alles Gute und gr\u00fc\u00dfe Sie herzlich<\/p>\n<p>Ihre Dr. Judith Gastner &amp; das gesamte PaarBalance-Team<\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Passend zum Thema Trennung trotz Liebe<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungspause\/\" dynamic-postlink=\"tcb_post_the_permalink\" data-shortcode-id=\"46446\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1737414743817\" style=\"\"><span data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungspause\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Relationship break: Beginning of the end or chance for a fresh start?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungspause\/\" title=\"Relationship break: Beginning of the end or chance for a fresh start?\" data-css=\"\">Relationship break: Beginning of the end or chance for a fresh start?<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Are you considering taking a break from your relationship? Here you&#8217;ll find sound decision-making support with the most important insights from couples therapy.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungspause\/#more-65913\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/affaere-verzeihen\/\" dynamic-postlink=\"tcb_post_the_permalink\" data-shortcode-id=\"46446\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1737414743817\" style=\"\"><span data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungspause\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Relationship break: Beginning of the end or chance for a fresh start?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/affaere-verzeihen\/\" title=\"Aff\u00e4re verzeihen\" data-css=\"\">Aff\u00e4re verzeihen<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>When an affair comes to light, it shakes a relationship more fundamentally than almost anything else &#8211; regardless of whether the &#8218;cheating&#8216; is a one-time affair, repeated transgressions or a longer affair.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/affaere-verzeihen\/#more-65993\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-auf-zeit\/\" dynamic-postlink=\"tcb_post_the_permalink\" data-shortcode-id=\"46446\"><\/a><\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1737414743817\" style=\"\"><span data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungspause\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Relationship break: Beginning of the end or chance for a fresh start?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\" style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-auf-zeit\/\" title=\"Trennung auf Zeit? Die besten Tipps unserer Paartherapeuten\" data-css=\"\">Trennung auf Zeit? Die besten Tipps unserer Paartherapeuten<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Are you considering a trial separation and wondering if a break in your relationship could be good for you? We can help you gain clarity on whether and under what conditions a &#8218;trial separation&#8216; makes sense for your partnership.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-auf-zeit\/#more-65989\"><\/a><span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/stil\/leib-seele\/wann-eine-trennung-trotz-liebe-richtig-ist-wenn-gefuehle-nicht-reichen-110171202.html\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"61640\" width=\"124\" data-init-width=\"500\" height=\"126\" data-init-height=\"506\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Artikel-FAZ-mit-Judith-Gastner.jpg\" data-width=\"124\" data-height=\"126\" data-link-wrap=\"true\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 500 \/ 506;\"><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"\">Article in FAZ+<\/p>\n<p style=\"\">with contributions by Dr. Judith Gastner<\/p>\n<p style=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/stil\/leib-seele\/wann-eine-trennung-trotz-liebe-richtig-ist-wenn-gefuehle-nicht-reichen-110171202.html\" target=\"_blank\" style=\"outline: none;\"><strong>When to break up \u2013 even if you still love each other<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1690967237765\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/h2>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1685450315605\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Can love lead to a breakup?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">Yes, it&#8217;s possible for couples to separate even though they still love each other. Incompatible life goals, differing ideas about relationships, or irreconcilable conflicts can be the reason. Some couples manage to transform their love into a deep friendship after a period of separation and remain connected.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131952\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>When is a breakup better despite love?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">The decision to separate despite love is often preceded by great inner struggle. It takes courage and self-reflection to recognize that a relationship has no future and that it is probably better to let go and &#8220;release&#8221; each other. It is important that each partner remains true to themselves \u2013 even if the breakup is painful.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131953\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Better to break up or try the relationship again?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 [&quot;contentOptimizer&quot;,{&quot;suggestionId&quot;:&quot;4a04740f-5e57-41eb-9199-3de628a23795-content&quot;,&quot;state&quot;:&quot;written&quot;}]\">The general motto is: &#8220;It&#8217;s better to experience something new with your old partner than to repeat the same old things with a new partner.&#8221; If you still love each other, you should make even more of an effort to overcome existing problems together. Is separation the better option, or should you try the relationship again? Separation makes sense if life plans and personal goals are no longer compatible and you are suffering greatly as a result.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131954\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Is love alone enough for a happy relationship?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">To maintain a lasting, healthy relationship, more than &#8216;just&#8217; infatuation and romantic feelings are usually needed. This includes, among other things, a broad agreement in personal values \u200b\u200band life plans. Tolerance and the ability to compromise are further important ingredients for a stable partnership based on equality.<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131955\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>How to rebuild trust after a breakup, even if you&#8217;re still in love.<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p style=\"\">Breakups are painful, but the feeling of having loved should be cherished. Don&#8217;t rewrite a past relationship. You know you are capable of love. There are so many special people in this world\u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/vertrauen\/\">trust<\/a> that you will meet someone again who will appreciate your love.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Why do couples repeatedly choose to end a relationship despite still being in love? When is this advisable from a couples therapy perspective? 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tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d31dd788\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-59357\" data-id=\"59357\" data-init-width=\"800\" data-init-height=\"260\" title=\"Article Header: Breakup Despite Love\" data-width=\"558\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 260;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b7130a0ef\" data-height=\"181\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple in front of a sign: the decision is to separate.\" data-id=\"59357\" data-init-width=\"800\" data-init-height=\"260\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Artikel-Header-Trennung-trotz-Liebe.jpg\" data-width=\"734\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b7130a0ef\" data-height=\"238\" width=\"734\" height=\"238\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 260;\" class=\"wp-image-59357\" title=\"Article Header: Breakup Despite Love\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d31dd789\"><em><em><em><em>Should we <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/soll-ich-mich-trennen\/\"><em>separate even though <\/em><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-ich-ihn-noch\/\"><em>love<\/em><\/a><em> is still <\/em><em>there? Should we continue life alone, without our trusted partner? - When should we fight for our relationship with all our might, and what are the arguments for letting go of each other?<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-ich-ihn-noch\/\"><em><\/em><\/a><em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/em><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-192bafdf1b3\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-59982\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" data-css=\"tve-u-1920f68b05b\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f3\" style=\"\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 0px; border: none !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f2\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f4\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Quick start: Breakup despite love&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-styled_list tcb-icon-display\" data-icon-code=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f5\" style=\"\"><ul class=\"tcb-styled-list\"><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f6\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8fd\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f7\" style=\"\"><strong>Reasons:&nbsp; Problems such as persistent misunderstandings, differing visions for the future, or poor communication often lead to a breakup. <\/strong><a class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" href=\"#tve-jump-191fe65630f\" style=\"outline: none;\">Learn<\/a> how to identify your personal reasons and address them openly here. \u2193<a class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" href=\"#tve-jump-191fe65630f\" style=\"outline: none;\"><\/a><br><\/span><\/li><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f6\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe6888ea\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f7\"><strong>Breakup due to an affair:<\/strong> An affair often strikes at the heart of a relationship and puts trust to a severe test. But does infidelity necessarily mean the end? Not always! <a href=\"#tve-jump-191fe6948e6\" class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" style=\"outline: none;\">Read more here \u2193<\/a><\/span><\/li><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f6\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8fd\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f7\" style=\"\"><strong>A second chance for love:<\/strong> Even if you're considering breaking up, it's often worth reconsidering the relationship. Professional support can help you find new paths forward \u2013 <a class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" href=\"#tve-jump-191fe669956\" style=\"outline: none;\">read on to find out how.\u2193<\/a><\/span><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-192bafdf1b3\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-59982\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" data-css=\"tve-u-1920f68b05b\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Breakups are among the most emotionally impactful and stressful experiences in our lives - and this also applies to couples who have not felt truly connected or 'liked' each other for a long time.<\/p><p><strong>However, it becomes truly painful when love is still there - and yet a separation is on the horizon.<\/strong><\/p><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc17dd5\">What are the possible reasons for a <strong>breakup despite love<\/strong> ?<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc18606\">Why do couples repeatedly choose to end a relationship despite loving each other?<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc18e87\">When is this advisable from <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/paartherapie-online\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">a couples therapy perspective ?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li>When not?<\/li><\/ul><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d375e276\"><strong>You can find out more about this topic in our blog article.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper 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tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693504820218\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">1.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693504820218\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Beware of unprofessional advisors!<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693504820219\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">2.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693504820219\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Avoid separation - why?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693504820220\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">3.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693504820220\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">First and foremost: Honestly examine the various issues in your relationship!<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693504820221\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">4.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693504820221\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">How is your relationship doing right now? Take the test! (free)<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693504820222\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">5.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693504820222\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">The most important questions you should ask yourself now<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1698154131946\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">6.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1698154131946\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">10 typical reasons for a breakup despite love<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1698154131948\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">7.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1698154131948\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Why you should (almost always) give your love another chance<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1698154131949\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">8.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1698154131949\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">The uncertainty after the breakup<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1698154131950\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">9.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1698154131950\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Use professional support!<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1698154131951\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">10.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1698154131951\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">The minefield of relationships<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693212124232\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">11.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693212124232\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Save your relationship with CoupleBalance - Scientifically sound help from the comfort of your home<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1690967237765\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">12.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1690967237765\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider tve-vert-divider\" data-style=\"tve_sep-1\" data-color-d=\"rgb(217, 217, 217)\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf09\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-4\" data-thickness-d=\"2\"><hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-4\" style=\"\"><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc1aff8\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820218\"><strong>Beware of unprofessional advisors!<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>In planning this article, we first looked around a bit in the vicinity of Dr. Google for the keyword \u201cseparation despite love\u201d to get a sense of what can already be found 'on the net' about this not so rare topic.<\/p><p>Therefore, we would like to issue a warning at this point:<\/p><p><strong>The first search results for \u201cseparation despite love\u201d included several articles that, in our opinion, far too readily recommend ending what we believe to be a generally stable relationship.<\/strong><\/p><p>As relationship researchers and long-time couple therapists, we would like to emphasize how important professional support is:<\/p><p>Many of the reasons given there for why a relationship should be ended do not, in most cases, constitute valid arguments for a final separation \u2013 especially not in the case of a potential \u201cseparation despite love\u201d.<\/p><p><strong>If there is still a good deal of affection, connection and love between the partners, then separating \u2013 even though they <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebt-er-mich-noch\/\"><strong>love<\/strong><\/a><strong> each other \u2013 is only very rarely advisable.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc2382a\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820219\"><strong>Avoid separation - why?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">One of the most important principles in research on relationships and happiness is:<\/p><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc2b7d3\"><strong>It's better to experience something new with an old partner than to repeat the same old things with a new partner.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc2d1d4\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48967\" data-id=\"48967\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"478\" title=\"Separation despite love\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 478;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192d0641672\" data-height=\"424\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple looking at each other with hearts while doing a handstand\" data-id=\"48941\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"457\" data-init-height=\"478\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Liebe-ich-ihn-noch-Was-tun-Loesung-Tipps.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445e727a\" data-height=\"457\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 478;\" class=\"wp-image-48941\" title=\"Do I still love him? Test\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc2d1d6\">Ready for a few changes? Sometimes, just a few adjustments are needed (without turning your whole life upside down) for both of you to feel significantly better immediately (again).<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>Divorce is one of <em>the<\/em> most drastic and stressful life events imaginable. We humans are attachment beings \u2013 a bond that has grown over time cannot simply be severed. It is almost always worthwhile to fight for a relationship and not end it hastily \u2013 due to (usually surmountable) challenges or (temporary) headwinds \u2013 especially if both partners still feel love, if there is a family involved, and\/or if much in the shared history of the relationship was or still is good.<\/p><p><strong>In the following sections, we will take a closer look at the reasons for ending a relationship and the possible solutions for the many 'other cases'.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc3d54e\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820220\"><strong>First and foremost: Honestly examine the various issues in your relationship!<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">If we have the impression that things aren't (or no longer are) going smoothly in our partnership, we should <u>n't<\/u> end the relationship as quickly as possible and break up with each other forever. Instead, we should first do everything we can to understand as precisely as possible why and in which areas the problems are currently occurring.<\/p><p><strong>A clear view of the resources and challenges in the couple relationship, as well as the search for causes and reasons for the current dissatisfaction, are the most important prerequisites for taking the right path forward.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc44833\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820221\"><strong>How is your relationship doing right now? Take the test! (free)<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>For this purpose, the renowned relationship expert Prof. Dr. Ludwig Schindler and colleagues developed the scientifically based CoupleBalance relationship test (for German-speaking countries). It allows people in existing partnerships to see the most important aspects of their relationship quality and the challenges they face in their partnership at a glance.<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc4cd6e\">Where do our strengths lie?<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc4d57d\">Where and why is it creaking?<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc4de69\">What exactly do we need to feel better as quickly as possible?<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li>What constitutes a fulfilling love?<\/li><\/ul><p><strong>Using the test results, a personal relationship profile is created for you, giving you an immediate overview of where you currently stand in your relationship.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Find out if and how your relationship still has a real chance of becoming happy (or happier) again - or most likely not.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c87b984bc\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9aa\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f99c\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc62a1c\" style=\"\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f99e\" style=\"text-align: center;\">Take your relationship test now! (free)<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9ad\" style=\"\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a0\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>How is your relationship? <br>What are your strengths and weaknesses?<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-columns\" style=\"--tcb-col-el-width: 512;\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a8\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-row v-2 tcb--cols--2 tcb-resized\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f99f\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-col c-33\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a9\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886ccb1283\" style=\"\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f99d\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-424 tcb-moved-image\" data-id=\"424\" data-init-width=\"1000\" data-init-height=\"1000\" title=\"Relationship profile\" data-width=\"204\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1000 \/ 1000;\" data-css=\"tve-u-189b52d0ef2\" data-height=\"204\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Flyer from PaarBalance Online Coaching with personal relationship profile for relationship problems\" data-id=\"53041\" data-init-width=\"1000\" data-init-height=\"1000\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/09\/beziehungsprofil.webp\" data-width=\"212\" data-css=\"tve-u-189b52d0ef2\" data-height=\"212\" width=\"212\" height=\"212\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1000 \/ 1000;\" class=\"wp-image-53041\" title=\"Relationship profile Relationship test\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col c-66\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9ac\"><div class=\"tcb-col\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9ae\" style=\"\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a1\">You will find out immediately afterwards in your personal PaarBalance relationship profile (free).<\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a1\"><strong>Start your relationship test now!<\/strong><\/p><p data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a2\" style=\"\">\u2713 Scientifically sound <br>\u2713 Includes detailed analysis <br>\u2713 Your data will not be shared <br>\u2713 100% free &amp; non-binding<\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-button thrv-button-v2 tcb-local-vars-root tcb-flip\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a3\" data-type=\"\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"thrive-colors-palette-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_colors_palette__{\"active_palette\":0,\"config\":{\"colors\":{\"62516\":{\"name\":\"Main Accent\",\"parent\":-1}},\"gradients\":[]},\"palettes\":[{\"name\":\"Default Palette\",\"value\":{\"colors\":{\"62516\":{\"val\":\"var(--tcb-color-0)\"}},\"gradients\":[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__<\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/app.paarbalance.de\/beziehungstest\" class=\"tcb-button-link tcb-plain-text\" style=\"\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"tcb-button-icon\">\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tve_no_icons tcb-icon-inherit-style tcb-local-vars-root tcb-icon-display\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a4\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" data-id=\"icon-arrow-circle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M256 8c137 0 248 111 248 248S393 504 256 504 8 393 8 256 119 8 256 8zm-28.9 143.6l75.5 72.4H120c-13.3 0-24 10.7-24 24v16c0 13.3 10.7 24 24 24h182.6l-75.5 72.4c-9.7 9.3-9.9 24.8-.4 34.3l11 10.9c9.4 9.4 24.6 9.4 33.9 0L404.3 273c9.4-9.4 9.4-24.6 0-33.9L271.6 106.3c-9.4-9.4-24.6-9.4-33.9 0l-11 10.9c-9.5 9.6-9.3 25.1.4 34.4z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div>\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"tcb-button-texts\"><span class=\"tcb-button-text thrv-inline-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a5\" style=\"\"><strong>Start your free relationship test now<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"tcb-secondary-text thrv-inline-text tve-froala fr-box\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a6\" style=\"\"><\/span><\/span>\n<\/a>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9af\" style=\"\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9ab\" style=\"text-align: center;\"><small>100% secure. 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Registration for the relationship test is <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">free<\/span> . <br>Please read this important information beforehand: <\/small><br><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/datenschutzerklaerung\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\"><small>Data Protection<\/small><\/a><small> &nbsp;\u1427 <\/small><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/agb\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\"><small>Terms and Conditions<\/small><\/a><small> &nbsp;\u1427 <\/small><a href=\"\/en\/allgemeine-informationsvertragsbedingungen\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\"><small>General Information Agreement Terms and Conditions<\/small><\/a><small> &nbsp;. <\/small><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/Transparenzerklaerung.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\"><small>Transparency Statement<\/small><\/a><\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc4ff75\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693504820222\"><strong>The most important questions you should ask yourself now<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Before you continue reading, you should try to answer the following two basic questions intuitively:<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li>Do I <strong><em>basically<\/em><\/strong> want to continue my relationship? <br>-&gt; (rather) YES\/(rather) NO<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li>Do I feel that my partner <strong><em>basically<\/em><\/strong> wants to continue our relationship? <br>-&gt; (rather) YES\/(rather) NO<\/li><\/ul><p>Very important: Listen to your gut feeling at this point!<\/p><p><strong>Do you perceive a clear \"NO!\" within yourself?<\/strong><\/p><p>Does this mean you no longer feel a sense of \"we\", you no longer believe that you can be happy together, and the idea of continuing to share life into old age perhaps even fills you with vague anxiety?<\/p><p>-&gt; Then a \" <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-auf-zeit\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">temporary separation<\/a> \" could be the next important step to experience what life without each other is <em>really like or <\/em><em>would<\/em> feel like in the long term .<\/p><p>Are you prepared for a <strong>separation with all its consequences ?<\/strong><\/p><p>So you are absolutely sure that you want to separate permanently and no longer need a 'test phase' (in the sense of a temporary separation)?<\/p><p>-&gt; Then, <strong>accompanying mediation<\/strong> for the specific steps of the separation should be considered - especially if a fair arrangement regarding shared children, pets or shared property needs to be found.<\/p><p><strong>Is your intuitive answer \"YES!\"?<\/strong><\/p><p>Does that mean you still like each other and would 'actually' prefer to stay together?<\/p><p>Then you should seriously consider how a (possibly already severely) strained relationship can be transformed so that both partners once again experience being together as enriching. Read the entire blog article to the end in peace and quiet, ideally without interruptions.<\/p><p><strong>It is quite 'normal' that we often find it difficult to focus our 'inner spotlight' on the positive aspects of our partnership.<\/strong><\/p><p>Our 'internal critic' persistently points out when something is not the way we would like it to be, and often whispers phrases in our ear such as:<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li><em>You no longer treat each other with respect.<\/em><\/li><li><em>Your trust has been damaged.<\/em><\/li><li><em>You let yourself be treated too much!<\/em><\/li><li><em>You don't talk to each other nearly enough - and certainly not honestly.<\/em><\/li><li><em>It scares you to think about the future with him\/her.<\/em><\/li><li><em>When was the last time you two had a relaxed period?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Didn't you say yourself recently that you're no longer happy?<\/em><\/li><li><em>You see absolutely no point in torturing yourselves any longer. <\/em><br><em>etc. etc.<\/em><\/li><\/ul><p><strong>Although this voice is an important inner 'warning voice' and points to areas where there is clearly a need for change, you should currently avoid being fundamentally unsettled by such thoughts and being carried away by (pre)happy decisions.<\/strong><\/p><p>If there is still love in your relationship and you have been happy together for extended periods in the past, it helps to first remove as much pressure as possible. Consciously allow yourselves a period of reflection \u2013 with an extensive review of the past and an open-ended outlook. Allow yourselves to do things a little differently than before and to try new things without having to immediately commit to a medium- and long-term plan.<\/p><p><strong>You can always separate if necessary - but usually there are many reasons to first take stock and conduct a reality check:<\/strong><\/p><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc5c170\">What can likely be changed? What cannot?<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc5ca83\">Where should we invest energy for change?<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li>In what respects would more acceptance and composure be needed?<\/li><\/ul><p>Only then can meaningful further decisions be made.<\/p><p>Before the coaching begins, you can (free of charge) take the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungstest\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">PaarBalance relationship test<\/a> to receive sound feedback on the areas where your resources as a couple lie and where there is concrete potential for improvement.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-button thrv-button-v2 tcb-local-vars-root tcb-flip\" data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39c9\" data-type=\"\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"thrive-colors-palette-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_colors_palette__{\"active_palette\":0,\"config\":{\"colors\":{\"62516\":{\"name\":\"Main Accent\",\"parent\":-1}},\"gradients\":[]},\"palettes\":[{\"name\":\"Default Palette\",\"value\":{\"colors\":{\"62516\":{\"val\":\"var(--tcb-color-0)\"}},\"gradients\":[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__<\/div>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/app.paarbalance.de\/beziehungstest\" class=\"tcb-button-link tcb-plain-text\" style=\"\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"tcb-button-icon\">\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tve_no_icons tcb-icon-inherit-style tcb-local-vars-root tcb-icon-display\" data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39cb\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" data-id=\"icon-arrow-circle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M256 8c137 0 248 111 248 248S393 504 256 504 8 393 8 256 119 8 256 8zm-28.9 143.6l75.5 72.4H120c-13.3 0-24 10.7-24 24v16c0 13.3 10.7 24 24 24h182.6l-75.5 72.4c-9.7 9.3-9.9 24.8-.4 34.3l11 10.9c9.4 9.4 24.6 9.4 33.9 0L404.3 273c9.4-9.4 9.4-24.6 0-33.9L271.6 106.3c-9.4-9.4-24.6-9.4-33.9 0l-11 10.9c-9.5 9.6-9.3 25.1.4 34.4z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div>\n<\/span>\n<span class=\"tcb-button-texts\"><span class=\"tcb-button-text thrv-inline-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39cc\" style=\"\"><strong>Click here to <br>start the free relationship test \u2197<\/strong><\/span><span class=\"tcb-secondary-text thrv-inline-text tve-froala fr-box fr-basic\" data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39cd\" style=\"\"><\/span><\/span>\n<\/a>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\" id=\"tve-jump-191fe65630f\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc61455\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131946\"><strong>10 typical reasons for a breakup despite love<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>What are the most common reasons why people seriously consider a \" <strong>separation despite love<\/strong> \"? What is experienced as so stressful that at least one of them talks about the topic of separation or that a separation actually occurs?<\/p><p><strong>Even though your personal relationship situation is certainly unique, couples often struggle with similar issues over the course of long-term partnerships \u2013 yet almost no one (not even close friends) really talks about it openly. Fear of loss is, after all, extremely closely related to jealousy\u2026<\/strong><\/p><p>Do you recognize your personal \u201crelationship issues\u201d in the following?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc68524\" id=\"t-1693504820223\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(1) Jealousy<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc6c1c8\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48968\" data-id=\"48968\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Intense jealousy can put a huge strain on a relationship.\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192e1aefe15\" data-height=\"429\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a jealous Stone Age woman looking angry at her husband with 2 other women\" data-id=\"48981\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"800\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"454\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Emotionale-Abhaengigkeit-Eifersucht.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445e7dec\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 454;\" class=\"wp-image-48981\" title=\"Dependence on the partner\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc6c1ca\">\"What do you have to do with them?! You can't just leave me standing here alone?!\" - Almost everyone who loves knows moments of jealousy.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Intense jealousy can put a tremendous strain on a relationship. It is sometimes referred to as the \"flip side of the coin of <em>love<\/em> \".<\/p><p><strong>Those who love (and perhaps also have the perception that they love the other person <em>more<\/em> than vice versa) desperately want to 'keep' their loved one and consequently struggle with fears of loss.<\/strong><\/p><p><em>Fear of loss<\/em> is closely linked to <em>jealousy<\/em> ... Unfortunately, these feelings can become so dominant that all the good moments are increasingly pushed into the background. <br>In most cases (unless it's <em>pathological<\/em> jealousy accompanied by threats and violence), you shouldn't end a long-standing, happy relationship\u2014 <em>provided<\/em> the excessively jealous partner is willing to work on their overwhelming feelings.<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/eifersucht-bekaempfen\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">In our blog article on fighting jealousy<\/a> , we explain how to overcome attacks of jealousy .<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\" id=\"tve-jump-191fe6948e6\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc7c1f7\" id=\"t-1693504820224\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(2) Extramarital affair<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc7f5f7\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48969\" data-id=\"48969\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"482\" title=\"Extramarital affairs and infidelity are among the most common causes of separation despite love.\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 482;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18fa60a60a8\" data-height=\"429\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a man sitting on the ground thinking about his wife's affair\" data-id=\"49066\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"460\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Beziehung-retten-Betrug.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445e89ac\" data-height=\"460\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-49066\" title=\"Saving a relationship when a partner is cheating\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc7f5f8\">\"You'll never forget what she\/he did to you!\" - Yes, unfortunately, that's true. <strong>Forgetting<\/strong> an affair is almost impossible. Anyone who wants a fresh start together must find a way to <strong>forgive<\/strong> \u2013 otherwise, there will never be a love based on equality.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Extramarital affairs and infidelity are among the most common causes of a \"separation despite love\".<\/p><p><strong>The stronger the feelings, the more the breach of trust hurts. Often we simply don't know (anymore) what could help us lessen the suffering \u2013 except: ending the relationship.<\/strong><\/p><p>Those who find themselves in such a desperate situation and talk to close friends or acquaintances are often prematurely advised to separate. Although those close to you mean <em>well<\/em> , they may not always be <em>good<\/em> (or objective) advisors. From the perspective of relationship research, there are various constructive ways to deal with infidelity. However, a 'separation despite love' is usually not the best choice. Those who separate too hastily deprive themselves and their partner of the crucial opportunity to learn from the mess\u2014both individually and together\u2014and ultimately emerge from this disastrous situation as a stronger couple.<\/p><p><strong>Even though it may sound unimaginable at first: Most couples who have managed to stay together despite the relationship catastrophe of infidelity <em>and<\/em> to change important aspects later report an openness and equality they had never experienced before.<\/strong><\/p><p>We have also written a separate article on this topic entitled \" <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/affaere-verzeihen\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">Forgiving an Affair<\/a> \" \u2197, which should help you in this situation.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc94114\" id=\"t-1693504820225\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(3) Different lifestyles<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc97a65\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48970\" data-id=\"48970\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"478\" title=\"Different ideas about life? Find compromises!\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 478;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192e1af9fba\" data-height=\"428\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a woman lying in bed, one man thinking she's lazy and another thinking she's careless.\" data-id=\"53866\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"768\" height=\"457\" data-init-height=\"436\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/Narzisst-erkennen-Verhalten.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445e95a8\" data-height=\"457\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 768 \/ 436;\" class=\"wp-image-53866\" title=\"How to recognize narcissists by their behavior\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc97a66\">\"How could you do that?!\" or \"Why do you always have different plans than me?!\" - ' <strong>Opposites attract!'<\/strong> might be true at the beginning of a relationship. Later on, however, a lot of acceptance, tolerance, and self-care are needed.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">While life plans for the distant future may initially seem secondary in the early stages of a relationship, they gain increasing importance in longer partnerships. Sometimes this importance is so profound that couples ultimately separate \u2013 even though they actually love each other.<\/p><p><strong>If you and your partner have a generally good relationship, the motto is: Find <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/kompromisse-in-der-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\"><strong>compromises<\/strong><\/a><strong> ! <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/kompromisse-in-der-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\"><strong>Compromises<\/strong><\/a><strong> are only good if both parties are willing to compromise to roughly the same extent.<\/strong><\/p><p>Of course, you can't have half a child \u2013 but in many areas, a solution is possible. For example: One partner dreams of traveling the world, while the other is currently focused on their career. In cases like these, a \"temporary separation\" could be considered, allowing both partners to develop their potential without either feeling frustrated or living in conflict with their needs \u2013 while ultimately ensuring they can stay together or find their way back to each other.<\/p><p>However, such a temporary separation needs to be well thought out and well prepared, which is why we <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/trennung-auf-zeit\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">have written a separate article on the topic of \"temporary separation\"<\/a> .<\/p><p><strong>In any case, the following applies: Be creative and work together on solutions that you may not have encountered in your environment before and that may initially seem very unconventional.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccc6ad0\" id=\"t-1693504820226\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(4) Unrequited love<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccca5a8\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48971\" data-id=\"48971\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"478\" title=\"Unrequited love: You invest a lot but receive hardly anything in return?\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 478;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18fa60a7f76\" data-height=\"424\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a woman kneeling, looking at a statue of her former happy relationship\" data-id=\"48980\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"800\" height=\"457\" data-init-height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Emotionale-Abhaengigkeit-und-Bindungsangst.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445ea33c\" data-height=\"457\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 450;\" class=\"wp-image-48980\" title=\"Fear of commitment and emotional dependency\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccca5a9\">\"Can you say with certainty that he\/she cares about your relationship as much as you do?\" Answering this question can sometimes hurt - or open up new perspectives.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\"><strong>Does one partner invest a huge amount in the relationship over a long period of time, but receive hardly anything in return?<\/strong><\/p><p>Engage in the most open communication possible with your partner to find out if a lack of love is truly the cause of his\/her behavior.<\/p><p><strong>There can also be completely different reasons why 'giving and taking' (at times) no longer feels balanced.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>Worries, personal problems, fear of commitment, stress, introversion and many other factors could play a role here and be mistakenly interpreted as a 'lack of love'.<\/strong><\/p><p>However, it's also quite possible that one partner simply <strong><em>loves differently<\/em><\/strong> than the other, meaning they express their affection in a different way than you intuitively do and 'understand'. For more information, please read <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/5-sprachen-der-liebe\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">our article on the 5 Love Languages<\/a> .<\/p><p>Therefore, considering a separation despite love only makes sense if it has been proven that one partner <em>truly<\/em> feels significantly less than the other.<\/p><p><strong>Otherwise, especially in a relationship constellation that is (still) not perceived as optimal, where there is a conscious effort to find a good way of interacting, lasting positive changes can occur, with which everyone ultimately feels (significantly) more comfortable.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccdc3d2\" id=\"t-1693504820227\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(5) Constant dispute<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccdf8d3\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48972\" data-id=\"48972\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Reason for a breakup despite love: Constant arguments in the relationship\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-19248e6dff3\" data-height=\"429\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Illustration of a arguing couple, where the man is pointing his finger at his partner.\" data-id=\"52954\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Wie-Beziehungen-funktionieren-Beziehungsmythos-Streit.webp\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445eae57\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-52954\" title=\"Argument in relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccdf8d5\">\"Arguments are like a cleansing thunderstorm!\" Oh really? - At least one of the two partners doesn't experience it that way.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Another typical scenario that can lead to couples considering separation, even if they love each other, is when they argue intensely and regularly. Arguments are draining. Arguments hurt. Arguments leave scars.<\/p><p><strong>Strong feelings of love often quickly escalate a delicate situation and can contribute to frequent conflicts. The situation can repeatedly escalate to such a degree that separation \u2013 despite the love \u2013 seems like the only viable solution.<\/strong><\/p><p>However, even on this point, couple research offers reassurance:<\/p><p><strong>Even in cases of prolonged and intense conflict escalation, the vicious cycle can often be broken \u2013 if at least <em>one<\/em> of the two parties truly wants to do so and bravely tackles the issue of \"resolving conflicts more constructively\".<\/strong><\/p><p>You can find out how this can be achieved in our article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/staendiger-streit-in-der-beziehung\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">\"Constant arguments in your relationship? Here's what you should know!\"<\/a> .<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cced342\" id=\"t-1693504820228\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(6) Too little time for each other<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccf1080\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48973\" data-id=\"48973\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"When love is strong, it hurts when hardly any beautiful, intimate time is spent together anymore.\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18fa60a98da\" data-height=\"429\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple with 6 arms holding many objects and overwhelmed by everyday tasks\" data-id=\"48929\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-fehlende-gemeinsame-Zeit.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445eb967\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48929\" title=\"Lack of shared time in relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccf1081\">The daily grind can be incredibly draining for couples. Couples who are also parents are all too familiar with the concept of \"mental load\".<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Especially when love in a partnership is strong (or was <em>very<\/em> strong at the beginning of the relationship), it hurts when there is hardly any time spent together anymore. This can go so far that one partner experiences almost chronic heartbreak and, out of grief and pain, eventually even considers separation \u2013 despite love (and indeed, <em>great<\/em> love!).<\/p><p>That's not a good idea in this particular case. Because <strong>finding more time (in the sense of 'quality time') for each other is almost always 'just' a matter of logistics, setting priorities, and self-organization.<\/strong><\/p><p>This article offers suggestions on how to successfully integrate more enriching partner time into everyday life: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/zu-wenig-zeit-in-der-beziehung\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">\"Too little time in the relationship\"<\/a><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd04705\" id=\"t-1693504820229\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(7) Lost Passion<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd07941\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48974\" data-id=\"48974\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"482\" title=\"Breakup despite love: Frustration instead of pleasure\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 482;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18fa60aa7c4\" data-height=\"429\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple lying together in a marital bed, turned sideways away from each other\" data-id=\"48930\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"460\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinandergelebt-Folgen.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445ec45a\" data-height=\"460\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48930\" title=\"Consequences of growing apart as a couple\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd07942\">Frustration instead of desire? - Eroticism changes for all couples over the years. But especially after a lull in desire, it can be exciting to find the right way to reconnect physically and (re)explore each other.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\"><strong>No relationship is as passionate after five years as it was in the first few months.<\/strong> Often, the passion diminishes so much (or even disappears completely) that one's own needs are no longer met for an extended period.<\/p><p>In fact, sometimes this even leads to an extremely painful breakup despite love, because one of them longs for the passionate feelings to be rekindled and is convinced that the only solution is a <em>new<\/em> partner.<\/p><p><strong>However, here too we strongly advise you to first make a conscious attempt to (re)discover the buried desire with your <em>current partner.<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd14da2\" id=\"t-1693504820230\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(8) Lack of respect and interest<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd196f5\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48975\" data-id=\"48975\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Breakup despite love: lack of respect and interest\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192d0670091\" data-height=\"429\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a woman stuffing a rag into her husband's mouth to keep him quiet.\" data-id=\"49018\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Toxische-Beziehung-Emotionen-Drama.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445ecf8c\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-49018\" title=\"Emotional rollercoaster ride in toxic relationships\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd196f7\">True love without respect? Doesn't exist!<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\"><strong>What helps when one partner becomes increasingly disinterested or even disrespectful towards the other? <br><\/strong><strong>-&gt; Clear boundaries and direct communication!<\/strong><\/p><p>No one should tolerate disrespect. Even if the other person \"didn't mean any harm\" but was simply careless, it's important to address it directly and clearly without starting an argument.<\/p><p>If the situation does not improve, it must be clearly stated that things cannot continue this way.<\/p><p><strong>Being regularly belittled or humiliated destroys one's self-esteem in the long run. If even after clarifying conversations, a more respectful approach doesn't develop, separation (despite love) may ultimately be the best option.<\/strong><\/p><p>It is highly likely that another partner can be found with whom a loving relationship on equal terms is possible, characterized by respect and goodwill.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd2e8b9\" id=\"t-1698154131947\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(9) Toxic relationship<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd3201c\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48976\" data-id=\"48976\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Toxic interaction patterns destroy us at our core.\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192e1b04510\" data-height=\"429\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a man talking angrily about housework while his wife looks away in annoyance.\" data-id=\"48850\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Apokalyptischer-Reiter-Paarbeziehung-2-Verachtung.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445eda7a\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48850\" title=\"Contempt in the relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd3201d\">At the beginning, passionate declarations of love and intimacy \u2013 but shortly afterwards, accusations and blame? Toxic interaction patterns destroy us to our core.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">The term \" <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/toxische-beziehung\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">toxic relationship<\/a> \" is being used increasingly without context. Just because a couple occasionally argues or one of them hasn't always been 100% honest, doesn't mean it's a chronically toxic relationship.<\/p><p>Unfortunately, there are relationships that are so characterized by lies, manipulation, threats and blame from one partner and subservience, self-abandonment and unconditional tolerance from the other partner that they can actually be described as \"toxic\" (i.e.: poisonous, toxic, damaging).<\/p><p>In these situations, <strong>separation may ultimately be the only viable option, even if love persists<\/strong> . The manipulative partner often lacks the ability or willingness for the necessary self-reflection, or is not motivated to permanently change their behavior.<\/p><p>To learn how to specifically recognize whether your relationship is toxic, and what you should or shouldn't do in this case, read our article: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/toxische-beziehung\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">Toxic Relationship - How to Recognize It and What to Do?<\/a><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd41299\" id=\"t-1693212124229\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>(10) violence<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd44dfd\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48977\" data-id=\"48977\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Where violence is involved, there can be no compromises.\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18fa60adb1d\" data-height=\"429\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a knight on horseback riding towards a seated woman with a lance.\" data-id=\"49046\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Beziehung-Krise-psychischen-Stoerung-Sucht-Gewalt.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445eeade\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-49046\" title=\"Relationship crisis due to psychological abuse\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd44dfe\">There can be no compromise when it comes to threats, intimidation, and physical violence. They are an absolute no-go and have nothing to do with love.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Repeated physical violence and a violent partner who is unwilling to control their aggression is indeed one of the few cases where there is no other professional advice besides ending the relationship as soon as possible. You should protect your own health and safety as early as possible.<\/p><p><strong>Unfortunately, in cases of domestic violence, the outbreaks often become more violent and frequent over time, and boundaries are increasingly broken down.<\/strong><\/p><p>Even if you still love your partner, you should definitely put a stop to it before it's too late in the worst-case scenario.<\/p><p>You can find competent contacts in such an emergency situation, among other places, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/notfalladressen-mediation\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">at our emergency contact addresses<\/a> .<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\" id=\"tve-jump-191fe669956\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd52eae\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131948\"><strong>Why you should (almost always) give your love another chance<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">We have outlined the most common reasons for a 'separation despite love'. Perhaps you recognized yourself in one or more of the described dynamics, or perhaps there is a completely different, individual reason why you are considering a separation \u2013 even though you 'actually' still love the person by your side.<\/p><p>Our urgent appeal (provided that you are not involved in a toxic and\/or violent situation):<\/p><p><strong>If love is still palpable and you are not 100% sure whether there can be a future as a couple or not, then in case of doubt, try everything again to save your relationship!<\/strong><\/p><p>Even if you ultimately conclude that separation (despite love) is the only viable option, you won't have to struggle later with the nagging question: \"Did I give up too soon? Should we have given each other another chance? Did we really try everything? What if...?\"<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd59ff6\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131949\"><strong>The uncertainty after the breakup<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Separation from a partner is \u2013 even if ultimately all reasons speak in favor of it \u2013 usually extremely painful and is one of the most stressful so-called 'life events'.<\/p><p><strong>If uncertainty arises as to whether you have really made the right decision, the emotional crisis is prolonged and worsened.<\/strong><\/p><p>Furthermore, if children are involved, the feeling of not having tried everything to save the family can potentially stay with you for a lifetime.<\/p><p>Therefore, apart from the aforementioned exceptional cases, it is almost always worthwhile to fight for the relationship again and give each other a fair chance.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd60b90\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131950\"><strong>Use professional support!<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>You've decided to give it your all to save your relationship? Congratulations! Then you've already taken the most important first step. \ud83d\ude42<\/strong><\/p><p>Now we can only urge you:<\/p><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192f34689f5\"><strong>Seek professional support! No one should have to face a relationship\/life crisis alone without professional support.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd68463\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1698154131951\"><strong>The minefield of relationships<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\">Anyone actively considering a breakup despite still being in love probably feels like their relationship is a minefield, or their daily life is dominated by the worry that the next misunderstanding or momentary lapse in judgment could ignite another argument in seconds. Both partners often feel emotionally overwhelmed. Unfortunately, hurt feelings can all too easily cloud their judgment.<\/p><p><strong>Such a minefield should be defused as quickly and permanently as possible. To do this, one should know as precisely as possible what to do and what to avoid at all costs. Having a professional explosives expert on hand can be advantageous in this situation. ;-)<\/strong><\/p><p>Ideally, the current danger zone will gradually transform back into a lush green meadow where one can feel safe and comfortable.<\/p><p>If you do not wish to seek personal advice, there are also options to deal with your relationship independently \u2013 regardless of time and place \u2013 within a structured professional framework.<\/p><p><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/online-coaching\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">PaarBalance<\/a> offers such a possibility .<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd6f9da\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693212124232\"><strong>Save your relationship with CoupleBalance - Scientifically sound help from the comfort of your home<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd72d34\">The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/online-coaching\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">CoupleBalance coaching program<\/a> provides you with a clear structure that allows you to systematically solve relationship problems and (re)establish your partnership on a firm, harmonious foundation.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd762c6\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48902\" data-id=\"48902\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"361\" title=\"Online couples therapy with CoupleBalance Coaching\" data-width=\"755\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 361;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192e1b1c5d0\" data-height=\"320\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Online relationship coaching package shown with an orange button to learn more.\" data-id=\"48902\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"345\" data-init-height=\"361\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Paartherapie-online-mit-dem-PaarBalance-Coaching.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c445ef491\" data-height=\"345\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 361;\" class=\"wp-image-48902\" title=\"Online couples therapy, marriage counseling\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd762c7\">Wissenschaftlich fundierter Paartherapie online f\u00fcr den einzelnen Partner? Das gibt es mit dem PaarBalance-Coaching.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 []\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/online-coaching\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">PaarBalance<\/a> ist das einzige <strong>wissenschaftlich \u00fcberpr\u00fcfte<\/strong>, interaktive <strong>Online-Coaching-Programm<\/strong> zur <strong>Verbesserung von Paarbeziehungen<\/strong> im deutschsprachigen Raum, das auch vom <em>einzelnen<\/em> Partner durchgef\u00fchrt werden kann.<\/p><p>Anhand von 18 Online-Lektionen erhalten Sie praktische Empfehlungen und konkrete Handlungsanweisungen, wie Sie Ihre Beziehungsqualit\u00e4t verbessern, (auch langj\u00e4hrige) Probleme l\u00f6sen, eine Partnerschaft auf Augenh\u00f6he f\u00fchren und wieder zu mehr Leichtigkeit und Lebensfreude finden k\u00f6nnen.<\/p><p><strong>Starten Sie Ihr Coaching mit einem klaren Bild Ihrer Beziehung!<\/strong> Nutzen Sie unseren kostenlosen PaarBalance Beziehungstest, um wertvolle Einblicke in Ihre Beziehung zu erhalten. Der Test zeigt Ihnen auf, wo Ihre gemeinsamen St\u00e4rken liegen und in welchen Bereichen Verbesserungspotenzial besteht. So k\u00f6nnen Sie Ihr Coaching gezielt angehen und Ihre Beziehung noch weiter st\u00e4rken.<\/p><p><strong>Vertrauen Sie auf Ihr Bauchgef\u00fchl: Sie wissen selbst am besten, welche Art von Unterst\u00fctzung gerade die passende ist, um eine Entscheidung bei der gro\u00dfen Frage \"Soll ich mich (trotz Liebe) trennen oder sollen wir noch einmal alles versuchen?\" treffen zu k\u00f6nnen. Hauptsache, Sie legen beherzt und konsequent los!!<br><\/strong><\/p><p>Ich w\u00fcnsche Ihnen alles Gute und gr\u00fc\u00dfe Sie herzlich<\/p><p>Ihre Dr. Judith Gastner &amp; das gesamte PaarBalance-Team<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf67\" style=\"\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 0px; border: none !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf66\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf68\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Passend zum Thema Trennung trotz Liebe<\/strong><\/p><\/div>[tcb_post_list query=\"{'paged':1,'filter':'custom','post_type':|{|'post'|}|,'related':|{||}|,'orderby':'date','order':'DESC','posts_per_page':'3','offset':'1','no_posts_text':'There are no posts to 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tcb-resized tcb--cols--2 tcb-mobile-no-wrap m-edit\" data-css=\"tve-u-1946714d150\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1946710c592\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1946713dae4\" style=\"\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-1946713a33e\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/stil\/leib-seele\/wann-eine-trennung-trotz-liebe-richtig-ist-wenn-gefuehle-nicht-reichen-110171202.html\" target=\"_blank\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-61640\" data-id=\"61640\" data-init-width=\"500\" data-init-height=\"506\" title=\"Article FAZ with Judith Gastner\" data-width=\"124\" data-height=\"126\" data-link-wrap=\"true\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 500 \/ 506;\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"61640\" width=\"124\" data-init-width=\"500\" height=\"126\" data-init-height=\"506\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Artikel-FAZ-mit-Judith-Gastner.jpg\" data-width=\"124\" data-height=\"126\" data-link-wrap=\"true\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 500 \/ 506;\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/a><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1946710c5b2\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-css=\"tve-u-19467141eb0\" style=\"\">\t<p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1946711cbc6\">Article in FAZ+<\/p><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-194671316d2\">with contributions by Dr. Judith Gastner<\/p><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1946711dd93\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.faz.net\/aktuell\/stil\/leib-seele\/wann-eine-trennung-trotz-liebe-richtig-ist-wenn-gefuehle-nicht-reichen-110171202.html\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\"><strong>When to break up \u2013 even if you still love each other<\/strong><\/a><\/p><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-1\" data-thickness-d=\"1\" data-color-d=\"rgb(0, 62, 125)\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8d9fd812\">\n<hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-1\" style=\"\">\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861460bbb\"><h2 class=\"\" id=\"t-1690967237765\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062e\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062f\" id=\"t-1685450315605\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Can love lead to a breakup?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da00630\">Yes, it's possible for couples to separate even though they still love each other. Incompatible life goals, differing ideas about relationships, or irreconcilable conflicts can be the reason. Some couples manage to transform their love into a deep friendship after a period of separation and remain connected.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062e\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062f\" id=\"t-1698154131952\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>When is a breakup better despite love?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da00630\">The decision to separate despite love is often preceded by great inner struggle. It takes courage and self-reflection to recognize that a relationship has no future and that it is probably better to let go and \"release\" each other. It is important that each partner remains true to themselves \u2013 even if the breakup is painful.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062e\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062f\" id=\"t-1698154131953\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Better to break up or try the relationship again?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p data-pm-slice=\"1 1 [&quot;contentOptimizer&quot;,{&quot;suggestionId&quot;:&quot;4a04740f-5e57-41eb-9199-3de628a23795-content&quot;,&quot;state&quot;:&quot;written&quot;}]\">The general motto is: \"It's better to experience something new with your old partner than to repeat the same old things with a new partner.\" If you still love each other, you should make even more of an effort to overcome existing problems together. Is separation the better option, or should you try the relationship again? Separation makes sense if life plans and personal goals are no longer compatible and you are suffering greatly as a result.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062e\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062f\" id=\"t-1698154131954\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Is love alone enough for a happy relationship?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da00630\">To maintain a lasting, healthy relationship, more than 'just' infatuation and romantic feelings are usually needed. This includes, among other things, a broad agreement in personal values and life plans. Tolerance and the ability to compromise are further important ingredients for a stable partnership based on equality.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861432048\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062e\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062f\" id=\"t-1698154131955\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>How to rebuild trust after a breakup, even if you're still in love.<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da00630\">Breakups are painful, but the feeling of having loved should be cherished. Don't rewrite a past relationship. You know you are capable of love. There are so many special people in this world\u2014 <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/vertrauen\/\">trust<\/a> that you will meet someone again who will appreciate your love.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>","tve_custom_css":"@import url(\"\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css?family=Mulish:300,700,400,800,500&subset=latin\");@import url(\"\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css?family=Noto+Sans:400,700,500&subset=latin\");@media (min-width: 300px){[data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39c9\"] .tcb-button-link { letter-spacing: 2px; background-image: linear-gradient(var(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211)),var(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211))); --tve-applied-background-image: linear-gradient(var$(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211)),var$(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211))); background-size: auto; background-attachment: scroll; border-radius: 5px; padding: 18px; background-position: 50% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-color: transparent !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39c9\"] .tcb-button-link span { color: rgb(255, 255, 255); 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border-image: initial; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,rgb(127,127,127)); --tve-color: rgb(127,127,127); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(127,127,127); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-bold-weight,bold)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; padding: 8px 15px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-image: none !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf01\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) ) !important; --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf01\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf03\"] { --tve-toc-indent: 15px; max-width: 100%; float: none; --tcb-local-color-f1170: rgba(65,178,233,0.7); position: relative; display: block; overflow: hidden; padding-right: 1px !important; margin: 30px auto 40px !important; --tcb-local-color-a027f: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tcb-local-color-21e68: rgb(184,211,255) !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 100% !important; z-index: 3 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf03\"] .tve-toc-title-icon { color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; font-size: 15px !important; width: 15px !important; height: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf04\"] { --tve-border-width: 0px; --tve-border-radius: 0px; background-image: none !important; border-radius: 0px !important; border-width: medium !important; border-style: none !important; border-color: currentcolor !important; border-image: initial !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; --background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] { --tve-font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold); --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-font-size: 16px; border-top-left-radius: 10px; border-top-right-radius: 10px; overflow: hidden; --tve-text-decoration: none; border-bottom-right-radius: 0px !important; border-bottom-left-radius: 0px !important; background-image: linear-gradient(var(--tcb-local-color-a027f),var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --tve-applied-background-image: linear-gradient(var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f),var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; padding: 17px 15px 12px 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; z-index: 3 !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] blockquote, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] address, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] .tcb-plain-text, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] label { font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-bold-weight,bold)); font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,none); }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] blockquote, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] address, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] .tcb-plain-text, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] label, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] h1, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] h2, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] h3, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] h4, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] h5, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] h6 { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf06\"] { overflow: visible; padding: 0px 15px 10px 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf07\"] { overflow: hidden; border-radius: 0px 0px 12px 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf07\"] { background-image: none !important; --background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] > .tve-content-box-background { background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"].tve-state-expanded > .tve-content-box-background { background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"].tve-state-expanded { overflow: hidden; --animation-angle: -90deg; border-bottom-right-radius: 10px !important; border-bottom-left-radius: 10px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"]:hover:not(.tve-state-expanded) { border-bottom-right-radius: 0px !important; overflow: hidden !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf08\"] { line-height: 1.2em !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf09\"] .tve_sep { background-image: url(\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg viewBox='0 0 12 2' xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg' transform='rotate(90)'%3E%3Cline x1='0' y1='1' x2='12' y2='1' stroke='rgb(217,217,217)' stroke-dasharray='4' stroke-width='3' \/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\"); --tve-applied-background-image: url(\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg viewBox='0 0 12 2' xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg' transform='rotate(90)'%3E%3Cline x1='0' y1='1' x2='12' y2='1' stroke='rgb(217,217,217)' stroke-dasharray='4' stroke-width='3' \/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\"); background-size: 2px 2px; background-position: center top; width: 2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"].tve-state-expanded .tve-toc-title-icon { font-size: 15px !important; width: 15px !important; height: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0b\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0c\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0e\"] { --g-regular-weight: 400; --g-bold-weight: 700; border-width: medium medium 2px; border-style: none none dotted; border-color: currentcolor currentcolor rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.1); border-image: initial; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,rgb(80,80,80)); --tve-color: rgb(80,80,80); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(80,80,80); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(80,80,80)); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(80,80,80); padding: 8px 15px !important; background-image: none !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0e\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0e\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); border-left-width: medium; border-left-style: none; border-left-color: currentcolor; background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf08\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; color: var(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 18px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf08\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf05\"] .tve-toc-title-icon { color: var(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; font-size: 18px !important; width: 18px !important; height: 18px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0f\"] { padding-left: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf06\"] > .tve-cb { display: block; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf03\"] > .tve-cb { display: block; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; border-width: medium; border-style: none; border-color: currentcolor; border-image: initial; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-color-7)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-color-7); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; --tve-border-width: 0px; --tve-applied-border: none; font-family: var(--tve-font-family,Mulish); --tve-font-family: Mulish; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,var$(--tcb-color-7)); --tve-applied---tve-color: var$(--tcb-color-7); text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline); --tve-text-decoration: underline; padding: 5px 15px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 2px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(23,67,120)) !important; --tve-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(23,67,120)) !important; --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)) !important; --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); border-left: 2px solid var(--tcb-local-color-f1170); background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f2\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: none; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none; --tve-border-width: 0px; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; border-width: medium !important; border-style: none !important; border-color: currentcolor !important; border-image: initial !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f3\"] { max-width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; padding: 15px 15px 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f4\"] { padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 18px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f5\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f6\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f7\"] { line-height: 1.5em !important; padding-top: 6px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f5\"] li { margin-bottom: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe6888ea\"] { --tcb-local-color-icon: rgb(51,51,51); --tcb-local-color-var: rgb(51,51,51); --tve-icon-size: 16px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8fd\"] { --tcb-local-color-icon: rgb(51,51,51); --tcb-local-color-var: rgb(51,51,51); --tve-icon-size: 16px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf66\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: none; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none; --tve-border-width: 0px; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; border-width: medium !important; border-style: none !important; border-color: currentcolor !important; border-image: initial !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf67\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; padding: 15px 15px 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; z-index: 10 !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf68\"] { padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 18px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper { width: calc(100% + 0px); }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n+2) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n+2)) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n) { margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] { border-radius: 0px; overflow: hidden; margin: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6b\"] { max-width: 17.1992%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6c\"] { max-width: 82.7998%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6d\"] { margin-left: -30px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6e\"] { margin: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6d\"] > .tcb-flex-col { padding-left: 30px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper { border-bottom-width: medium; border-bottom-style: none; border-bottom-color: currentcolor; border-top-width: medium; border-top-style: none; border-top-color: currentcolor; --tve-border-width: 0px; padding: 5px 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper:hover { background-color: rgba(183, 183, 183, 0.05) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper::after { background-attachment: scroll; background-image: none; background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat; background-size: auto; background-color: rgba(183, 183, 183, 0.05) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] { --tve-font-size: 14px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf70\"] { border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-radius: 5px; background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; --background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; background-size: cover !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --background-size: cover !important; --background-position: 50% 50% !important; --background-attachment: scroll !important; --background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf71\"] { width: 230px; float: none; max-width: 105px; margin: 0px auto !important; padding: 0px !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 79% !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list .thrv-content-box [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf72\"] { height: 105px !important; --tve-applied-height: 105px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf71\"]:hover [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf70\"] { background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; background-size: cover !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] a, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] ul, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] ul > li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] ol, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] ol > li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] h1, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] h2, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] h3, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] h4, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] h5, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] h6, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] blockquote > p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6f\"] pre { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,14px); }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf75\"] { justify-content: flex-start !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n)) { margin-right: 30px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192bafdf1b3\"] { width: 30px; --tve-alignment: center; float: none; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; margin-top: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192bafdf1b3\"] img { opacity: 0.7; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc18f\"] { --tve-border-radius: 214px; border-radius: 214px; overflow: hidden; width: 45px; position: absolute; top: 8px; left: 0px; margin-top: 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc190\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 12px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc191\"] { text-decoration-line: none !important; text-decoration-thickness: initial !important; text-decoration-style: initial !important; --eff: none !important; text-decoration-color: var(--eff-color,currentColor) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc192\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc193\"] { padding-left: 54px !important; margin-top: 7px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc194\"] { padding-left: 54px !important; padding-top: 1px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc195\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc196\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px 10px 10px 15px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc198\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc199\"] { --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19a\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; text-decoration-line: none !important; text-decoration-thickness: initial !important; text-decoration-style: initial !important; text-decoration-color: var(--tcb-text-decoration-color,initial) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19b\"] { color: var(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; font-size: 14px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19c\"] { font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; box-shadow: none !important; border-bottom-width: medium !important; border-bottom-style: none !important; border-bottom-color: currentcolor !important; background: none !important; text-decoration: none !important; transition: none !important; padding-left: 0px !important; --eff: none !important; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19c\"]:hover { text-decoration: none !important; background: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19d\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19e\"] { max-width: 50%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19f\"] { background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a0\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc19d\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a1\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 5px 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a2\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a3\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-border-top-left-radius: 5px; border-top-left-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-top-right-radius: 5px; border-top-right-radius: 5px; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; margin-right: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a4\"] { max-width: 50%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a5\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; padding-top: 0px !important; justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a6\"] .tve_sep { width: 100%; border-width: 2px !important; border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a6\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; padding-top: 15px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a7\"] .tve_sep { width: 100%; border-width: 2px !important; border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a7\"] { padding-top: 15px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8de\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 12px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8df\"] { font-size: 25px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 25px; height: 25px; --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2); --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2); --tve-icon-size: 25px; border-width: medium; border-style: none; border-color: currentcolor; border-image: initial; border-radius: 0px; --tve-applied-border: none; background-size: auto; background-attachment: scroll, scroll, scroll; background-position: 50% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat; padding: 0px !important; background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; --background-image: none !important; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8df\"] > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2); }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e0\"] { --tve-border-radius: 100px; border-radius: 100px; overflow: hidden; background-color: var(--tcb-color-6) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-6) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-6) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e2\"] { float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; max-width: 60px; padding: 10px !important; margin: 0px auto 0px 6px !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 60px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e3\"] { min-height: 25px !important; --tve-applied-min-height: 25px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e4\"] { max-width: 15%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e5\"] { max-width: 84.9991%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e6\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; margin-top: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e7\"] { padding-left: 10px !important; padding-top: 1px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; padding-bottom: 1px !important; margin-bottom: 5px !important; margin-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e8\"] > .tcb-flex-col { padding-left: 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e8\"] { margin-left: 0px !important; padding-top: 10px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; padding-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8e9\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8ea\"] { justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8eb\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; padding-top: 0px !important; justify-content: flex-start !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8ec\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 5px; border-bottom-right-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 5px; border-bottom-left-radius: 5px; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; margin-right: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8ed\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8ee\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8ef\"] { max-width: 50%; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8ed\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f0\"] { margin-top: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 5px 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f1\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f2\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f3\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f4\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f5\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f6\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f7\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f8\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 5px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f9\"] { padding-top: 3px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fa\"] { padding-left: 10px !important; padding-top: 2px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; padding-bottom: 5px !important; margin-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fb\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fb\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fb\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fc\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fc\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fc\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fd\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fd\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fd\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fe\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fe\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8fe\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f1\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8f1\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd8ff\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd900\"] { padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd901\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd902\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd903\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd904\"] { max-width: 50%; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192f34689f5\"] { color: var(--tcb-color-1) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-1) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-1) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1946710c592\"] { max-width: 22.3994%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1946710c5b2\"] { max-width: 77.6%; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1946711cbc6\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 15px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1946711dd93\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-194671316d2\"] { padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1946713a33e\"] { width: 500px; --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1946713dae4\"] { justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19467141eb0\"] { padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1946714cbb1\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1946714d150\"] { padding-top: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1948607f195\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1948607f195\"] { text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a24\"] .tcb-button-link { letter-spacing: 2px; background-image: linear-gradient(var(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211)),var(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211))); --tve-applied-background-image: linear-gradient(var$(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211)),var$(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211))); background-size: auto; background-attachment: scroll; border-radius: 5px; padding: 18px; background-position: 50% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-color: transparent !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a24\"] .tcb-button-link span { color: rgb(255, 255, 255); --tcb-applied-color: #fff; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a24\"] { --tcb-local-color-62516: var(--tcb-color-0) !important; margin-bottom: 5px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a29\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a29\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a29\"] { font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a2a\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 24px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a2a\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a2b\"] { min-width: auto; max-width: 758.078px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a2c\"] { background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a2d\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1981a0e5a2e\"] { margin-bottom: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf76\"] { margin-left: 15px !important; }}@media (max-width: 1023px){:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc1aff8\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc2382a\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc3d54e\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc44833\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc4ff75\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc61455\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd52eae\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd59ff6\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd60b90\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd68463\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd6f9da\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper { width: calc(100% + 0px); }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n+2) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n+2)) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n) { margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper { padding-top: 30px !important; padding-bottom: 30px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6d\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf71\"] { width: 180px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list .thrv-content-box [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf72\"] { height: 180px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccc1a2\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfccd900\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }}@media (max-width: 767px){[data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39cd\"] { line-height: 1.4em !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39c9\"] { margin-left: 0px !important; margin-right: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-189b56f39cc\"] { font-size: 18px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc1aff8\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc2382a\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc2d1d4\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc2d1d6\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc3d54e\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc44833\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc4ff75\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc61455\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc68524\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc6c1c8\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc6c1ca\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc7c1f7\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc7f5f7\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc7f5f8\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc94114\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc97a65\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cc97a66\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccc6ad0\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccca5a8\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccca5a9\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccdc3d2\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccdf8d3\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccdf8d5\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cced342\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccf1080\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4ccf1081\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd04705\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd07941\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd07942\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd14da2\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd196f5\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd196f7\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd2e8b9\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd3201c\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd3201d\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd41299\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd44dfd\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd44dfe\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd52eae\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd59ff6\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd60b90\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd68463\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd6f9da\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd72d34\"] { font-size: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd762c6\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a4cd762c7\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da00630\"] { font-size: 15px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a8da0062f\"] { font-size: 18px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a6\"] { line-height: 1.4em !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a3\"] { margin-left: 0px !important; margin-right: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a5\"] { font-size: 17px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f99e\"] { font-size: 18px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9a0\"] { font-size: 15px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9ad\"] { padding-right: 0px !important; padding-left: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9ae\"] { padding-left: 0px !important; padding-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9af\"] { padding-right: 0px !important; padding-left: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f9ab\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ba3c9f99d\"] { width: 200px; --tve-alignment: center; float: none; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d31dd788\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d31dd789\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf01\"] { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,15px); --tve-font-size: 15px; padding-left: 12px !important; padding-right: 12px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0e\"] { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,15px); --tve-font-size: 15px; padding-left: 12px !important; padding-right: 12px !important; padding-bottom: 4px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf03\"] { margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf08\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf06\"] { padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf0a\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a2cf10\"] { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,14px); --tve-font-size: 14px; line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.40em); --tve-line-height: 1.40em; padding: 6px 12px 4px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8fd\"] { --tcb-local-color-icon: rgb(51,51,51); --tcb-local-color-var: rgb(51,51,51); --tve-icon-size: 14px; padding-left: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe63c8f5\"] { padding-left: 0px !important; padding-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe6888ea\"] { --tcb-local-color-icon: rgb(51,51,51); --tcb-local-color-var: rgb(51,51,51); --tve-icon-size: 14px; padding-left: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper { width: calc(100% + 0px); }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n+2) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n+2)) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n) { margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6d\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6d\"] .tcb-flex-col { flex-basis: 637px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf71\"] { width: 270px; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper { padding: 15px 15px 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6e\"] { float: none; margin-left: 0px !important; margin-right: auto !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf6a\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-191fe69bf75\"] { border-radius: 0px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; 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