{"id":65934,"date":"2023-01-23T00:36:23","date_gmt":"2023-01-22T23:36:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/auseinander-gelebt\/"},"modified":"2025-12-12T02:38:54","modified_gmt":"2025-12-12T01:38:54","slug":"auseinander-gelebt","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/","title":{"rendered":"Grown apart: 11 typical signs &amp; phases as well as proven tips for love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span data-tcb-events=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo tve_image\" title=\"Standard Blog-Post\" src=\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g\" srcset=\"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=512&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g 2x\" alt=\"Standard Blog-Post\" width=\"256\" height=\"256\" data-d-f=\"author\" \/><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: none;\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_author_name\" data-shortcode-name=\"Author name\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/author\/jgastner\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Dr. Judith Gastner&quot;,&quot;data-css&quot;:&quot;tve-u-192dfd2ff53&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff53\"><a title=\"Dr. Judith Gastner\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/author\/jgastner\/\">Dr. Judith Gastner<\/a><\/span>Paartherapeutin und PsychotherapeutinKategorie:<span data-attr-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff49\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_categories\" data-shortcode-name=\"List of categories\"><a title=\"Beziehungskrise\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungskrise\/\">Beziehungskrise<\/a>, <a title=\"Beziehungstests\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungstests\/\">Beziehungstests<\/a><\/span>Artikel zuletzt aktualisiert am <span data-attr-date-format=\"j. F Y\" data-attr-date-format-select=\"custom\" data-attr-link=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-attr-show-time=\"0\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-time-format=\"\" data-attr-time-format-select=\"g:i a\" data-attr-type=\"modified\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_published_date\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post date\">21. August 2025 <\/span><strong>Qualit\u00e4tssicherung<\/strong><a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/prof-dr-ludwig-schindler\/\">Prof. Dr. Dr. Ludwig Schindler<\/a>Artikel teilen \ud83d\udc47\ud83c\udffb[tcb-script]document.addEventListener(&#8220;DOMContentLoaded&#8221;, function() { const copyLinks = document.querySelectorAll(&#8220;.copy-link&#8221;); copyLinks.forEach(link =&gt; { link.addEventListener(&#8220;click&#8221;, function(event) { event.preventDefault(); const textToCopy = &#8220;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/auseinander-gelebt\/&#8221;; navigator.clipboard.writeText(textToCopy).then(function() { alert(&#8220;Link wurde in die Zwischenablage kopiert!&#8221;); }).catch(function(error) { alert(&#8220;Fehler beim Kopieren des Links: &#8221; + error); }); }); });});[\/tcb-script]<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 260;\" title=\"\u00dcbersicht Auseinander gelebt\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Artikel-Header-Auseinander-gelebt.jpg\" alt=\"Skizze wie Paar traurig und nachdenklich an einem gro\u00dfen Tisch getrennt voneinander sitzt\" width=\"758\" height=\"246\" data-id=\"59367\" data-init-width=\"800\" data-init-height=\"260\" data-width=\"758\" data-height=\"246\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><em><em><em>Ich f\u00fchle mich irgendwie alleine &#8211; auch wenn ich gerade mit meinem Partner zusammen bin&#8230; Solche oder \u00e4hnliche S\u00e4tze h\u00f6ren wir oft in unserer Praxis, wenn Menschen beschreiben, dass sie sich in ihrer Partnerschaft auseinander gelebt haben.<\/em><\/em><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"30\" height=\"30\" data-id=\"59982\" data-init-width=\"150\" data-init-height=\"150\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Schnelleinstieg: Auseinander gelebt &#8211; 11 typische Anzeichen &amp; Phasen<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><strong>Anzeichen erkennen<\/strong>: <\/strong>Es gibt klare Anzeichen, die darauf hindeuten, dass sich Paare im Laufe der Zeit auseinandergelebt haben. H\u00e4ufiger R\u00fcckzug, fehlende gemeinsame Interessen und Routine im Alltag sind nur einige davon. <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"#tve-jump-1928aa9d031\">Mehr erfahren. <\/a>\u2193<\/li>\n<li><strong><strong>Ursachen:\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong>Beziehungen ver\u00e4ndern sich mit der Zeit, oft aufgrund von Stress, neuen Lebensumst\u00e4nden oder mangelnder Aufmerksamkeit. Diese Ver\u00e4nderungen f\u00fchren dazu, dass Paare sich emotional entfernen. <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"#tve-jump-1928aaaa413\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener\">Mehr \u00fcber die Ursachen erfahren Sie hier.<\/a> \u2193<\/li>\n<li><strong>Selbsttest und neue Chance: <\/strong>Bevor man eine Trennung in Erw\u00e4gung zieht, sollte man der Beziehung bewusst noch eine Chance geben und sich gezielt mit den Problemen auseinandersetzen. <strong><a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"#tve-jump-1928aab84bb\" target=\"_new\" rel=\"noopener\">\u00dcber einen schnellen und kostenlosen Selbsttest erfahren Sie wie.<\/a><\/strong> \u2193<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"30\" height=\"30\" data-id=\"59982\" data-init-width=\"150\" data-init-height=\"150\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Was ist nur mit uns passiert? Fr\u00fcher waren wir doch unzertrennlich und hatten es so sch\u00f6n miteinander &#8211; und heute wissen wir oft kaum mehr, was der andere gerade macht und was ihn besch\u00e4ftigt.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wir Menschen sind Bindungswesen. Daher belastet es uns sehr, wenn wir eine zunehmende Distanz zu unseren wichtigsten Bezugspersonen sp\u00fcren.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Gelingt es uns nicht, gezielt gegenzusteuern, besteht die Gefahr, dass auch urspr\u00fcnglich sehr stabile und als innig erlebte Beziehungen eines Tages in die Br\u00fcche gehen.<\/p>\n<p>Ein Gro\u00dfteil der Paare trennt sich dann in der Hoffnung, mit einem neuen Partner dauerhafte N\u00e4he und Verbundenheit zu finden.<\/p>\n<p>Durch die Paartherapieforschung wissen wir jedoch: Trennung und Scheidung geh\u00f6ren zu den schmerzlichsten Life-Events \u00fcberhaupt &#8211; und die Scheidungsrate von Zweit- oder Drittehen ist noch h\u00f6her als bei zum ersten Mal Verheirateten.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bevor man seine Beziehung also nicht noch einmal in Ruhe unter die Lupe genommen hat, macht es keinen Sinn, eine Entscheidung \u00fcber eine konsequenzenreiche Trennung zu f\u00e4llen.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1693833331515\"><strong>Auseinandergelebt: Test<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p>Haben Sie das Gef\u00fchl, dass in Ihrer Partnerschaft erst <em>seit kurzem<\/em> eine gr\u00f6\u00dfere Distanz sp\u00fcrbar ist oder dass Sie sich schon <em>seit l\u00e4ngerem<\/em> auseinandergelebt haben? F\u00fchlen Sie sich Ihrem Partner <em>mal mehr, mal weniger nah<\/em> oder mittlerweile fast <em>durchgehend fremder<\/em>? Haben Sie den Eindruck, eine <em>konkrete schmerzliche Erfahrung<\/em> trennt Sie beide? Oder ist dieses <em>&#8220;Auseinander-gelebt-Gef\u00fchl&#8221; eher diffus<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p>Der folgende (kostenfreie) Kurz-Test zum Thema <strong>&#8220;Wie sehr haben wir beide uns auseinander gelebt?&#8221;<\/strong> kann Ihnen dabei helfen, sich innerlich etwas zu sortieren.<\/p>\n<p>Nach 10 Fragen bekommen Sie R\u00fcckmeldung dar\u00fcber,<em> in welchem Ausma\u00df<\/em> Sie und Ihr Partner sich bereits auseinander gelebt haben, und erhalten konkrete Tipps, was Sie in Ihrer Situation tun k\u00f6nnen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Klicken Sie hier, um den Test zu starten:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>[tcb-script src=&#8221;https:\/\/cdn.jotfor.ms\/s\/umd\/latest\/for-form-embed-handler.js&#8221;][\/tcb-script] [tcb-script]window.jotformEmbedHandler(&#8220;iframe[id=&#8217;JotFormIFrame-223263586718363&#8242;]&#8221;, &#8220;https:\/\/form.jotform.com\/&#8221;)[\/tcb-script]<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\ud83d\ude80 <strong>2.995 Menschen<\/strong> haben durch diesen kostenfreien Test neue N\u00e4he entdeckt.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1693833331516\"><strong>11 typische Anzeichen, dass sich Paare auseinander leben\u00a0<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Distanz in Beziehung\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-typische-Anzeichen.jpg\" alt=\"Skizze wie Paar durch eine Mauer zwischen den beiden getrennt wird\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"48922\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Und diese Distanz war dann ganz pl\u00f6tzlich da &#8211; von einem Tag auf den anderen? Wohl kaum! Das Gef\u00fchl der Entfremdung wird in der Regel nach und nach gr\u00f6\u00dfer&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Im Folgenden finden Sie einige der h\u00e4ufigsten Warnsignale daf\u00fcr, dass Sie Gefahr laufen, sich auseinander zu leben oder sich bereits auseinander gelebt haben.<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Sie f\u00fchlen sich manchmal einsam, auch wenn Sie zu zweit sind.<\/li>\n<li>Sie haben oft das Gef\u00fchl, das Ihr Partner Sie gar nicht (mehr) richtig wahrnimmt.<\/li>\n<li>Sie sprechen immer seltener in Ruhe \u00fcber das, was Sie besch\u00e4ftigt.<\/li>\n<li>In Ihrem Alltag gibt es kaum noch Z\u00e4rtlichkeiten.<\/li>\n<li>Ihre Beziehung ist irgendwie &#8220;eingeschlafen&#8221; (siehe auch unseren Artikel <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/hilfe-meine-beziehung-ist-eingeschlafen\/\">&#8220;Hilfe! Meine Beziehung ist eingeschlafen&#8221;<\/a>)<\/li>\n<li>Ihr Leben als Paar ist mehr ein &#8220;Nebeneinander&#8221; als ein &#8220;Miteinander&#8221;.<\/li>\n<li>Sorgen, Probleme, Stress und Alltag lassen kaum mehr Platz f\u00fcr Momente, in denen Sie Innigkeit und Liebe sp\u00fcren.<\/li>\n<li>Leidenschaft, Lust und Sex sind (beinahe) vollst\u00e4ndig verschwunden (siehe Artikel <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/kein-sex-mehr-in-der-ehe\/\">&#8220;Kein Sex mehr in der Beziehung&#8221;<\/a>).<\/li>\n<li>Sie zweifeln daran, ob es \u00fcberhaupt noch <em>echte<\/em> Gef\u00fchle zwischen Ihnen gibt und bef\u00fcrchten, dass sie nur noch aus Gewohnheit zusammen sind.<\/li>\n<li>Insgeheim fragen Sie sich manchmal: &#8220;Kannst Du Dir wirklich vorstellen, so weiterzuleben und m\u00f6chtest Du in dieser Konstellation alt werden?&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Sie haben die Phantasie, dass Sie mit einem anderen Partner mehr Liebe und Zufriedenheit erleben k\u00f6nnten.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>Haben Sie mehrmals innerlich genickt? Dann sollten Sie schnellstm\u00f6glich ins Handeln kommen! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Doch bevor wir uns mit einer L\u00f6sung f\u00fcr das Problem des Sich-auseinander-gelebt-F\u00fchlens besch\u00e4ftigen, m\u00f6chten wir den Scheinwerfer darauf lenken, weshalb sich selbst Paare, denen ihre Beziehung extrem wichtig war, auseinanderleben k\u00f6nnen.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1693833331517\"><strong>Warum leben Paare sich auseinander? Wie ver\u00e4ndern sich Beziehungen im Laufe der Zeit?<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Gruende fuer Trennung auf Zeit\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Trennung-auf-Zeit-Gruende.webp\" alt=\"Skizze wie Paar auf zwei Bergen sitzt und ueber Trennung auf Zeit mit Gedankenblase nachdenkt\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"52979\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;Das war doch fr\u00fcher mal ganz anders zwischen uns&#8230;&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Der Hormoncocktail, mit dem wir in der ersten Phase \u00fcberflutet werden, l\u00e4sst mit der Zeit automatisch nach, das Leben mit seinen vielf\u00e4ltigen Herausforderungen verlangt wieder zunehmend unsere Aufmerksamkeit. Das ist vollkommen &#8216;normal&#8217;.<strong>Eine langj\u00e4hrige Beziehung unterliegt ganz nat\u00fcrlichen Ver\u00e4nderungen und durchl\u00e4uft verschiedene Phasen, die wir im Folgenden noch einmal kurz unter die Lupe nehmen:\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331518\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Die Verliebtheits-Phase<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Love Bombing in toxischer Beziehung\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Toxische-Beziehung-Love-Bombing.jpg\" alt=\"Mann mit Herzen in einer Denkblase kniet vor Frau und zeigt ihr Zuneigung in der Beziehung\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"49019\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p>In den ersten Monaten (manchmal in den ersten ein, zwei Jahren) einer neuen Beziehung wollen beide Partner jeden Tag so viel gemeinsame Zeit wie nur m\u00f6glich miteinander verbringen.<\/p>\n<p><strong>In dieser Anfangs-Phase l\u00e4uft (zumindest in den meisten F\u00e4llen) alles wie von selbst: Die Gef\u00fchle zueinander \u00fcberschlagen sich, beide suchen viel N\u00e4he, haben Lust auf Sex, gehen z\u00e4rtlich und aufmerksam mit dem anderen um.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Irgendwann \u00e4ndern sich diese intensiven Gef\u00fchle &#8211; und davon werden einige Paare &#8216;kalt erwischt&#8217;. Dabei ist dieser Wandel eigentlich gar nicht schlimm, sondern wichtig und richtig &#8211; l\u00e4utet er doch den Anfang einer Phase ein, in der die heftige Verliebtheit allm\u00e4hlich in eine tiefe Liebe \u00fcbergehen kann.<\/p>\n<p>Unter anderem kann es auch passieren, dass man sich trotz einer Beziehung verliebt. Wie es dazu kommen kann und wie man am Besten mit diesem Gef\u00fchl umgeht, k\u00f6nnen Sie in <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">diesem Artikel<\/a> nachlesen.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331519\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Die Innigkeits-Phase<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Wie liebevolle Partnerschaft\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Liebevolle-Partnerschaft.jpg\" alt=\"Zeichnung wie Paar gl\u00fccklich auf einem Haufen von Herzen sitzt und sich umarmt\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"49059\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Idealerweise wird die Verliebtheit der ersten Zeit nach und nach durch Vertrautheit und das Gef\u00fchl von Verl\u00e4sslichkeit und Vorhersagbarkeit abgel\u00f6st, die es f\u00fcr eine lange Partnerschaft braucht. Das ist zwar nicht ganz so aufregend, aber umso wertvoller f\u00fcr unsere innere Stabilit\u00e4t und Gesundheit.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wir lernen einander tiefer kennen, bew\u00e4ltigen Herausforderungen als Team, gestalten den Alltag miteinander und gewinnen einen Gef\u00e4hrten, mit dem wir unser Leben verbringen m\u00f6chten.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wo also liegt das Problem?<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331520\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Die &#8220;Nichts passiert mehr von allein&#8221;-Phase<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Beziehung st\u00e4rken durch Liebe\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Sexuelle-Unlust-Mann-Beziehung-staerken.jpg\" alt=\"Skizze wie sich Mann und Frau sich im Stehen gegenseitig Herzen zuwerfen\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"49003\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Wie gesagt: Egal ob es um Z\u00e4rtlichkeit, Sex, Kommunikation oder gemeinsame Zeit geht &#8211; am Anfang l\u00e4uft alles ganz von selbst.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Im t\u00e4glichen To-Do-Listen-Hamsterrad muss sp\u00e4ter dann <em>aktiv<\/em> Raum f\u00fcr sch\u00f6ne Momente geschaffen werden. Sich bewusst Zeit f\u00fcr Zweisamkeit zu erm\u00f6glichen, hei\u00dft aber auch:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><em>Anderes hintanstellen<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Aufpassen, welche <em>Priorit\u00e4ten<\/em> wir setzen<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Regelm\u00e4\u00dfig bewusst NEIN sagen, wenn das Engagement, das wir z.B. f\u00fcr unseren Job oder unser Hobby einbringen, keine Zeit mehr f\u00fcr unsere Partnerschaft l\u00e4sst<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Denn wie bereits beschrieben: Die Hormone, die uns am Anfang einer neuen Liebe in einen regelrechten Rauschzustand versetzt haben, nehmen zwangsl\u00e4ufig ab.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Andere Dinge in unserem Leben gewinnen wieder an Bedeutung, wir werfen nicht mehr kopflos unsere Pflichten oder andere Verabredungen \u00fcber den Haufen, um jetzt und gleich mit unserem Partner ins Bett zu springen.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Und, ganz ehrlich: Das ist auch gut so. Denn sonst w\u00e4ren wir langfristig kaum in der Lage, unseren Alltag erfolgreich zu bestreiten. Es bedeutet allerdings auch, dass die Beziehung von nun an kein Selbstl\u00e4ufer mehr ist und man gezielt das &#8220;Wir&#8221; im Blick behalten muss.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1693833331522\"><strong>Erfordert Beziehung harte Arbeit? &#8211; Nein! Aber Aufmerksamkeit. Und Zeit.<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Beziehung wieder aufleben durch Beziehungsarbeit\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-Beziehungsarbeit.jpg\" alt=\"Zeichnung wie ein Paar mit einer Gie\u00dfkannen die Pflanze gie\u00dft, die wie das Paar aussieht\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"48927\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Mindestens einer von beiden Partnern hat oft die Vorstellung, dass irgendwann harte &#8216;Beziehungsarbeit&#8217; n\u00f6tig ist, um als Paar eine Zukunft zu haben.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Zum Gl\u00fcck ist keine schwei\u00dftreibende, unangenehme Arbeit erforderlich, um auch nach der ersten Honeymoon-Phase eine gl\u00fcckliche Partnerschaft zu f\u00fchren. Allerdings braucht es aktiven Einsatz. Beziehungen m\u00fcssen gehegt und gepflegt werden, um lebendig zu bleiben und weiterhin zu gedeihen.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Wie eine Pflanze, die verwelkt, wenn sie nicht regelm\u00e4\u00dfig gegossen wird, kann auch die Liebe eingehen &#8211; und Paare sp\u00fcren dann, dass sie immer weniger verbunden sind und sich immer mehr auseinanderleben.<\/p>\n<p>Wie w\u00e4re es mit Dates &#8211; so wie fr\u00fcher? Wir haben Ihnen eine Liste mit verschiedenen Ideen, f\u00fcr einen gem\u00fctlichen oder aufregenden Abend Zuhause erstellt. <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/date-ideen-fuer-zuhause\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hier finden Sie den Artikel mit Date-Ideen f\u00fcr Zuhause. <\/a><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331523\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Aufmerksamkeit in der Beziehung<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Fehlende Aufmerksamkeit in der Beziehung\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-fehlende-Aufmerksamkeit.jpg\" alt=\"Paar sitzt traurig und getrennt voneinander auf St\u00fchlen, weil sie sich auseinander gelebt haben\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"48928\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Als frisch Verliebte versuchen wir, dem oder der Geliebten W\u00fcnsche und Bed\u00fcrfnisse zu erf\u00fcllen, noch bevor sie \u00fcberhaupt ausgesprochen wurden. Es ist uns wichtig, dass es dem anderen gut geht und er sp\u00fcrt, mit uns &#8216;das ganz gro\u00dfe Los gezogen&#8217; zu haben &#8211; weil das Leben an unserer Seite schlie\u00dflich wunderbar ist&#8230; \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<p>Der Austausch\u00a0von Signalen der Wertsch\u00e4tzung und F\u00fcrsorge kann im Laufe\u00a0der Zeit jedoch abnehmen oder sogar zum Stillstand\u00a0kommen\u00a0\u2013 etwa dann,\u00a0wenn sich einer von beiden\u00a0immer mehr zur\u00fccknimmt (\u00e0 la\u00a0&#8220;Keine\u00a0Kritik\u00a0ist\u00a0Lob genug&#8221;) und dem anderen nur\u00a0noch mitteilt, wenn\u00a0ihm etwas\u00a0<em>nicht\u00a0<\/em>passt.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Jedesmal, wenn wir darauf achten, dem Anderen etwas Gutes zu tun und ihm eine Freude\u00a0machen,\u00a0investieren wir zugleich in unser eigenes\u00a0Lebensgl\u00fcck. Unser Wir-Gef\u00fchl wird gest\u00e4rkt\u00a0und wir wappnen uns automatisch f\u00fcr\u00a0&#8216;schwierigere Zeiten&#8217;.\u00a0\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Kein Experte der Welt wei\u00df so genau wie Sie, wodurch sich Ihr Partner &#8216;gesehen&#8217; f\u00fchlt und was er braucht, um sich entspannen zu k\u00f6nnen &#8211; also: Bleiben Sie aufmerksam und wohlwollend bzw. werden Sie es wieder!<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331524\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Zeit f\u00fcr die Partnerschaft<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Fehlende gemeinsame Zeit in Beziehung\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-fehlende-gemeinsame-Zeit.jpg\" alt=\"Skizze wie Paar mit 6 Armen viele Gegenst\u00e4nde h\u00e4lt und \u00fcberfordert ist mit allt\u00e4glichen Aufgaben\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"48929\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Wenn im Alltag die Zweisamkeit vernachl\u00e4ssigt wird und Sorgen, Pflichten, Probleme &#8211; aber auch sch\u00f6ne Dinge wie eigene Interessen, Hobbys oder Zeit f\u00fcr die Kinder &#8211; immer mehr die Oberhand gewinnen, k\u00f6nnen auch zun\u00e4chst sehr liebevolle und leidenschaftliche Beziehungen ins Wanken geraten.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sich bewusste Zeitfenster f\u00fcr einander freizuschaufeln, ist eine der wichtigsten Bedingungen daf\u00fcr, dass eine Paarbeziehung stabil und gl\u00fccklich bleibt.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Sollte Ihr Problem speziell darin bestehen, dass Sie einfach nicht gen\u00fcgend Zeit f\u00fcreinander finden &#8211; sei es wegen eines fordernden Jobs, famili\u00e4rer Verpflichtungen (Sorgen um Kinder oder Eltern&#8230;.) oder sonstiger Herausforderungen &#8211; m\u00f6chte ich Ihnen die Artikel <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/zu-wenig-zeit-in-der-beziehung\/\">Zu wenig Zeit in der Beziehung<\/a> bzw. <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/mental-load\/\">Schluss mit Mental Load<\/a> ans Herz legen.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1693833331525\"><strong>Auseinandergelebt: Das sind die Folgen<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Folgen Auseinandergelebt als Paar\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinandergelebt-Folgen.jpg\" alt=\"Zeichnung wie ein Paar zur Seite weg voneinander gedreht gemeinsam im Ehebett liegt\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"48930\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Sind wir frustriert, weil wir uns auseinandergelebt haben oder haben wir uns auseinander gelebt, weil wir oft gefrustet waren?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Was ist Henne, was ist Ei? Tatsache ist, dass fast immer, wenn sich ein Paar entfremdet hat, verschiedene belastende Entwicklungen mit diesem Erleben einhergehen. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Die h\u00e4ufigsten dieser m\u00f6glichen Probleme haben wir hier f\u00fcr Sie zusammengefasst.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331526\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>St\u00e4ndiger Streit<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1920 \/ 1090;\" title=\"Beziehungsstreit\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/Beziehungskrise-Streit.png\" alt=\"Paar streitet in Beziehungskrise\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"58824\" data-init-width=\"1920\" data-init-height=\"1090\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Erlebt sich ein Paar als nicht mehr richtig verbunden, kommt es schneller zu Konflikten. Mindestens einer der Partner f\u00fchlt sich nicht mehr genug gesehen und unterst\u00fctzt.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Streitigkeiten \u00fcber unerf\u00fcllte Bed\u00fcrfnisse f\u00fchren jedoch fast immer zum genauen Gegenteil des Erw\u00fcnschten &#8211; n\u00e4mlich dazu, dass die gef\u00fchlte Distanz noch gr\u00f6\u00dfer wird. Der passende Gespr\u00e4chsrahmen kann dabei helfen, die <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/kompromisse-in-der-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Kompromissfindung<\/a> zu erleichtern.<\/p>\n<p>Damit Sie sich also nicht noch weiter auseinanderleben, gilt es, Streits zu vermeiden, wann immer es geht, und gemeinsam konstruktivere Formen der Kommunikation zu finden. Wie das gelingen kann, erfahren Sie in unserem Artikel: <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/beziehungstipps\/staendiger-streit-in-der-beziehung\/\">&#8220;St\u00e4ndiger Streit in der Beziehung? Das sollten Sie wissen!&#8221;<\/a><\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331527\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Einsamkeit<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Einsamkeit weil Auseinander gelebt\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-Einsamkeit.jpg\" alt=\"Zeichnung wie Frau einsam und traurig an einem Tisch sitzt mit einem Achtung Symbol\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"48932\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Es liegt auf der Hand: Wenn die Distanz zum Partner immer gr\u00f6\u00dfer wird, erlebt man sich irgendwann als einsam. Schlie\u00dflich ist der Partner <em>der<\/em> Mensch, zu dem man die gr\u00f6\u00dfte N\u00e4he versp\u00fcren m\u00f6chte.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Die mentalen und k\u00f6rperlichen Folgen von dauerhafter Einsamkeit auf uns Menschen sind gravierend. Sollten Sie sich also bereits an diesem Punkt befinden, gilt es, schleunigst einen beherzten Versuch zu starten, wieder aufeinander zuzugehen und sich zu \u00f6ffnen.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331528\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Seitensprung<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Warum Affaere\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Affaere-verzeihen-Frage-Warum.jpg\" alt=\"Mann ist traurig ueber die Affaere seiner Frau\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"50377\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Einer der von Fremdg\u00e4ngern am h\u00e4ufigsten genannten Gr\u00fcnde daf\u00fcr, warum sie sich auf eine Aff\u00e4re eingelassen hatten, ist: Sexuelle oder emotionale Bed\u00fcrfnisse seien lange Zeit unerf\u00fcllt geblieben.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Als Begr\u00fcndungen daf\u00fcr, weshalb es zu einer Aff\u00e4re oder Au\u00dfenbeziehung gekommen ist, hei\u00dft es dann z.B:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/sexuelle-unlust-mann\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Es lief fast nichts<\/a> mehr zwischen uns &#8211; weder erotisch noch emotional.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Ich hatte so eine Sehnsucht danach, mich wieder einmal begehrt zu f\u00fchlen.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Dass sich jemand so sehr f\u00fcr mich interessiert hat, hat wahnsinnig gut getan.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Jeder machte nur noch sein Ding. Wir hatten uns total auseinander gelebt.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Selbstverst\u00e4ndlich hei\u00dft das nicht, dass der eigene Partner oder man selbst zwangsl\u00e4ufig eine Aff\u00e4re beginnen wird, weil man sich auseinander gelebt hat &#8211; aber die Wahrscheinlichkeit daf\u00fcr ist deutlich erh\u00f6ht.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Die Phantasie, dass ein neuer Partner die L\u00f6sung aller Probleme sein k\u00f6nnte, ist bestechend, wenn es in der Beziehung nicht mehr rund l\u00e4uft:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Mit einem Partner, der Dich neu kennenlernt, kannst Du endlich wieder Leidenschaft erleben.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Bestimmt langweilst Du Dich dann nicht l\u00e4nger im Alltag.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Du kannst Dich wieder begehrt f\u00fchlen, lachen, Du selbst sein.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;Du und Dein neuer Herzensmensch: Ihr habt mit Sicherheit tiefe, endlose Gespr\u00e4che. Habt den Drang, Euch immer besser kennenzulernen. Habt Lust darauf, Euch gemeinsam neu zu erfinden.&#8221;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>usw.<\/p>\n<p>Achtung, Achtung! Hier spricht zwar nicht die Polizei &#8211; aber Vertreter der Paartherapeuten-Zunft. Und je mehr Paare wir \u00fcber die Jahrzehnte begleiten durften, desto mehr pl\u00e4dieren wir f\u00fcr die Devise:<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>&#8220;Lieber mit dem alten Partner etwas Neues erleben, als mit einem neuen Partner das Alte.&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Zwei weitere Gedanken sind mir an dieser Stelle wichtig:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Auch, wenn Sie sich letztlich daf\u00fcr entscheiden sollten, Ihre jetzige Beziehung zu beenden, m\u00f6chten wir Ihnen dringend ans Herz legen: Lassen Sie sich &#8211; falls noch nicht geschehen &#8211; m\u00f6glichst nicht auf einen Seitensprung oder eine Aff\u00e4re ein. Eine emotionale Trennung durchzustehen, ist herausfordernd und belastend genug. Das Letzte, was Sie in dieser Zeit zus\u00e4tzlich gebrauchen k\u00f6nnen, sind Schuldgef\u00fchle und Selbstvorw\u00fcrfe.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Sollte das Kind schon in den Brunnen gefallen und es zu einem Seitensprung von Ihrem Partner oder Ihnen selbst gekommen sein, muss das nicht notwendigerweise das Ende Ihrer Beziehung bedeuten. Ihr Miteinander d\u00fcrfte allerdings einem emotionalen Minenfeld gleichen, durch das nun mit allergr\u00f6\u00dfter Vorsicht zu navigieren ist. Wie Ihnen das gelingen kann, erfahren Sie in unserem Artikel <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/affaere-verzeihen\/\">Aff\u00e4re verzeihen<\/a>.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In unserem Artikel <a style=\"outline: none;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/typisches-verhalten-nach-fremdgehen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">&#8220;Typisches Verhalten nach dem Fremdgehen&#8221;<\/a> erfahren Sie mehr dar\u00fcber, wie Sie <strong>Untreue<\/strong> bei Ihrem Partner entlarven k\u00f6nnen.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1693833331529\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Worst Case-Szenario: Trennung<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Angst vor einer Trennung\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Soll-ich-mich-trennen-Gruende-Trennung.jpg\" alt=\"Zeichnung wie Paar vor einem Geist der eine Trennung darstellen soll wegrennt\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"49129\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Hat sich ein Paar komplett auseinander gelebt, ist es oft nur eine Frage der Zeit, bis das Wort <em>Trennung<\/em> im Raum steht. Dieser Zustand des &#8220;Sich-zu-zweit-alleine-F\u00fchlens&#8221; ist auf lange Sicht f\u00fcr die meisten Menschen kaum zu ertragen.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Oft signalisiert ein Partner aus reiner Verzweiflung, dass er sich trennen m\u00f6chte &#8211; in der Hoffnung, dass der Andere sich ihm dann vielleicht doch wieder mehr zuwendet.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Aus unserer paartherapeutischen Erfahrung wissen wir: Sich zu trennen ist ein immens belastender Schritt, der mit schwerwiegenden Folgen einhergeht (insbesondere dann, wenn Kinder im Spiel sind) und will daher sehr gut \u00fcberlegt sein. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eine hochgradig emotionale Situation (Wut, Entt\u00e4uschung, Traurigkeit&#8230;) ist ein denkbar schlechter Zeitpunkt, um eine solche \u00dcberlegung in den Raum zu werfen. Wenn Sie ernsthaft mit dem Gedanken spielen, sich zu trennen, und Sie Ihren Partner dar\u00fcber in Kenntnis setzen m\u00f6chten, dann tun Sie das nicht, wenn Sie akut aufgew\u00fchlt sind.<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1693212124232\"><strong>Trennung? &#8211; Nicht, bevor Sie Ihrer Liebe noch einmal eine faire Chance gegeben haben!<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 350;\" title=\"Trennung verhindern\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Trennung-verhindern.jpg\" alt=\"Zeichnung eines Geistes der die Trennung verhindern soll\" width=\"812\" height=\"460\" data-id=\"59912\" data-init-width=\"800\" data-init-height=\"350\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"460\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Trennung?! Stopp!! Erst mal gaaaaanz langsam&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Grunds\u00e4tzlich gilt: Wer vor einer Trennung nicht wirklich alles in seiner Macht Stehende versucht hat, um die Beziehung noch zu retten, wird im Nachhinein mit Zweifeln und Selbstvorw\u00fcrfen k\u00e4mpfen. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Es ist immer besser, vor der Entscheidung f\u00fcr ein finales Ende des gemeinsamen Weges noch einen ernsthaften Versuch zu starten, die Beziehung wieder auf ein stabiles Fundament zu stellen.<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Doch wie genau k\u00f6nnen beide Partner es schaffen, wieder zueinander zu finden &#8211; obwohl sie sich sp\u00fcrbar auseinander gelebt haben?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Wie gelingt es, verletzte Gef\u00fchle heilen zu lassen und wieder Wohlwollen und Liebe zu empfinden?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Was braucht es, damit Streit und Argwohn beigelegt werden k\u00f6nnen und wieder Sch\u00f6nes in den Vordergrund r\u00fccken kann?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Die wichtigste Voraussetzung ist: Beide Partner haben noch ein <em>wirkliches<\/em> Interesse daran, die Beziehung weiter zu f\u00fchren (vermutlich ist dies zumindest bei Ihnen der Fall &#8211; sonst w\u00fcrden Sie nicht diesen Artikel lesen).<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Es liegt in Ihrer Macht, etwas zu ver\u00e4ndern!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" title=\"Zitat Erich K\u00e4stner Nichts Gutes\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Es-gibt-nichts-Gutes-ausser-man-tut-es.jpg\" alt=\"Zitat Es gibt nichts Gutes von Erich K\u00e4stner in einem gezeichneten Bilderrahmen\" width=\"812\" height=\"461\" data-id=\"48936\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" data-width=\"812\" data-height=\"461\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1716390676455\"><strong>Starten Sie jetzt mit dem Selbsttest<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\"><iframe id=\"JotFormIFrame-230927677969377\" style=\"min-width: 100%; height: 539px; border: none;\" title=\"Selbsttest: Fremdverliebt\" src=\"https:\/\/form.jotform.com\/223263586718363\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span> <\/iframe><div class=\"tve_iframe_cover\"><\/div><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Wir w\u00fcnsche Ihnen alles Liebe f\u00fcr sich und Ihre Beziehung!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ihre Dr. Judith Gastner &amp; das PaarBalance-Team<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Passende Artikel zum Thema<strong>\u00a0&#8220;Auseinander gelebt&#8221;\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1726662858576\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Liebe oder Gewohnheit? Wie steht es um Ihre Beziehung?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\"><a title=\"Liebe oder Gewohnheit? Wie steht es um Ihre Beziehung?\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/\" data-css=\"\">Liebe oder Gewohnheit? Wie steht es um Ihre Beziehung?<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Ist Gewohnheit in einer Partnerschaft der \u201eAnfang vom Ende\u201c? Oder eine nat\u00fcrliche und notwendige Komponente? Diesen und weiteren Fragen beantworten unsere Paartherapeuten in diesem Artikel.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1726662858576\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Liebe oder Gewohnheit? Wie steht es um Ihre Beziehung?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\"><a title=\"Beziehungstest (kostenfrei \u2013 10 min.): Wie steht es um meine Beziehung?\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungstest\/\" data-css=\"\">Beziehungstest (kostenfrei \u2013 10 min.): Wie steht es um meine Beziehung?<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Sie m\u00f6chten mehr \u00fcber die St\u00e4rken und Schw\u00e4chen in Ihrer Beziehung wissen? Durch den wissenschaftlich fundierten Online-Beziehungstest von PaarBalance erhalten Sie sofort Ihr pers\u00f6nliches Beziehungsprofil. 10 Minuten, die sich lohnen.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4 id=\"t-1726662858576\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Liebe oder Gewohnheit? Wie steht es um Ihre Beziehung?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\"><a title=\"Hilfe! Meine Beziehung ist eingeschlafen \u2013 Die 3 besten Aufweck-Tipps\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/hilfe-meine-beziehung-ist-eingeschlafen\/\" data-css=\"\">Hilfe! Meine Beziehung ist eingeschlafen \u2013 Die 3 besten Aufweck-Tipps<\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>Ist das noch Liebe zwischen uns \u2013 oder nur Gewohnheit? \u2013 Es tut weh sich einzugestehen, dass von der anf\u00e4nglichen Innigkeit und Leidenschaft nicht mehr viel zu sp\u00fcren ist. Die gute Nachricht: Liebesgef\u00fchle lassen sich wieder aufwecken. Und das oft schneller, als man denkt\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 id=\"t-1690966651737\">H\u00e4ufige Fragen<\/h2>\n<h3 id=\"t-1690966651738\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Warum leben sich Paare auseinander?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Es gibt viele Gr\u00fcnde, warum sich Menschen in einer Beziehung voneinander entfernen k\u00f6nnen, etwa wenn die Kommunikation nicht mehr gut funktioniert, es an gemeinsamen Interessen fehlt oder Erotik und Intimit\u00e4t zu kurz kommen. Auch unterschiedliche Lebensziele oder gegenseitige Verletzungen k\u00f6nnen dazu f\u00fchren, dass die emotionale Verbindung verloren geht.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1690966651739\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Woran merkt man, dass man sich als Paar auseinanderlebt?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Anzeichen von Entfremdung k\u00f6nnen sein, dass beide Partner immer weniger Zeit miteinander verbringen (wollen), die Intimit\u00e4t abnimmt oder es vermehrt zu Missverst\u00e4ndnissen wegen Kleinigkeiten kommt. Oft mangelt es auch an gegenseitiger Unterst\u00fctzung, Verst\u00e4ndnis f\u00fcreinander und der Bereitschaft, die Bed\u00fcrfnisse des anderen erf\u00fcllen zu wollen.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1690966651740\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Was tun, wenn man sich in der Beziehung auseinanderlebt?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Wenn die Gefahr besteht, sich als Paar auseinanderzuleben, sollte schnellstm\u00f6glich gegengesteuert werden. Reservieren Sie sich bewusst Zeit zu zweit. Sprechen Sie m\u00f6glichst offen \u00fcber das, was Sie besch\u00e4ftigt, was Sie sich erhoffen, was Sie sich anders w\u00fcnschen w\u00fcrden. Unternehmen Sie gemeinsam Dinge, die Ihnen beiden fr\u00fcher gut getan und Spa\u00df gemacht haben.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1690966651741\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Wie viel N\u00e4he und Abstand braucht eine gute Partnerschaft?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Das Bed\u00fcrfnis nach Gemeinsamkeit und Individualit\u00e4t ist bei jedem unterschiedlich ausgepr\u00e4gt. Daher gibt es auch kein Patentrezept f\u00fcr Paare. Zudem k\u00f6nnen sich pers\u00f6nliche Bed\u00fcrfnisse ver\u00e4ndern. Es braucht immer wieder die gemeinsame Suche nach der richtigen Balance zwischen individuellen Interessen und gemeinsamen Erlebnissen, mit der sich beide Partner wohlf\u00fchlen.<\/p>\n<h3 id=\"t-1690966651742\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>Wie kann man eine eingeschlafene Beziehung wiederbeleben?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Die wichtigste Voraussetzung ist, dass beide Partner an der Beziehung festhalten m\u00f6chten. Dann gilt es herauszufinden: Wann und warum hat die Partnerschaft an Schwung verloren? Was fehlt? Was braucht es? Suchen Sie den ehrlichen Austausch \u00fcber die jeweiligen Bed\u00fcrfnisse und W\u00fcnsche! Denn wenn wir wissen, woran es mangelt, k\u00f6nnen wir gezielt nach Abhilfe suchen.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you and your partner grown apart? Here we explain the most common reasons and 11 typical warning signs, describe the &#8216;classic&#8217; relationship phases, and give concrete recommendations on what you can do for your love now.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":"","tve_updated_post":"<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-columns tcb-tablet-hidden\" style=\"--tcb-col-el-width: 552.5;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5a\" data-class=\"tcb-tablet-hidden\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-row v-2 m-edit tcb-medium-no-wrap tcb--cols--2 tcb-mobile-wrap\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff59\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff55\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4d\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4e\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff56\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tcb-post-author-picture tcb-dynamic-field-source\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff47\" data-type=\"\" style=\"\" data-tcb-events=\"\">\n<span class=\"tve_image_frame\" data-tcb-events=\"\">\n[tcb_dynamic_field type=\"author\" alt=\"Standard Blog-Post\" title=\"Standard Blog-Post\" loading=\"lazy\" data-classes=\"avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo avatar avatar-256 photo tve_image\" data-css=\"tve-u-1896f9468f0\"]\n<\/span>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4b\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff51\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span class=\"thrive-shortcode-content\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_author_name\" data-shortcode-name=\"Author name\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/author\/jgastner\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Dr. Judith Gastner&quot;,&quot;data-css&quot;:&quot;tve-u-192dfd2ff53&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff53\" style=\"text-decoration: none;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff52\">[tcb_post_author_name link='1' target='0' rel='0' inline='1' static-link='{\"className\":\"\",\"href\":\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/author\/jgastner\/\",\"title\":\"Dr. Judith Gastner\",\"data-css\":\"tve-u-192dfd2ff53\",\"class\":\"\"}' css='tve-u-192dfd2ff53' link-css-attr=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff53\"]<\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4c\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff48\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-189b8212a78\">[pb_autor_info]<\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-1\" data-thickness-d=\"2\" data-color-d=\"rgb(255, 255, 255)\" data-gradient-d=\"linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(66, 66, 66) 0%, rgb(0, 0, 0) 100%)\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5e\" style=\"\">\n\t<hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-1\" style=\"\">\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5b\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5c\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff58\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff57\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4a\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff54\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-191bd379194\" style=\"\">Category:<\/span>\n<span class=\"thrive-shortcode-content\" data-attr-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff49\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_categories\" data-shortcode-name=\"List of categories\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff50\">[tcb_post_categories css='tve-u-192dfd2ff49' link='1' rel='0' target='0' inline='1' link-css-attr=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff49\"]<\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4a\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4f\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-191bd379194\">Article last updated on <span class=\"thrive-shortcode-content\" data-attr-date-format=\"j. F Y\" data-attr-date-format-select=\"custom\" data-attr-link=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-attr-show-time=\"0\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-time-format=\"\" data-attr-time-format-select=\"g:i a\" data-attr-type=\"modified\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_published_date\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post date\">[tcb_post_published_date date-format='j. F Y' date-format-select='custom' link='0' rel='0' show-time='0' target='0' time-format='' time-format-select='g:i a' type='modified' inline='1']<\/span><\/span><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-1\" data-thickness-d=\"2\" data-color-d=\"rgb(255, 255, 255)\" data-gradient-d=\"linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(66, 66, 66) 0%, rgb(0, 0, 0) 100%)\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5f\" style=\"\">\n\t<hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-1\" style=\"\">\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-columns tcb-tablet-hidden\" style=\"--tcb-col-el-width: 552.5;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31380\" data-class=\"tcb-tablet-hidden\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-row v-2 m-edit tcb-mobile-wrap tcb-medium-no-wrap tcb--cols--2\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31395\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31399\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31397\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-columns\" style=\"--tcb-col-el-width: 268.75;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137a\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-row v-2 tcb-resized tcb--cols--2 tcb-mobile-no-wrap m-edit\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137c\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31378\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\"><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137d\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31376\" style=\"\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31375\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31377\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tcb-icon-display tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31374\" style=\"\" data-style-d=\"circle_inverted\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" data-id=\"icon-check-solid\" data-name=\"\" style=\"\"><path d=\"M173.898 439.404l-166.4-166.4c-9.997-9.997-9.997-26.206 0-36.204l36.203-36.204c9.997-9.998 26.207-9.998 36.204 0L192 312.69 432.095 72.596c9.997-9.997 26.207-9.997 36.204 0l36.203 36.204c9.997 9.997 9.997 26.206 0 36.204l-294.4 294.401c-9.998 9.997-26.207 9.997-36.204-.001z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31379\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137e\" style=\"\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138e\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31394\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong><span data-css=\"tve-u-192df4855f7\" style=\"\">Quality assurance<\/span><\/strong><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137b\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31373\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/prof-dr-ludwig-schindler\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-189b8212a78\">Prof. Dr. Dr. Ludwig Schindler<\/span><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31383\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137f\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31384\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31382\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider tcb-desktop-hidden tcb-tablet-hidden\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-1\" data-thickness-d=\"3\" data-color-d=\"rgb(66, 66, 66)\" data-gradient-d=\"linear-gradient(90deg, rgb(66, 66, 66) 0%, rgb(0, 0, 0) 100%)\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3139b\" data-thickness-m=\"2\" data-color-m=\"rgb(255, 255, 255)\" style=\"\">\n\t<hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-1\" style=\"\">\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31398\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31381\" style=\"text-align: left;\"><span data-css=\"tve-u-191bd379194\" style=\"\">Share this article \ud83d\udc47\ud83c\udffb<\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-columns\" style=\"--tcb-col-el-width: 124.375; max-width: 50%; --tve-applied-max-width: 50% !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138c\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-row v-2 tcb--cols--5 tcb-resized tcb-mobile-no-wrap m-edit\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138d\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31386\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\"><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31387\"><a href=\"https:\/\/wa.me\/?text=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/auseinander-gelebt\/\" target=\"_blank\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tcb-icon-display tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31385\" style=\"\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" data-link-wrap=\"true\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" data-id=\"icon-whatsapp-brands\" data-name=\"\" style=\"\"><path d=\"M380.9 97.1C339 55.1 283.2 32 223.9 32c-122.4 0-222 99.6-222 222 0 39.1 10.2 77.3 29.6 111L0 480l117.7-30.9c32.4 17.7 68.9 27 106.1 27h.1c122.3 0 224.1-99.6 224.1-222 0-59.3-25.2-115-67.1-157zm-157 341.6c-33.2 0-65.7-8.9-94-25.7l-6.7-4-69.8 18.3L72 359.2l-4.4-7c-18.5-29.4-28.2-63.3-28.2-98.2 0-101.7 82.8-184.5 184.6-184.5 49.3 0 95.6 19.2 130.4 54.1 34.8 34.9 56.2 81.2 56.1 130.5 0 101.8-84.9 184.6-186.6 184.6zm101.2-138.2c-5.5-2.8-32.8-16.2-37.9-18-5.1-1.9-8.8-2.8-12.5 2.8-3.7 5.6-14.3 18-17.6 21.8-3.2 3.7-6.5 4.2-12 1.4-32.6-16.3-54-29.1-75.5-66-5.7-9.8 5.7-9.1 16.3-30.3 1.8-3.7.9-6.9-.5-9.7-1.4-2.8-12.5-30.1-17.1-41.2-4.5-10.8-9.1-9.3-12.5-9.5-3.2-.2-6.9-.2-10.6-.2-3.7 0-9.7 1.4-14.8 6.9-5.1 5.6-19.4 19-19.4 46.3 0 27.3 19.9 53.7 22.6 57.4 2.8 3.7 39.1 59.7 94.8 83.8 35.2 15.2 49 16.5 66.6 13.9 10.7-1.6 32.8-13.4 37.4-26.4 4.6-13 4.6-24.1 3.2-26.4-1.3-2.5-5-3.9-10.5-6.6z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31388\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\"><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31387\"><a href=\"mailto:?subject=Auseinander gelebt&amp;body=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden: https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/auseinander-gelebt\/\" target=\"_blank\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tcb-icon-display tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31393\" style=\"\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" data-link-wrap=\"true\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" data-id=\"icon-email-send-solid\" data-name=\"\" style=\"\"><path d=\"M13 17H17V14L22 18.5L17 23V20H13V17M20 4H4A2 2 0 0 0 2 6V18A2 2 0 0 0 4 20H11.35A5.8 5.8 0 0 1 11 18A6 6 0 0 1 22 14.69V6A2 2 0 0 0 20 4M20 8L12 13L4 8V6L12 11L20 6Z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138b\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\"><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31387\"><a href=\"https:\/\/t.me\/share\/url?url=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/auseinander-gelebt\/&amp;text=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden:\" target=\"_blank\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tcb-icon-display tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31392\" style=\"\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" data-link-wrap=\"true\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 448 512\" data-id=\"icon-telegram-plane-brands\" data-name=\"\" style=\"\"><path d=\"M446.7 98.6l-67.6 318.8c-5.1 22.5-18.4 28.1-37.3 17.5l-103-75.9-49.7 47.8c-5.5 5.5-10.1 10.1-20.7 10.1l7.4-104.9 190.9-172.5c8.3-7.4-1.8-11.5-12.9-4.1L117.8 284 16.2 252.2c-22.1-6.9-22.5-22.1 4.6-32.7L418.2 66.4c18.4-6.9 34.5 4.1 28.5 32.2z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31389\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\"><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31387\"><a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/intent\/tweet?url=https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/auseinander-gelebt\/&amp;text=Ich habe diesen interessanten Artikel gefunden:\" target=\"_blank\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tcb-icon-display tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31391\" style=\"\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" data-link-wrap=\"true\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 512 512\" data-id=\"icon-x-twitter-brands\" data-name=\"\" style=\"\"><path d=\"M389.2 48h70.6L305.6 224.2 487 464H345L233.7 318.6 106.5 464H35.8L200.7 275.5 26.8 48H172.4L272.9 180.9 389.2 48zM364.4 421.8h39.1L151.1 88h-42L364.4 421.8z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138a\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\"><div class=\"tcb-clear\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31387\"><a href=\"#\" target=\"_blank\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tcb-icon-display tcb-local-vars-root copy-link\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138f\" style=\"\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" data-link-wrap=\"true\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" data-id=\"icon-link-variant-solid\" data-name=\"\" style=\"\"><path d=\"M10.59,13.41C11,13.8 11,14.44 10.59,14.83C10.2,15.22 9.56,15.22 9.17,14.83C7.22,12.88 7.22,9.71 9.17,7.76V7.76L12.71,4.22C14.66,2.27 17.83,2.27 19.78,4.22C21.73,6.17 21.73,9.34 19.78,11.29L18.29,12.78C18.3,11.96 18.17,11.14 17.89,10.36L18.36,9.88C19.54,8.71 19.54,6.81 18.36,5.64C17.19,4.46 15.29,4.46 14.12,5.64L10.59,9.17C9.41,10.34 9.41,12.24 10.59,13.41M13.41,9.17C13.8,8.78 14.44,8.78 14.83,9.17C16.78,11.12 16.78,14.29 14.83,16.24V16.24L11.29,19.78C9.34,21.73 6.17,21.73 4.22,19.78C2.27,17.83 2.27,14.66 4.22,12.71L5.71,11.22C5.7,12.04 5.83,12.86 6.11,13.65L5.64,14.12C4.46,15.29 4.46,17.19 5.64,18.36C6.81,19.54 8.71,19.54 9.88,18.36L13.41,14.83C14.59,13.66 14.59,11.76 13.41,10.59C13,10.2 13,9.56 13.41,9.17Z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\" data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31396\" style=\"\"><code class=\"tve_js_placeholder\">[tcb-script]\ndocument.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\", function() {\n    const copyLinks = document.querySelectorAll(\".copy-link\");\n    copyLinks.forEach(link =&gt; {\n        link.addEventListener(\"click\", function(event) {\n            event.preventDefault();\n            const textToCopy = \"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/auseinander-gelebt\/\";\n            navigator.clipboard.writeText(textToCopy).then(function() {\n                alert(\"Link wurde in die Zwischenablage kopiert!\");\n            }).catch(function(error) {\n                alert(\"Fehler beim Kopieren des Links: \" + error);\n            });\n        });\n    });\n});\n[\/tcb-script]<\/code><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d32481cf\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-59367\" data-id=\"59367\" data-init-width=\"800\" data-init-height=\"260\" title=\"Article header - grown apart\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 260;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192703b6ad1\" data-height=\"253\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple sitting sadly and thoughtfully apart at a large table\" data-id=\"59367\" data-init-width=\"800\" data-init-height=\"260\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Artikel-Header-Auseinander-gelebt.jpg\" data-width=\"758\" data-css=\"tve-u-18b7130a0ef\" data-height=\"246\" width=\"758\" height=\"246\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 260;\" class=\"wp-image-59367\" title=\"Overview: Grown apart\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d32481d0\"><em><em><em>I feel kind of alone \u2013 even when I'm with my partner... We often hear such or similar statements in our practice when people describe how they have grown apart in their relationship.<\/em><\/em><\/em><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa86373\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-59982\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" data-css=\"tve-u-1920f68b05b\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e4\" style=\"\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 0px; border: none !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e3\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e5\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb Quick start: Grown apart - 11 typical signs &amp; phases<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-styled_list tcb-icon-display\" data-icon-code=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e6\" style=\"\"><ul class=\"tcb-styled-list\"><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e7\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9ee\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e8\" style=\"\"><strong><strong>Recognize the signs<\/strong> :<\/strong> There are clear signs that indicate couples have grown apart over time. Frequent withdrawal, a lack of shared interests, and a routine in daily life are just a few of them.<a href=\"#tve-jump-1928aa9d031\" class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" style=\"outline: none;\"> Learn more.<\/a> \u2193<\/span><\/li><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e7\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9ee\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e8\" style=\"\"><strong><strong>Causes:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/strong> Relationships change over time, often due to stress, new life circumstances, or a lack of attention. These changes can lead to couples growing emotionally distant.<a href=\"#tve-jump-1928aaaa413\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_new\" class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" style=\"outline: none;\"> Learn more about the causes here.<\/a> \u2193<\/span><\/li><li class=\"thrv-styled-list-item\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e7\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-styled-list-icon\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tcb-no-delete tcb-no-clone tcb-no-save tcb-icon-inherit-style\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9ee\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon tcb-local-vars-root\" viewBox=\"0 0 256 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-right-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M224.3 273l-136 136c-9.4 9.4-24.6 9.4-33.9 0l-22.6-22.6c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l96.4-96.4-96.4-96.4c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9L54.3 103c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l136 136c9.5 9.4 9.5 24.6.1 34z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div><\/div><span class=\"thrv-advanced-inline-text tve_editable tcb-styled-list-icon-text tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e8\" style=\"\"><strong>Self-test and a new chance:<\/strong> Before considering a breakup, you should consciously give the relationship another chance and specifically address the problems. <strong><a href=\"#tve-jump-1928aab84bb\" rel=\"noopener\" target=\"_new\" class=\"tve-jump-scroll\" style=\"outline: none;\">Find out how with a quick and free self-test.<\/a><\/strong> \u2193<\/span><\/li><\/ul><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa86373\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image wp-image-59982\" alt=\"\" data-id=\"59982\" width=\"30\" data-init-width=\"150\" height=\"30\" data-init-height=\"150\" title=\"PaarBalance Divider Icon\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/PaarBalance-Divider-Icon.png\" data-width=\"30\" data-height=\"30\" data-css=\"tve-u-1920f68b05b\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 150 \/ 150;\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>\"What has happened to us? We used to be inseparable and had such a wonderful time together - and now we often hardly know what the other person is doing or what's on their mind.\"<\/p><p><strong>We humans are attachment beings. Therefore, it is very distressing for us when we feel an increasing distance from our most important caregivers.<\/strong><\/p><p>If we fail to take targeted countermeasures, there is a risk that even relationships that were originally very stable and experienced as intimate will one day break down.<\/p><p>Most couples then separate in the hope of finding lasting closeness and connection with a new partner.<\/p><p>However, research on couple therapy has shown us that separation and divorce are among the most painful life events \u2013 and the divorce rate for second or third marriages is even higher than for first-time married couples.<\/p><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d3788ed3\"><strong>Therefore, before one has calmly examined their relationship again, it makes no sense to make a decision about a potentially consequential separation.<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc tve-elem-scroll tve-toc-expandable show-icon tcb-icon-display tcb-local-vars-root\" data-columns=\"1\" data-ct=\"toc-60692\" data-transition=\"fade\" data-headers=\"h2\" data-numbering=\"advanced\" data-highlight=\"progressive\" data-ct-name=\"Table of Contents 11\" data-heading-style=\"{&quot;0&quot;:&quot;tve-u-191d8a30bb0&quot;,&quot;1&quot;:&quot;tve-u-191d8a30bae&quot;,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;tve-u-191d8a30ba1&quot;}\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba2\" data-state-default=\"collapsed\" data-bullet-style=\"{&quot;0&quot;:&quot;tve-u-66bb3813415186&quot;,&quot;1&quot;:&quot;tve-u-66bb3813415199&quot;,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;tve-u-66bb38134151a6&quot;}\" data-number-style=\"{&quot;0&quot;:&quot;tve-u-191d8a30ba9&quot;,&quot;1&quot;:&quot;tve-u-191d8a30baa&quot;,&quot;2&quot;:&quot;tve-u-191d8a30bab&quot;}\" data-animation=\"slide\" data-state-default-d=\"expanded\" data-columns-d=\"1\" data-state-default-m=\"collapsed\" data-element-name=\"Table of Contents\" data-form-settings=\"__TCB_FORM__{&quot;form_identifier&quot;:&quot;clone-of-typisches-verhalten-nach-fremdgehen-so-entlarven-sie-untreue-partner-form-66bb38&quot;}__TCB_FORM__\" data-number-suffix=\"{&quot;0&quot;:&quot;.&quot;}\" data-styled-scrollbar=\"0\" data-id=\"mezy03vm\"><div class=\"thrive-colors-palette-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_colors_palette__{\"active_palette\":0,\"config\":{\"colors\":{\"a027f\":{\"name\":\"Main Accent\",\"parent\":-1},\"21e68\":{\"name\":\"Main Accent Light\",\"parent\":\"a027f\",\"lock\":{\"lightness\":1}},\"f1170\":{\"name\":\"Main Accent Transparent\",\"parent\":\"\",\"lock\":{\"lightness\":1}}},\"gradients\":[]},\"palettes\":[{\"name\":\"Default\",\"value\":{\"colors\":{\"a027f\":{\"val\":\"rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05)\"},\"21e68\":{\"val\":\"rgb(184, 211, 255)\",\"hsl_parent_dependency\":{\"h\":217,\"l\":0.86,\"s\":1.03}},\"f1170\":{\"val\":\"rgba(65, 178, 233, 0.7)\"}},\"gradients\":[]},\"original\":{\"colors\":{\"a027f\":{\"val\":\"rgb(65, 178, 233)\",\"hsl\":{\"h\":199,\"s\":0.79,\"l\":0.58,\"a\":1}},\"21e68\":{\"val\":\"rgb(193, 231, 249)\",\"hsl_parent_dependency\":{\"h\":199,\"s\":0.82,\"l\":0.86,\"a\":1}},\"f1170\":{\"val\":\"rgba(65, 178, 233, 0.7)\"}},\"gradients\":[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__<\/div><svg class=\"toc-icons\" style=\"position: absolute; width: 0; height: 0; overflow: hidden;\" version=\"1.1\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\"><symbol id=\"toc-bullet-0-mezy03vm\" viewBox=\"0 0 320 512\" data-id=\"icon-chevron-right-solid\"><path d=\"M285.476 272.971L91.132 467.314c-9.373 9.373-24.569 9.373-33.941 0l-22.667-22.667c-9.357-9.357-9.375-24.522-.04-33.901L188.505 256 34.484 101.255c-9.335-9.379-9.317-24.544.04-33.901l22.667-22.667c9.373-9.373 24.569-9.373 33.941 0L285.475 239.03c9.373 9.372 9.373 24.568.001 33.941z\"><\/path><\/symbol><symbol id=\"toc-bullet-1-mezy03vm\" viewBox=\"0 0 320 512\" data-id=\"icon-chevron-right-solid\"><path d=\"M285.476 272.971L91.132 467.314c-9.373 9.373-24.569 9.373-33.941 0l-22.667-22.667c-9.357-9.357-9.375-24.522-.04-33.901L188.505 256 34.484 101.255c-9.335-9.379-9.317-24.544.04-33.901l22.667-22.667c9.373-9.373 24.569-9.373 33.941 0L285.475 239.03c9.373 9.372 9.373 24.568.001 33.941z\"><\/path><\/symbol><symbol id=\"toc-bullet-2-mezy03vm\" viewBox=\"0 0 320 512\" data-id=\"icon-chevron-right-solid\"><path d=\"M285.476 272.971L91.132 467.314c-9.373 9.373-24.569 9.373-33.941 0l-22.667-22.667c-9.357-9.357-9.375-24.522-.04-33.901L188.505 256 34.484 101.255c-9.335-9.379-9.317-24.544.04-33.901l22.667-22.667c9.373-9.373 24.569-9.373 33.941 0L285.475 239.03c9.373 9.372 9.373 24.568.001 33.941z\"><\/path><\/symbol><\/svg><div class=\"tve-toc-divider\" style=\"position: absolute; width: 0; height: 0; overflow: hidden;\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider tve-vert-divider\" data-style=\"tve_sep-1\" data-color-d=\"rgb(217, 217, 217)\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba8\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-4\" data-thickness-d=\"2\"><hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-4\" style=\"\"><\/div><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 0px; border: none !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba3\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-title reverse show-icon tve-no-dropzone tcb-icon-display tve-prevent-content-edit\" style=\"border-top-left-radius: 10px !important; border-top-right-radius: 10px !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\"><div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"tve-toc-title-icon\" data-icon-code=\"icon-angle-down-solid\" style=\"\"><svg class=\"tcb-icon\" viewBox=\"0 0 320 512\" data-id=\"icon-angle-down-solid\" data-name=\"\"><path d=\"M143 352.3L7 216.3c-9.4-9.4-9.4-24.6 0-33.9l22.6-22.6c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l96.4 96.4 96.4-96.4c9.4-9.4 24.6-9.4 33.9 0l22.6 22.6c9.4 9.4 9.4 24.6 0 33.9l-136 136c-9.2 9.4-24.4 9.4-33.8 0z\"><\/path><\/svg><\/div>\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element tve_no_icons\" style=\"overflow: hidden; border-radius: 0px !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30baf\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba7\">Table of Contents<\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><\/div><div class=\"tve-cb tve-toc-content tve-prevent-content-edit\">\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-list tcb-no-delete tcb-no-save tcb-no-clone tve-no-dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba5\" style=\"\" data-styled-scrollbar=\"0\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba6\" style=\"\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"tve_ct_content tve_clearfix\"><div class=\"ct_column\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693833331515\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">1.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693833331515\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Grown apart: Test<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693833331516\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">2.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693833331516\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">11 typical signs that couples are growing apart&nbsp;<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693833331517\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">3.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693833331517\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Why do couples drift apart? How do relationships change over time?<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693833331522\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">4.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693833331522\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Does a relationship require hard work? - No! But it does require attention. And time.<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693833331525\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">5.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693833331525\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Grown apart: These are the consequences<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1693212124232\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">6.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1693212124232\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Breakup? - Not before you've given your love another fair chance!<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1716390676455\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">7.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1716390676455\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Start your self-test now<\/a><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-heading tve-toc-heading-level0 tve_no_icons\" data-tag=\"H2\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\" data-element-name=\"Heading Level 1\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve-toc-number tve-toc-number0 tve_no_icons tve-jump-scroll\" data-target=\"#t-1690966651737\" jump-animation=\"smooth\" data-element-name=\"Number Level 1\" data-level=\"0\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"><span class=\"tve-toc-disabled\">8.<\/span><\/div><a href=\"#t-1690966651737\" class=\"tve-toc-anchor tve-jump-scroll\" jump-animation=\"smooth\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider tve-vert-divider\" data-style=\"tve_sep-1\" data-color-d=\"rgb(217, 217, 217)\" data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba8\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-4\" data-thickness-d=\"2\"><hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-4\" style=\"\"><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\" id=\"\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60568460\" id=\"t-1693833331515\" style=\"\"><strong>Grown apart: Test<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-18a60574740\" style=\"\">Do you feel that a greater distance has only <em>recently become noticeable in your relationship, or that you've been growing apart <\/em><em>for some time<\/em> ? Do you <em>sometimes feel closer to your partner, sometimes less so<\/em> , or do you feel almost <em>constantly like strangers<\/em> ? Do you have the impression that a <em>specific painful experience<\/em> is driving a wedge between you? Or is this <em>feeling of \"growing apart\" more diffuse<\/em> ?<\/p><p>The following (free) short test on the topic <strong>\"How much have we grown apart?\"<\/strong> can help you to sort things out internally.<\/p><p>After answering 10 questions, you will receive feedback on the <em>extent to which<\/em> you and your partner have already grown apart, and you will receive specific tips on what you can do in your situation.<\/p><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60572c0d\"><strong>Click here to start the test:<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_custom_html_shortcode\" data-css=\"tve-u-197701ff160\" style=\"\" id=\"selbsttest\"><iframe id=\"JotFormIFrame-223263586718363\" title=\"Self-test: Grown apart\" onload=\"window.parent.scrollTo(0,0)\" allowtransparency=\"true\" allow=\"geolocation; microphone; camera; fullscreen; payment\" src=\"https:\/\/form.jotform.com\/223263586718363\" frameborder=\"0\" style=\"min-width:100%;max-width:100%;height:539px;border:none;\" scrolling=\"no\">\n    <\/iframe>\n    <code class=\"tve_js_placeholder\">[tcb-script src=\"https:\/\/cdn.jotfor.ms\/s\/umd\/latest\/for-form-embed-handler.js\"][\/tcb-script]<\/code>\n    <code class=\"tve_js_placeholder\">[tcb-script]window.jotformEmbedHandler(\"iframe[id='JotFormIFrame-223263586718363']\", \"https:\/\/form.jotform.com\/\")[\/tcb-script]<\/code><div class=\"tve_iframe_cover\"><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-page-section tve-height-update tcb-window-width tcb-desktop-hidden tcb-tablet-hidden\" data-tve-scroll=\"{&quot;disabled&quot;:[&quot;desktop&quot;,&quot;tablet&quot;],&quot;top&quot;:0,&quot;mode&quot;:&quot;sticky&quot;,&quot;end&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;stickyPosition&quot;:&quot;bottom&quot;}\" data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf025\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-out\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf021\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-page-section-in tve_empty_dropzone\" data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf020\" style=\"\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-button thrv-button-v2 tcb-local-vars-root\" data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01d\" data-button-size-m=\"s\" style=\"\">\n<div class=\"thrive-colors-palette-config\" style=\"display: none !important\">__CONFIG_colors_palette__{\"active_palette\":0,\"config\":{\"colors\":{\"62516\":{\"name\":\"Main Accent\",\"parent\":-1}},\"gradients\":[]},\"palettes\":[{\"name\":\"Default Palette\",\"value\":{\"colors\":{\"62516\":{\"val\":\"var(--tcb-color-0)\"}},\"gradients\":[]}}]}__CONFIG_colors_palette__<\/div>\n<a href=\"#selbsttest\" class=\"tcb-button-link tcb-plain-text tve-jump-scroll\" style=\"\" jump-animation=\"smooth\"><span class=\"tcb-button-icon\">\n\t<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_icon tve_no_drag tve_no_icons tcb-icon-inherit-style\">\n\t<svg data-name=\"credit-card\" class=\"tcb-icon\" version=\"1.1\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" x=\"0px\" y=\"0px\" viewBox=\"0 0 18 14\" xml:space=\"preserve\" preserveAspectRatio=\"none slice\">\n\t\t<g>\n\t\t\t<path d=\"M17.5,1.9v10.6c0,0.8-0.6,1.4-1.4,1.4h-14c-0.8,0-1.4-0.6-1.4-1.4V1.9c0-0.8,0.6-1.4,1.4-1.4h14 C16.9,0.5,17.5,1.1,17.5,1.9z M1.9,1.9v2h14.5v-2c0-0.1-0.1-0.3-0.3-0.3h-14C2,1.6,1.9,1.7,1.9,1.9z M16.4,12.5V7.2H1.9v5.3 c0,0.1,0.1,0.3,0.3,0.3h14C16.3,12.8,16.4,12.6,16.4,12.5z M3,10.5h2.2v1.1H3V10.5z M6.3,10.5h3.4v1.1H6.3V10.5z\"><\/path>\n\t\t<\/g>\n\t<\/svg>\n\t<\/div>\n<\/span>\n\n<span class=\"tcb-button-texts\"><span class=\"tcb-button-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01f\">Start a free test. <\/span><span class=\"tcb-secondary-text thrv-inline-text\" data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01e\" style=\"\">Do you feel alienated?<\/span><\/span>\n<\/a>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf023\" style=\"\"><p data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf022\" style=\"text-align: center;\">\ud83d\ude80 <strong>2,995 people<\/strong> discovered new ways of being close through this free test.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\" id=\"tve-jump-1928aa9d031\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057b60c\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693833331516\"><strong>11 typical signs that couples are growing apart&nbsp;<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057f5e0\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48922\" data-id=\"48922\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Grown apart: 11 typical signs\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192703c9f77\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch showing how a couple is separated by a wall between them.\" data-id=\"48922\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-typische-Anzeichen.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446aa1ea\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48922\" title=\"Distance in relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057f5e2\">And this distance appeared all of a sudden \u2013 overnight? Hardly! The feeling of alienation usually grows gradually...<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>Below are some of the most common warning signs that you are in danger of growing apart or have already grown apart.<\/strong><\/p><ol class=\"\"><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a60594b78\" style=\"\">They sometimes feel lonely, even when there are two of them.<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a60595759\" style=\"\">You often have the feeling that your partner doesn't really perceive you anymore.<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a605965c2\" style=\"\">They are less and less able to talk calmly about what's on their minds.<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059b56a\" style=\"\">There is hardly any affection in your everyday life anymore.<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059d0f4\" style=\"\">Their relationship has somehow \"fallen asleep\" (see also our article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/hilfe-meine-beziehung-ist-eingeschlafen\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">\"Help! My relationship has fallen asleep\"<\/a> ).<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059e16e\" style=\"\">Their life as a couple is more of a \"coexistence\" than a \"togetherness\".<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059ed2a\" style=\"\">Worries, problems, stress and everyday life leave little room for moments in which you feel intimacy and love.<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059faa3\" style=\"\">Passion, desire and sex have (almost) completely disappeared (see article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/kein-sex-mehr-in-der-ehe\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">\"No more sex in the relationship\"<\/a> ).<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a0c53\" style=\"\">They doubt whether there are any <em>real<\/em> feelings left between them and fear that they are only together out of habit.<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a24b0\" style=\"\">Secretly, you sometimes ask yourself: \"Can you really imagine continuing to live like this, and do you want to grow old in this situation?\"<\/li><li data-css=\"tve-u-18a6058ed69\" style=\"\">You fantasize that you could experience more love and satisfaction with a different partner.<\/li><\/ol><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a3e6a\"><strong>Did you find yourself nodding in agreement several times? Then you should take action as soon as possible!<\/strong><\/p><p>But before we look at a solution to the problem of feeling grown apart, we would like to shine a spotlight on why even couples for whom their relationship was extremely important can grow apart.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\" id=\"tve-jump-1928aaaa413\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a60b8\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693833331517\"><strong>Why do couples drift apart? How do relationships change over time?<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a93e4\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48923\" data-id=\"48923\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"They've grown apart: Why?\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-1921ac4ab86\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple sitting on two mountains, contemplating a temporary separation, with thought bubbles.\" data-id=\"52979\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/08\/Trennung-auf-Zeit-Gruende.webp\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446aa9f7\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-52979\" title=\"Reasons for temporary separation\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a93e6\">\"Things used to be very different between us...\"<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b36b4\">The hormonal cocktail that floods us in the initial phase naturally subsides over time, and life, with its many challenges, increasingly demands our attention again. This is perfectly normal. <br><strong><br>Long-term relationships undergo natural changes and go through various phases, which we will briefly examine below:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b6a4e\" id=\"t-1693833331518\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>The infatuation phase<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b9d84\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48924\" data-id=\"48924\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Growing apart: The infatuation phase\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-1927048fb8c\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Man with hearts in a thought bubble kneels before woman, showing her affection in the relationship.\" data-id=\"49019\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Toxische-Beziehung-Love-Bombing.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446ab249\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-49019\" title=\"Love bombing in a toxic relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>In the first few months (sometimes the first one or two years) of a new relationship, both partners want to spend as much time together as possible every day.<\/p><p><strong>In this initial phase, everything runs smoothly (at least in most cases): feelings for each other are intense, both seek closeness, desire sex, and treat each other tenderly and attentively.<\/strong><\/p><p>These intense feelings eventually change \u2013 and some couples are caught off guard by this. However, this change isn't actually a bad thing; in fact, it's important and normal \u2013 it marks the beginning of a phase in which intense infatuation can gradually transform into deep love.<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/verliebt-trotz-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">It's also possible to fall in love despite being in a relationship. This article<\/a> explains&nbsp; how this can happen and how best to deal with this feeling.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a605c6f20\" id=\"t-1693833331519\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>The intimacy phase<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605ca1f1\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48925\" data-id=\"48925\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Grown apart: The intimacy phase\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192706a956c\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple happily sitting on a pile of hearts and hugging each other.\" data-id=\"49059\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Liebevolle-Partnerschaft.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446aba20\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-49059\" title=\"How loving partnership\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>Ideally, the initial infatuation gradually gives way to familiarity and a sense of reliability and predictability, which are essential for a long-term partnership. While this may not be quite as exciting, it is all the more valuable for our inner stability and well-being.<\/p><p><strong>We get to know each other more deeply, overcome challenges as a team, shape our everyday lives together, and gain a companion with whom we want to spend our lives.<\/strong><\/p><p>So where does the problem lie?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a605d5b57\" id=\"t-1693833331520\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>The \"Nothing happens by itself anymore\" phase<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605d8d92\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48926\" data-id=\"48926\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"The &quot;Nothing happens by itself anymore&quot; phase\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192709b97dd\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a man and woman throwing hearts to each other while standing\" data-id=\"49003\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Sexuelle-Unlust-Mann-Beziehung-staerken.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446ac23d\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-49003\" title=\"Strengthening relationships through love\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>As I said: Whether it's about tenderness, sex, communication or time spent together - in the beginning everything happens quite naturally.<\/p><p><strong>In the daily grind of to-do lists, space must later be <em>actively<\/em> created for beautiful moments. Consciously making time for togetherness also means:<\/strong><\/p><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605eae08\"><strong><em>Putting other things aside<\/em><\/strong><\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605eae14\"><strong>Be careful what <em>priorities<\/em> we set.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li><strong>Regularly and consciously saying NO when the commitment we put into, for example, our job or our hobby leaves no time for our relationship.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul><p>Because, as already described: The hormones that put us in a veritable state of euphoria at the beginning of a new love inevitably decrease.<\/p><p><strong>Other things in our lives regain importance; we no longer mindlessly throw away our duties or other appointments to jump into bed with our partner right now.<\/strong><\/p><p>And, quite honestly, that's a good thing. Otherwise, we'd hardly be able to manage our daily lives successfully in the long run. However, it also means that the relationship is no longer a given and that we have to consciously keep the \"we\" in mind.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605ecb8d\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693833331522\"><strong>Does a relationship require hard work? - No! But it does require attention. And time.<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605f09fc\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48927\" data-id=\"48927\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Grown apart: Relationship work\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-19270b14ec7\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple watering a plant with a watering can, which looks like the couple.\" data-id=\"48927\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-Beziehungsarbeit.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446aca38\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48927\" title=\"Reviving a relationship through relationship work\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a605f09fd\">At least one of the partners often has the idea that at some point hard 'relationship work' will be necessary in order to have a future as a couple.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>Fortunately, no strenuous, unpleasant work is required to maintain a happy partnership after the initial honeymoon phase. However, active effort is necessary. Relationships need to be nurtured and cared for to remain vibrant and continue to flourish.<\/strong><\/p><p>Like a plant that withers if it is not watered regularly, love can also fade - and couples then feel that they are less and less connected and growing further and further apart.<\/p><p>How about dates \u2013 like in the old days? We've compiled a list of different ideas for a cozy or exciting evening at home. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/date-ideen-fuer-zuhause\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">Here you'll find the article with date ideas for home.<\/a><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a605fe7b0\" id=\"t-1693833331523\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Attention in the relationship<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a606030d0\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48928\" data-id=\"48928\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Drifting apart: Lack of attention\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-19270e38391\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"A couple sits sadly and separately on chairs because they have grown apart.\" data-id=\"48928\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-fehlende-Aufmerksamkeit.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446ad2b6\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48928\" title=\"Lack of attention in the relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>As someone newly in love, we try to fulfill our beloved's wishes and needs even before they've been expressed. It's important to us that the other person is happy and feels like they've 'hit the jackpot' with us \u2013 because life by our side is truly wonderful... ;-)<\/p><p>However, the exchange of signals of appreciation and care can decrease or even come to a standstill over time \u2013 for example, when one of the two withdraws more and more (\u00e0 la \"No criticism is praise enough\") and only tells the other when something is&nbsp; <em>not&nbsp;<\/em> to their liking.<\/p><p><strong>Every time we make an effort to do something good for someone else and bring them joy, we are simultaneously investing in our own happiness. Our sense of community is strengthened, and we automatically prepare ourselves for 'more difficult times'.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p><p>No expert in the world knows as well as you what makes your partner feel 'seen' and what they need to relax - so: Stay attentive and kind, or become so again!<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a60612260\" id=\"t-1693833331524\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Time for the partnership<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a6061573b\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48929\" data-id=\"48929\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Drifting apart: lack of time together\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-19270ea6bd8\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sketch of a couple with 6 arms holding many objects and overwhelmed by everyday tasks\" data-id=\"48929\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-fehlende-gemeinsame-Zeit.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446ada4f\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48929\" title=\"Lack of shared time in relationship\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p>When togetherness is neglected in everyday life and worries, duties, problems - but also beautiful things like personal interests, hobbies or time for the children - increasingly gain the upper hand, even initially very loving and passionate relationships can falter.<\/p><p><strong>Making conscious time slots for each other is one of the most important conditions for a couple's relationship to remain stable and happy.<\/strong><\/p><p>If your problem is specifically that you simply don't find enough time for each other \u2013 be it due to a demanding job, family obligations (worries about children or parents...) or other challenges \u2013 I would like to recommend the articles <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/zu-wenig-zeit-in-der-beziehung\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">\"Too Little Time in the Relationship<\/a> \" and \" <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/mental-load\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">Stop the Mental Load\" .<\/a><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60621c57\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693833331525\"><strong>Grown apart: These are the consequences<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60624f93\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48930\" data-id=\"48930\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Growing apart: The consequences for the relationship\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-1927107b36d\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple lying together in a marital bed, turned sideways away from each other\" data-id=\"48930\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinandergelebt-Folgen.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446ae383\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48930\" title=\"Consequences of growing apart as a couple\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60624f94\">Are we frustrated because we have grown apart, or have we grown apart because we were often frustrated?<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>Which came first, the chicken or the egg? The fact is that almost always, when a couple has become estranged, various distressing developments accompany this experience.<\/strong><\/p><p>We have summarized the most common of these potential problems for you here.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a606324d4\" id=\"t-1693833331526\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Constant conflict<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a6063597e\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48931\" data-id=\"48931\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Grown apart: consequence of constant arguments\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18fa0cad1a9\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Couple argues during relationship crisis\" data-id=\"58824\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"1920\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"1090\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/08\/Beziehungskrise-Streit.png\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446aea83\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 1920 \/ 1090;\" class=\"wp-image-58824\" title=\"Relationship dispute\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>When a couple feels disconnected, conflicts arise more quickly. At least one partner no longer feels sufficiently seen and supported.<\/strong><\/p><p>Disputes about unmet needs almost always lead to the exact opposite of what is desired \u2013 namely, an even greater distance between the parties. A suitable framework for discussion can help facilitate finding&nbsp; a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/kompromisse-in-der-beziehung\/\" target=\"_blank\">compromise .<\/a><\/p><p>To prevent growing further apart, it's important to avoid arguments whenever possible and find more constructive ways to communicate together. You can learn how to do this in our article: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/beziehungstipps\/staendiger-streit-in-der-beziehung\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">\"Constant Arguments in Your Relationship? Here's What You Should Know!\"<\/a><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a60641673\" id=\"t-1693833331527\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>loneliness<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a6064494a\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48932\" data-id=\"48932\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Growing apart: Loneliness as a consequence\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192713b17fe\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a woman sitting alone and sadly at a table with a respect symbol.\" data-id=\"48932\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Auseinander-gelebt-Einsamkeit.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446af259\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48932\" title=\"Loneliness because of living apart\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>It's obvious: when the distance to your partner grows ever greater, you eventually start to feel lonely. After all, your partner is <em>the<\/em> person you want to feel the closest to.<\/strong><\/p><p>The mental and physical consequences of prolonged loneliness are serious. Therefore, if you find yourself at this point, it is crucial to make a determined effort to reconnect and open up to others as soon as possible.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a6064f613\" id=\"t-1693833331528\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>extramarital affair<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60652fd1\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48933\" data-id=\"48933\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Growing apart: Infidelity as a consequence\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192713b480a\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"The man is saddened by his wife's affair.\" data-id=\"50377\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/06\/Affaere-verzeihen-Frage-Warum.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446afc34\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-50377\" title=\"Why an affair?\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>One of the most frequently cited reasons given by cheaters for having an affair is that their sexual or emotional needs had remained unfulfilled for a long time.<\/strong><\/p><p>Reasons given for why an affair or extramarital relationship occurred include, for example:<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a606601cb\">\" <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/sexuelle-unlust-mann\/\" target=\"_blank\">There was almost nothing going on<\/a> between us anymore - neither erotic nor emotional.\"<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a6066096c\">\"I longed so much to feel desired again.\"<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60661237\">\"It felt incredibly good that someone was so interested in me.\"<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li>\"Everyone was just doing their own thing. We had completely grown apart.\"<\/li><\/ul><p>Of course, this does not mean that your partner or you yourself will necessarily start an affair because you have grown apart - but the probability of this is significantly increased.<\/p><p><strong>The idea that a new partner could be the solution to all problems is compelling when things aren't going well in the relationship:<\/strong><\/p><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a606628e7\">\"With a partner who is getting to know you in a new way, you can finally experience passion again.\"<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a606631e3\">\"You certainly won't be bored in your everyday life anymore.\"<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60663b0a\">\"You can feel desired again, laugh, be yourself.\"<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li>\"You and your new love interest: You will certainly have deep, endless conversations. You have the urge to get to know each other better and better. You are eager to reinvent yourselves together.\"<\/li><\/ul><p>etc.<\/p><p>Attention, attention! This isn't the police speaking \u2013 but representatives of the couples therapy profession. And the more couples we've had the privilege of working with over the decades, the more we advocate for this motto:<\/p><p><strong><em>\"It's better to experience something new with your old partner than to experience the same old things with a new partner.\"<\/em><\/strong><\/p><p>Two further thoughts are important to me at this point:<\/p><ul class=\"\"><li>Even if you ultimately decide to end your current relationship, we strongly urge you: If you haven't already, avoid having an affair or a fling. Going through an emotional breakup is challenging and stressful enough. The last thing you need during this time is guilt and self-recrimination.<\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li>If the damage is already done and you or your partner have had an affair, it doesn't necessarily mean the end of your relationship. However, your relationship will likely be like an emotional minefield that now needs to be navigated with the utmost care. You can find out how to do this in our article \" <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/affaere-verzeihen\/\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">Forgiving an Affair<\/a> \".<\/li><\/ul><p>In our article <a href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/typisches-verhalten-nach-fremdgehen\/\" target=\"_blank\" class=\"\" style=\"outline: none;\">\"Typical behavior after infidelity\"<\/a> you can learn more about how to uncover <strong>infidelity<\/strong> in your partner.&nbsp;<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18870b503c4\"><h3 data-css=\"tve-u-18a60666884\" id=\"t-1693833331529\" class=\"\" style=\"color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important;\"><strong>Worst case scenario: separation<\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60669a87\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48934\" data-id=\"48934\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"Grown apart: separation as an inevitable consequence\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18fa0caf033\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a couple running away from a ghost meant to represent a separation\" data-id=\"49129\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Soll-ich-mich-trennen-Gruende-Trennung.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446b04c2\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-49129\" title=\"Fear of separation\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>When a couple has completely grown apart, it's often only a matter of time before the word \" <em>separation<\/em> \" is mentioned. This state of feeling alone together is almost unbearable for most people in the long run.<\/strong><\/p><p>Often, out of sheer desperation, one partner signals that they want to separate \u2013 hoping that the other might then turn towards them more.<\/p><p><strong>From our experience in couples therapy, we know that separating is an immensely stressful step that comes with serious consequences (especially when children are involved) and therefore needs to be very well considered.<\/strong><\/p><p>A highly emotional situation (anger, disappointment, sadness, etc.) is a particularly bad time to bring up such a topic. If you are seriously considering separation and want to inform your partner, don't do so when you are acutely upset.<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\" id=\"tve-jump-1928aab84bb\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60675556\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1693212124232\"><strong>Breakup? - Not before you've given your love another fair chance!<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60678a88\" style=\"--tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden;\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\" style=\"\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48935\" data-id=\"48935\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"482\" title=\"Grown apart: separation as an inevitable consequence\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 482;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192713b6036\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"441\" mt-d=\"-2\" ml-d=\"0\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Drawing of a spirit meant to prevent separation\" data-id=\"59912\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"800\" height=\"460\" data-init-height=\"350\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/09\/Trennung-verhindern.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446b0ec0\" data-height=\"460\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 800 \/ 350;\" class=\"wp-image-59912\" title=\"Prevent separation\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><p class=\"thrv_wrapper wp-caption-text thrv-inline-text\" style=\"text-align: center;\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60678a8a\">Breakup?! Stop!! Let's take it veeeery slowly...<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>The basic principle is: anyone who hasn't truly tried everything in their power to save the relationship before a breakup will struggle with doubts and self-reproach afterwards.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>It is always better to make a serious attempt to put the relationship back on a stable foundation before deciding on a final end to the shared path.<\/strong><\/p><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60686d31\"><em>But how exactly can both partners manage to find their way back to each other \u2013 even though they have noticeably grown apart?<\/em><\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60686d34\"><em>How can hurt feelings be healed and goodwill and love regained?<\/em><\/li><\/ul><ul class=\"\"><li><em>What is needed to resolve conflict and suspicion and allow the positive aspects to come to the fore again?<\/em><\/li><\/ul><p><strong>The most important requirement is that both partners still have a <em>genuine<\/em> interest in continuing the relationship (this is probably the case for you at least - otherwise you wouldn't be reading this article).<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc3cafa\"><p><strong>It is within your power to make a difference!<\/strong><\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper tve_image_caption tve-image-caption-below\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a606ba98a\" style=\"\"><span class=\"tve_image_frame\"><picture decoding=\"async\" class=\"tve_image tcb-moved-image wp-image-48936\" data-id=\"48936\" data-init-width=\"850\" data-init-height=\"483\" title=\"There is nothing good unless you do it \u2013 Erich K\u00e4stner\" data-width=\"778\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" data-css=\"tve-u-192713eb074\" loading=\"lazy\" data-height=\"442\">\n<source type=\"image\/webp\">\n<img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Quote &quot;There is nothing good&quot; by Erich K\u00e4stner in a drawn picture frame\" data-id=\"48936\" width=\"812\" data-init-width=\"850\" height=\"461\" data-init-height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/05\/Es-gibt-nichts-Gutes-ausser-man-tut-es.jpg\" data-width=\"812\" data-css=\"tve-u-18c446b31ec\" data-height=\"461\" style=\"aspect-ratio: auto 850 \/ 483;\" class=\"wp-image-48936\" title=\"Quote by Erich K\u00e4stner: Nothing good\" loading=\"lazy\">\n<\/picture>\n<\/span><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886cc43a43\" id=\"selbsttest\"><h2 class=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18a60568460\" style=\"\" id=\"t-1716390676455\"><strong>Start your self-test now<\/strong><\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" id=\"selbsttest\"><div class=\"tcb-plain-text\"><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">[jotform_iframe_extract_utm form_url=\"https:\/\/form.jotform.com\/223263586718363\"]<\/span><\/div><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18ef186c31f\" style=\"\"><p><strong>We wish you all the best for yourself and your relationship!<\/strong><\/p><p>Yours sincerely, Dr. Judith Gastner &amp; the PaarBalance team<\/p><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca59\" style=\"\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 0px; border: none !important;\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca58\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\">\t<p style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5a\"><strong>\u261d\ud83c\udffb <span data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca6b\">Related articles on the topic of <\/span><strong><span data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca6c\">&nbsp;\"Drifting apart\"&nbsp;<\/span><\/strong><\/strong><\/p><\/div>[tcb_post_list query=\"{'paged':1,'filter':'custom','post_type':|{|'post'|}|,'related':|{||}|,'orderby':'date','order':'DESC','posts_per_page':'3','offset':'1','no_posts_text':'There are no posts to display.','exclude_current_post':|{||}|,'queried_object':{'ID':43437,'post_author':'3'},'dynamic_filter':{'category':'category','tag':'tag','author':'author','search':'search'},'sticky':|{||}|,'rules':|{|{'taxonomy':'post','terms':|{|'52528'|}|,'operator':'IN'},{'taxonomy':'post','terms':|{|'50568'|}|,'operator':'IN'},{'taxonomy':'post','terms':|{|'33337'|}|,'operator':'IN'}|}|}\" type=\"list\" columns-d=\"1\" columns-t=\"1\" columns-m=\"1\" vertical-space-d=\"0\" horizontal-space-d=\"30\" ct=\"post_list-43533\" ct-name=\"Image &amp; Text 12\" tcb-elem-type=\"post_list\" pagination-type=\"none\" pages_near_current=\"2\" dynamic_filter='{\"category\":\"category\",\"tag\":\"tag\",\"author\":\"author\",\"search\":\"search\"}' element-name=\"Post List\" css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\" no_posts_text=\"There are no posts to display.\" article-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"\" total_post_count=\"3\" total_sticky_count=\"0\" posts_per_page=\"3\" featured-content=\"0\" disabled-links=\"1\"  class='' article-tcb_hover_state_parent='' article-class='tve_evt_manager_listen tve_ea_thrive_animation tve_et_mouseover tve_anim_sweep_to_bottom' ][tcb_post_list_dynamic_style]@media (min-width: 300px){[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list #post-[tcb_the_id] [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca62\"]{background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important;}[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list #post-[tcb_the_id] [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca63\"]:hover [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca62\"]{background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important;}}[\/tcb_post_list_dynamic_style]\n<div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-columns\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5f\" style=\"--tcb-col-el-width: 542.5;\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-row tcb-resized tcb-medium-no-wrap v-2 m-edit tcb-desktop-no-wrap tcb--cols--2 tcb-mobile-no-wrap\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5e\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5c\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca67\" style=\"\"><a href=\"[tcb_post_the_permalink]\" class=\"tve-dynamic-link\" dynamic-postlink=\"tcb_post_the_permalink\" data-shortcode-id=\"52528\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad tcb-local-vars-root tcb-mobile-hidden\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca63\" style=\"\">\n\t<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca62\" style=\"\" data-tcb_hover_state_parent=\"1\"><\/div>\n\t<div class=\"tve-cb\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca64\" style=\"\"><\/div>\n<\/div><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"tcb-flex-col\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5d\" style=\"\"><div class=\"tcb-col\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca6a\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" style=\"\"><h4 class=\"\" id=\"t-1726662858576\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-19485d789ae\"><span class=\"thrive-shortcode-content\" data-shortcode=\"tcb_post_title\" data-shortcode-name=\"Post title\" data-extra_key=\"\" data-attr-link=\"1\" data-attr-target=\"0\" data-attr-rel=\"0\" data-option-inline=\"1\" data-attr-static-link=\"{&quot;className&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:&quot;https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;Liebe oder Gewohnheit? Wie steht es um Ihre Beziehung?&quot;,&quot;class&quot;:&quot;&quot;}\" data-attr-css=\"\" style=\"font-weight: normal;\">[tcb_post_title link='1' target='0' rel='0' inline='1' static-link='{\"className\":\"\",\"href\":\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/liebe-oder-gewohnheit\/\",\"title\":\"Liebe oder Gewohnheit? Wie steht es um Ihre Beziehung?\",\"class\":\"\"}' css='']<\/span><\/h4><\/div>[tcb_post_content size='excerpt' read_more='' words='15' css='tve-u-1928aabca61']\n\t\n<\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n[\/tcb_post_list]<\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv-divider\" data-style-d=\"tve_sep-1\" data-thickness-d=\"1\" data-color-d=\"rgb(0, 62, 125)\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-188614ff3ef\">\n<hr class=\"tve_sep tve_sep-1\" style=\"\">\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-188615012fe\"><h2 class=\"\" id=\"t-1690966651737\">Frequently Asked Questions<\/h2><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-188615041b6\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504171\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504172\" id=\"t-1690966651738\"><strong><strong><strong><strong>Why do couples drift apart?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p>There are many reasons why people in a relationship can drift apart, such as when communication breaks down, shared interests are lacking, or eroticism and intimacy are lacking. Differing life goals or mutual hurt can also lead to a loss of emotional connection.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-188615041b6\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504171\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504172\" id=\"t-1690966651739\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>How can you tell that you and your partner are growing apart?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p>Signs of estrangement can include both partners spending less and less time together (or wanting to), a decrease in intimacy, or an increase in misunderstandings over minor matters. Often, there is also a lack of mutual support, understanding, and willingness to meet each other's needs.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-188615041b6\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504171\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504172\" id=\"t-1690966651740\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>What to do when you and your partner are growing apart?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p>If there's a risk of you drifting apart as a couple, you should take action as soon as possible. Make a conscious effort to set aside time for each other. Talk openly about what's on your mind, what you hope for, and what you wish were different. Do things together that you both used to enjoy and that made you feel good.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-188615041b6\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504171\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504172\" id=\"t-1690966651741\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>How much closeness and distance does a good partnership need?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p>The need for togetherness and individuality varies from person to person. Therefore, there's no one-size-fits-all solution for couples. Furthermore, personal needs can change. It always requires a collaborative search for the right balance between individual interests and shared experiences, a balance that makes both partners feel comfortable.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_contentbox_shortcode thrv-content-box tve-elem-default-pad\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-188615041b6\">\n<div class=\"tve-content-box-background\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504171\" style=\"--tve-border-width: 1px;\"><\/div>\n<div class=\"tve-cb\"><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\"><h3 class=\"\" style=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-18861504172\" id=\"t-1690966651742\"><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong><strong>How can you revive a dormant relationship?<\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/strong><\/h3><\/div><div class=\"thrv_wrapper thrv_text_element\" data-type=\"\" data-css=\"tve-u-1886137ae7d\"><p>The most important prerequisite is that both partners want to stay in the relationship. Then it's crucial to find out: When and why did the partnership lose its momentum? What's missing? What's needed? Seek honest communication about each other's needs and desires! Because when we know what's lacking, we can specifically look for solutions.<\/p><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>","tve_custom_css":"@import url(\"\/\/fonts.googleapis.com\/css?family=Mulish:300,700,400,800,500&subset=latin\");@media (min-width: 300px){[data-css=\"tve-u-188614ff3ef\"] .tve_sep { width: 100%; border-width: 1px !important; border-color: rgb(0, 62, 125) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18861504171\"] { --tve-border-width: 1px; --tve-border-radius: 0px; border-radius: 0px; border: 1px solid rgba(112, 112, 112, 0.5) !important; --tve-applied-border: 1px solid rgba(112,112,112,0.5) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18861504172\"] { padding-bottom: 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60568460\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 26px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 24px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60568460\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60572c0d\"] { font-size: 20px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60574740\"] { color: rgb(51, 51, 51) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(51,51,51) !important; --tve-applied-color: rgb(51,51,51) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057b60c\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 26px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 24px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057b60c\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057f5e0\"] { width: 100%; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6058ed69\"] { padding-bottom: 24px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60594b78\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60595759\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605965c2\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059b56a\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059d0f4\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059e16e\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059ed2a\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6059faa3\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a0c53\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a24b0\"] { padding-bottom: 14px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a3e6a\"] { padding-bottom: 24px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a60b8\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 26px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 24px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a60b8\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a93e4\"] { width: 100%; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b6a4e\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b6a4e\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b9d84\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605c6f20\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605c6f20\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605ca1f1\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605d5b57\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605d5b57\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605d8d92\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605eae08\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605eae14\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605ecb8d\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 26px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 24px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605ecb8d\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605f09fc\"] { width: 100%; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605fe7b0\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605fe7b0\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a606030d0\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60612260\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60612260\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a6061573b\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60621c57\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 26px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 24px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60621c57\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60624f93\"] { width: 100%; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a606324d4\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a606324d4\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a6063597e\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60641673\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60641673\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a6064494a\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6064f613\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6064f613\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60652fd1\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a606601cb\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6066096c\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60661237\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a606628e7\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a606631e3\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60663b0a\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60666884\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-top: 14px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; color: var(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-5) !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60666884\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60669a87\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60675556\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 26px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 24px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60675556\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60678a88\"] { width: 100%; margin-bottom: 40px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60686d31\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60686d34\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a606ba98a\"] { width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18ef186c31f\"] { margin-top: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d32481cf\"] { width: 80%; margin-bottom: 20px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d32481d0\"] { background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; padding-left: 20px !important; padding-right: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d32481d0\"] { padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d3788ed3\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba1\"] { --g-regular-weight: 400; --g-bold-weight: 700; border: medium; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,rgb(127,127,127)); --tve-color: rgb(127,127,127); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(127,127,127); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-bold-weight,bold)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; padding: 8px 15px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-image: none !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba1\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) ) !important; --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba1\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba2\"] { --tve-toc-indent: 15px; max-width: 100%; float: none; --tcb-local-color-f1170: rgba(65,178,233,0.7); position: relative; display: block; overflow: hidden; padding-right: 1px !important; margin: 30px auto 40px !important; --tcb-local-color-a027f: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tcb-local-color-21e68: rgb(184,211,255) !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 100% !important; z-index: 3 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba2\"] .tve-toc-title-icon { color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; font-size: 15px !important; width: 15px !important; height: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba3\"] { --tve-border-width: 0px; --tve-border-radius: 0px; background-image: none !important; border-radius: 0px !important; border: medium !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; --background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] { --tve-font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold); --tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(255,255,255); --tve-font-size: 16px; border-top-left-radius: 10px; border-top-right-radius: 10px; overflow: hidden; --tve-text-decoration: none; border-bottom-right-radius: 0px !important; border-bottom-left-radius: 0px !important; background-image: linear-gradient(var(--tcb-local-color-a027f),var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --tve-applied-background-image: linear-gradient(var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f),var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; padding: 17px 15px 12px 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; z-index: 3 !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] blockquote, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] address, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] .tcb-plain-text, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] label { font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-bold-weight,bold)); font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,none); }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] blockquote, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] address, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] .tcb-plain-text, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] label, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] h1, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] h2, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] h3, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] h4, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] h5, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] h6 { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(255,255,255)); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(255,255,255); }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba5\"] { overflow: visible; padding: 0px 15px 10px 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba6\"] { overflow: hidden; border-radius: 0px 0px 12px 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba6\"] { background-image: none !important; --background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] > .tve-content-box-background { background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"].tve-state-expanded > .tve-content-box-background { background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"].tve-state-expanded { overflow: hidden; --animation-angle: -90deg; border-bottom-right-radius: 10px !important; border-bottom-left-radius: 10px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"]:hover:not(.tve-state-expanded) { border-bottom-right-radius: 0px !important; overflow: hidden !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba7\"] { line-height: 1.2em !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba8\"] .tve_sep { background-image: url(\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg viewBox='0 0 12 2' xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg' transform='rotate(90)'%3E%3Cline x1='0' y1='1' x2='12' y2='1' stroke='rgb(217,217,217)' stroke-dasharray='4' stroke-width='3' \/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\"); --tve-applied-background-image: url(\"data:image\/svg+xml,%3Csvg viewBox='0 0 12 2' xmlns='http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg' transform='rotate(90)'%3E%3Cline x1='0' y1='1' x2='12' y2='1' stroke='rgb(217,217,217)' stroke-dasharray='4' stroke-width='3' \/%3E%3C\/svg%3E\"); background-size: 2px 2px; background-position: center top; width: 2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"].tve-state-expanded .tve-toc-title-icon { font-size: 15px !important; width: 15px !important; height: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30baa\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bab\"] { padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bae\"] { --g-regular-weight: 400; --g-bold-weight: 700; border-width: medium medium 2px; border-style: none none dotted; border-color: currentcolor currentcolor rgba(255, 255, 255, 0.1); border-image: initial; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,rgb(80,80,80)); --tve-color: rgb(80,80,80); --tcb-applied-color: rgb(80,80,80); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(80,80,80)); --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(80,80,80); padding: 8px 15px !important; background-image: none !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bae\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)) !important; --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bae\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); border-left: medium; background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba7\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; color: var(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 18px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba7\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba4\"] .tve-toc-title-icon { color: var(--tcb-color-7) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7) !important; font-size: 18px !important; width: 18px !important; height: 18px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30baf\"] { padding-left: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba5\"] > .tve-cb { display: block; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba2\"] > .tve-cb { display: block; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; border: medium; font-size: var(--tve-font-size,16px); --tve-font-size: 16px; color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-color-7)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-color-7); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-7); font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)); --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal); line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.4em); --tve-line-height: 1.4em; --tve-border-width: 0px; --tve-applied-border: none; font-family: var(--tve-font-family,Mulish); --tve-font-family: Mulish; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,var$(--tcb-color-7)); --tve-applied---tve-color: var$(--tcb-color-7); text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline); --tve-text-decoration: underline; padding: 5px 15px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 2px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\"]:hover { color: var(--tve-color,rgb(23,67,120)) !important; --tve-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; --tcb-applied-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tve-color,rgb(23,67,120)) !important; --tve-applied---tve-color: rgb(23,67,120) !important; font-weight: var(--tve-font-weight,var(--g-regular-weight,normal)) !important; --tve-font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; text-decoration: var(--tve-text-decoration,underline) !important; --tve-text-decoration: underline !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\"].tve-state-expanded { color: var(--tve-color,var(--tcb-local-color-a027f)); --tve-color: var(--tcb-local-color-a027f); --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-local-color-a027f); border-left: 2px solid var(--tcb-local-color-f1170); background-image: linear-gradient(rgb(239, 239, 239), rgb(239, 239, 239)) !important; background-size: auto !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192713b6036\"] { margin-top: -2px; margin-left: 0px; width: 100% !important; max-width: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60678a88\"] .tve_image_frame { height: 344.297px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa86373\"] { width: 30px; --tve-alignment: center; float: none; margin-left: auto !important; margin-right: auto !important; margin-top: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa86373\"] img { opacity: 0.7; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e3\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: none; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none; --tve-border-width: 0px; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; border: medium !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e4\"] { max-width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; padding: 15px 15px 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e5\"] { padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 18px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e6\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e7\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e8\"] { line-height: 1.5em !important; padding-top: 6px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e6\"] li { margin-bottom: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca58\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; box-shadow: none; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none; --tve-border-width: 0px; background-color: rgba(0, 93, 255, 0.05) !important; --background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgba(0,93,255,0.05) !important; border: medium !important; --tve-applied-border: none !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca59\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; padding: 15px 15px 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; z-index: 10 !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5a\"] { padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-size: 18px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper { width: calc(100% + 0px); }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n+2) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n+2)) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n) { margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] { border-radius: 0px; overflow: hidden; margin: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5c\"] { max-width: 17.1992%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5d\"] { max-width: 82.7998%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5e\"] { margin-left: -30px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5f\"] { margin: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5e\"] > .tcb-flex-col { padding-left: 30px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper { border-bottom: medium; border-top: medium; --tve-border-width: 0px; padding: 5px 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper:hover { background-color: rgba(183, 183, 183, 0.05) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper::after { background-attachment: scroll; background-image: none; background-position: 0% 0%; background-repeat: repeat; background-size: auto; background-color: rgba(183, 183, 183, 0.05) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] { --tve-font-size: 14px; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca62\"] { border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-radius: 5px; background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; --background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; background-size: cover !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; --background-size: cover !important; --background-position: 50% 50% !important; --background-attachment: scroll !important; --background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca63\"] { width: 230px; float: none; max-width: 105px; margin: 0px auto !important; padding: 0px !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 79% !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list .thrv-content-box [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca64\"] { height: 105px !important; --tve-applied-height: 105px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca63\"]:hover [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca62\"] { background-image: url(\"[tcb_featured_image_url size=medium]\") !important; background-size: cover !important; background-position: 50% 50% !important; background-attachment: scroll !important; background-repeat: no-repeat !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] a, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] ul, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] ul > li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] ol, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] ol > li, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] h1, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] h2, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] h3, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] h4, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] h5, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] h6, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] blockquote > p, :not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca61\"] pre { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,14px); }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca67\"] { justify-content: flex-start !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n)) { margin-right: 30px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff47\"] { --tve-border-radius: 214px; border-radius: 214px; overflow: hidden; width: 45px; position: absolute; top: 8px; left: 0px; margin-top: 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff48\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 12px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff49\"] { text-decoration-line: none !important; text-decoration-thickness: initial !important; text-decoration-style: initial !important; --eff: none !important; text-decoration-color: var(--eff-color,currentColor) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4a\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4b\"] { padding-left: 54px !important; margin-top: 7px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4c\"] { padding-left: 54px !important; padding-top: 1px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4d\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4e\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px 10px 10px 15px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4f\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff50\"] { --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff51\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; text-decoration-line: none !important; text-decoration-thickness: initial !important; text-decoration-style: initial !important; text-decoration-color: var(--tcb-text-decoration-color,initial) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff52\"] { color: var(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-0) !important; font-size: 14px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff53\"] { font-weight: var(--g-bold-weight,bold) !important; box-shadow: none !important; border-bottom: medium !important; background: none !important; text-decoration: none !important; transition: none !important; padding-left: 0px !important; --eff: none !important; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff53\"]:hover { text-decoration: none !important; background: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; --tve-applied-box-shadow: none !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff54\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff55\"] { max-width: 50%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff56\"] { background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff57\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff54\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff58\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 5px 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff59\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5a\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-border-top-left-radius: 5px; border-top-left-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-top-right-radius: 5px; border-top-right-radius: 5px; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; margin-right: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5b\"] { max-width: 50%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5c\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; padding-top: 0px !important; justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5e\"] .tve_sep { width: 100%; border-width: 2px !important; border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5e\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; padding-top: 15px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5f\"] .tve_sep { width: 100%; border-width: 2px !important; border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5f\"] { padding-top: 15px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31373\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 12px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31374\"] { font-size: 25px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 25px; height: 25px; --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2); --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2); --tve-icon-size: 25px; border: medium; border-radius: 0px; --tve-applied-border: none; background-size: auto; background-attachment: scroll, scroll, scroll; background-position: 50% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat; padding: 0px !important; background-image: none !important; --tve-applied-background-image: none !important; --background-image: none !important; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31374\"] > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2); --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2); }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31375\"] { --tve-border-radius: 100px; border-radius: 100px; overflow: hidden; background-color: var(--tcb-color-6) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-6) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-6) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31376\"] { float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; max-width: 60px; padding: 10px !important; margin: 0px auto 0px 6px !important; --tve-applied-max-width: 60px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31377\"] { min-height: 25px !important; --tve-applied-min-height: 25px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31378\"] { max-width: 15%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31379\"] { max-width: 84.9991%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137a\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; margin-top: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137b\"] { padding-left: 10px !important; padding-top: 1px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; padding-bottom: 1px !important; margin-bottom: 5px !important; margin-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137c\"] > .tcb-flex-col { padding-left: 0px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137c\"] { margin-left: 0px !important; padding-top: 10px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; padding-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137d\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137e\"] { justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137f\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; padding-top: 0px !important; justify-content: flex-start !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31380\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 5px; border-bottom-right-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 5px; border-bottom-left-radius: 5px; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; margin-right: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31381\"] { text-shadow: none; --tve-applied-text-shadow: none; --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; line-height: 1.75em !important; font-family: Mulish !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31382\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: rgb(248, 248, 248) !important; --background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: rgb(248,248,248) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31383\"] { max-width: 50%; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31381\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31384\"] { margin-top: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 5px 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31385\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31386\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31387\"]::after { clear: both; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31388\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31389\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138a\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138b\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138c\"] { max-width: unset; --tve-applied-max-width: unset !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 5px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138d\"] { padding-top: 3px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138e\"] { padding-left: 10px !important; padding-top: 2px !important; margin-top: -2px !important; padding-bottom: 5px !important; margin-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138f\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138f\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138f\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31391\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31391\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31391\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31392\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31392\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31392\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31393\"] { font-size: 22px; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; width: 22px; height: 22px; --tcb-local-color-icon: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tcb-local-color-var: rgba(10,10,10,0.85); --tve-icon-size: 22px; float: left; z-index: 3; position: relative; --tve-alignment: left; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31393\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31393\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31385\"]:hover { --tcb-local-color-icon: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tcb-local-color-var: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31385\"]:hover > :first-child { color: var(--tcb-color-2) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-color-2) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31394\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-size: 14px !important; color: var(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tcb-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; --tve-applied-color: var$(--tcb-skin-color-5) !important; font-family: Mulish !important; font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31395\"] { padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31396\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31397\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; --background-color: transparent !important; --tve-applied-background-color: transparent !important; justify-content: center !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31398\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 2px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31399\"] { max-width: 50%; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-19485d789ae\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01d\"] .tcb-button-link { letter-spacing: 2px; background-image: linear-gradient(var(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211)),var(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211))); --tve-applied-background-image: linear-gradient(var$(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211)),var$(--tcb-local-color-62516,rgb(19,114,211))); background-size: auto; background-attachment: scroll; border-radius: 5px; padding: 18px; background-position: 50% 50%; background-repeat: no-repeat; background-color: transparent !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01d\"] .tcb-button-link span { color: rgb(255, 255, 255); --tcb-applied-color: #fff; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01d\"] { --tcb-local-color-62516: var(--tcb-color-0) !important; margin-bottom: 5px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01e\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 15px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01e\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01e\"] { font-weight: var(--g-regular-weight,normal) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01f\"] { --g-regular-weight: 300; --g-bold-weight: 700; font-family: Mulish !important; font-size: 24px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01f\"] strong { font-weight: 700 !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf020\"] { min-width: auto; max-width: 758.078px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf021\"] { box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.25) 0px -8px 12px 0px; --tve-applied-box-shadow: 0px -8px 12px 0px rgba(0,0,0,0.25); background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --background-color: var(--tcb-color-8) !important; --tve-applied-background-color: var$(--tcb-color-8) !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf022\"] { padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf023\"] { margin-bottom: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-197701ff160\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca6a\"] { margin-left: 15px !important; }}@media (max-width: 1023px){:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60568460\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057b60c\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a60b8\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605ecb8d\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60621c57\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60675556\"] { font-size: 24px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper { width: calc(100% + 0px); }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n+2) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n+2)) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n) { margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper { padding-top: 30px !important; padding-bottom: 30px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5e\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca63\"] { width: 180px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list .thrv-content-box [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca64\"] { height: 180px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff59\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31395\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }}@media (max-width: 767px){:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60568460\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057b60c\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057f5e0\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6057f5e2\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a60b8\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a93e4\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605a93e6\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b36b4\"] { font-size: 15px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b6a4e\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605b9d84\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605c6f20\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605ca1f1\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605d5b57\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605d8d92\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605ecb8d\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a605f09fc\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605f09fd\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a605fe7b0\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a606030d0\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60612260\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a6061573b\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60621c57\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60624f93\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60624f94\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a606324d4\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a6063597e\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60641673\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a6064494a\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a6064f613\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60652fd1\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60666884\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60669a87\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60675556\"] { font-size: 20px !important; padding-bottom: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 5px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a60678a88\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-18a60678a8a\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-18a606ba98a\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px; overflow: hidden; width: 100%; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 20px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d32481cf\"] { --tve-border-radius: 5px; border-radius: 5px 5px 0px 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-bottom-left-radius: 0px; --tve-border-bottom-right-radius: 0px; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d32481d0\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba1\"] { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,15px); --tve-font-size: 15px; padding-left: 12px !important; padding-right: 12px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bae\"] { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,15px); --tve-font-size: 15px; padding-left: 12px !important; padding-right: 12px !important; padding-bottom: 4px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba2\"] { margin-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba7\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba5\"] { padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30ba9\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-191d8a30bb0\"] { font-size: var(--tve-font-size,14px); --tve-font-size: 14px; line-height: var(--tve-line-height,1.40em); --tve-line-height: 1.40em; padding: 6px 12px 4px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9ee\"] { --tcb-local-color-icon: rgb(51,51,51); --tcb-local-color-var: rgb(51,51,51); --tve-icon-size: 14px; padding-left: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aa8a9e6\"] { padding-left: 0px !important; padding-right: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper { width: calc(100% + 0px); }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n+2) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n+2)) { margin-top: 0px !important; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:nth-child(n) { margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5e\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5e\"] .tcb-flex-col { flex-basis: 637px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca63\"] { width: 270px; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list .post-wrapper { padding: 15px 15px 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5f\"] { float: none; margin-left: 0px !important; margin-right: auto !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca67\"] { border-radius: 0px; overflow: hidden; background-color: transparent !important; padding: 0px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list .thrv-content-box [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca64\"] { height: 270px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5c\"] { max-width: 13.2995%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5d\"] { max-width: 86.698%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"].tcb-post-list [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca6a\"] { margin-left: -55px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] { margin-left: -5px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca6b\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca6c\"] { font-size: 16px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5a\"] { line-height: 1.5em !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4c\"] { min-width: 293px; min-height: 31px; --tve-applied-min-width: 293px !important; --tve-applied-min-height: 31px !important; padding-right: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff59\"] { flex-wrap: wrap !important; margin-left: -15px !important; padding-bottom: 15px !important; padding-top: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff59\"] > .tcb-flex-col { padding-left: 15px; flex-basis: 390px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff59\"] > .tcb-flex-col > .tcb-col { justify-content: flex-start; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4d\"] { margin-bottom: 10px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; justify-content: flex-start !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4e\"] { margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 5px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff4f\"] { font-size: 13px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff54\"] { font-size: 13px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff58\"] { margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5a\"] { margin-bottom: 20px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd2ff5c\"] { margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137b\"] { min-width: 293px; min-height: 31px; --tve-applied-min-width: 293px !important; --tve-applied-min-height: 31px !important; padding-right: 10px !important; margin-left: 5px !important; margin-top: -10px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31380\"] { margin-bottom: 20px !important; margin-top: -23px !important; margin-right: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137f\"] { margin-bottom: 10px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31381\"] { font-size: 13px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31384\"] { margin-bottom: 0px !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138e\"] { min-width: 293px; min-height: 31px; --tve-applied-min-width: 293px !important; --tve-applied-min-height: 31px !important; padding-right: 10px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; margin-left: 5px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31395\"] { flex-wrap: wrap !important; margin-left: -15px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; padding-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31395\"] > .tcb-flex-col { padding-left: 15px; flex-basis: 390px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31395\"] > .tcb-flex-col > .tcb-col { justify-content: flex-start; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137c\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31397\"] { --tve-border-top-left-radius: 0px; border-top-left-radius: 0px; overflow: hidden; --tve-border-top-right-radius: 0px; border-top-right-radius: 0px; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-bottom: 0px !important; justify-content: flex-start !important; margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138d\"] { flex-wrap: nowrap !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31398\"] { padding-top: 1px !important; margin-left: 10px !important; margin-top: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138c\"] { margin-left: 10px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3139b\"] .tve_sep { width: 100%; border-width: 2px !important; border-color: rgb(255, 255, 255) !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3139b\"] { padding-top: 5px !important; padding-bottom: 5px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3137a\"] { margin-top: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31385\"] { font-size: 25px; width: 25px; height: 25px; --tve-icon-size: 25px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31393\"] { font-size: 25px; width: 25px; height: 25px; --tve-icon-size: 25px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31392\"] { font-size: 25px; width: 25px; height: 25px; --tve-icon-size: 25px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31391\"] { font-size: 25px; width: 25px; height: 25px; --tve-icon-size: 25px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd3138f\"] { font-size: 25px; width: 25px; height: 25px; --tve-icon-size: 25px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31386\"] { max-width: 20%; }[data-css=\"tve-u-192dfd31388\"] { max-width: 20%; }.tcb-post-list[data-css=\"tve-u-1928aabca5b\"] .post-wrapper.thrv_wrapper:not(:nth-child(n)) { margin-right: 30px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01d\"] .tcb-button-link { box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.4) 0px 8px 12px 0px; --tve-applied-box-shadow: 0px 8px 12px 0px rgba(0,0,0,0.4); padding: 9px 18px 7px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01f\"] { font-size: 17px !important; letter-spacing: 1px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01d\"] { display: block; max-width: 80%; width: 80%; margin-top: 10px !important; margin-bottom: 10px !important; min-width: 100% !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01e\"] { font-size: 12px !important; letter-spacing: 1px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf020\"] { min-width: auto; max-width: 320px; min-height: 50px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf025\"] { padding-top: 1px !important; padding-bottom: 20px !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01d\"] .tcb-button-link { line-height: 1.2em; font-size: 18px; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf01f\"] { line-height: 1.5em !important; }:not(#tve) [data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf022\"] { font-size: 12px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf023\"] { margin-top: 5px !important; margin-bottom: 0px !important; padding-right: 0px !important; padding-left: 0px !important; }[data-css=\"tve-u-19753dbf021\"] { box-shadow: rgba(0, 0, 0, 0.25) 0px -8px 12px 0px; --tve-applied-box-shadow: 0px -8px 12px 0px rgba(0,0,0,0.25); }}","tve_user_custom_css":"","tve_globals":{"e":"1","font_cls":[]},"tcb2_ready":1,"tcb_editor_enabled":1,"tve_landing_page":"","_tve_header":"","_tve_footer":""},"categories":[105,106],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-65934","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-beziehungskrise","category-beziehungstests","post-wrapper","thrv_wrapper"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v27.6 (Yoast SEO v27.7) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Growing apart: Reasons, signs, phases &amp; tips<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Have you grown apart? Couples therapists will show you the typical signs \u2013 and what you should do for your love now.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Growing apart: Reasons, signs, phases &amp; tips\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Have you and your partner grown apart? Couples therapists can show you the typical signs \u2013 and what you can do for your relationship now.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"PaarBalance\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:publisher\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/paarbalance\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:author\" content=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/paarbalance\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2023-01-22T23:36:23+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:modified_time\" content=\"2025-12-12T01:38:54+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Auseinander-gelebt.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"300\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"300\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Dr. Judith Gastner\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:title\" content=\"Auseinander gelebt: Gr\u00fcnde, Anzeichen, Phasen &amp; Tipps\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:description\" content=\"Habe Sie sich als Paar auseinander gelebt? Paartherapeuten zeigen Ihnen die typischen Anzeichen - und was Sie jetzt f\u00fcr die Liebe tun k\u00f6nnen.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@paarbalance\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@paarbalance\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Dr. Judith Gastner\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"20 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Article\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Dr. Judith Gastner\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/8d461a864fc07eecb966c46293382528\"},\"headline\":\"Grown apart: 11 typical signs &amp; phases as well as proven tips for love\",\"datePublished\":\"2023-01-22T23:36:23+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2025-12-12T01:38:54+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/\"},\"wordCount\":3384,\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#organization\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g\",\"articleSection\":[\"Relationship crisis\",\"Relationship testing\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/\",\"name\":\"Growing apart: Reasons, signs, phases & tips\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g\",\"datePublished\":\"2023-01-22T23:36:23+00:00\",\"dateModified\":\"2025-12-12T01:38:54+00:00\",\"description\":\"Have you grown apart? Couples therapists will show you the typical signs \u2013 and what you should do for your love now.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g\"},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/auseinander-gelebt\\\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Startseite\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"Grown apart: 11 typical signs &amp; phases as well as proven tips for love\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/\",\"name\":\"PaarBalance\",\"description\":\"Online Beziehungscoaching\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#organization\"},\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\"},{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#organization\",\"name\":\"PaarBalance GmbH\",\"alternateName\":\"PaarBalance\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/03\\\/paarbalance-logo.png\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2023\\\/03\\\/paarbalance-logo.png\",\"width\":900,\"height\":229,\"caption\":\"PaarBalance GmbH\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/logo\\\/image\\\/\"},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.facebook.com\\\/paarbalance\\\/\",\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/paarbalance\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.instagram.com\\\/paarbalance\\\/\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.pinterest.de\\\/paarbalance\\\/\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/channel\\\/UCt4xdwi87AXKeZFEQ3zWIXw\"]},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/8d461a864fc07eecb966c46293382528\",\"name\":\"Dr. Judith Gastner\",\"image\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/secure.gravatar.com\\\/avatar\\\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=96&d=mm&r=g\",\"caption\":\"Dr. Judith Gastner\"},\"description\":\"Dr. Judith Gastner ist Diplom-Psychologin, Psychotherapeutin, P\u00e4dagogin und Paartherapeutin. Die Mitbegr\u00fcnderin und wissenschaftliche Leiterin von PaarBalance, der bekanntesten interaktiven Paartherapie online im deutschsprachigen Raum, unterst\u00fctzt seit \u00fcber 20 Jahren Menschen in den Bereichen Beziehungsanbahnung, Partnerschaftsgestaltung, Sexualit\u00e4t, Krisenbew\u00e4ltigung &amp; Trennungsverarbeitung.\",\"sameAs\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/dr-judith-gastner\\\/\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.facebook.com\\\/paarbalance\\\/\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.instagram.com\\\/paarbalance\\\/\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.pinterest.de\\\/paarbalance\\\/\",\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/paarbalance\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/channel\\\/UCt4xdwi87AXKeZFEQ3zWIXw\"],\"honorificPrefix\":\"Fr.\",\"honorificSuffix\":\"Dr.\",\"gender\":\"weiblich\",\"award\":[\"Mitbegr\u00fcnderin und wissenschaftliche Leiterin von PaarBalance\u00a9\",\"der bekanntesten interaktiven Paartherapie online - https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de im deutschsprachigen Raum.\"],\"knowsAbout\":[\"Paartherapie\",\"Partnerschaftsgestaltung\",\"Krisenbew\u00e4ltigung\",\"Trennungsverarbeitung\"],\"jobTitle\":\"Diplom-Psychologin, Psychotherapeutin, P\u00e4dagogin, Paartherapeutin\",\"worksFor\":\"PaarBalance GmbH\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.paarbalance.de\\\/en\\\/author\\\/jgastner\\\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO Premium plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Growing apart: Reasons, signs, phases & tips","description":"Have you grown apart? Couples therapists will show you the typical signs \u2013 and what you should do for your love now.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Growing apart: Reasons, signs, phases & tips","og_description":"Have you and your partner grown apart? Couples therapists can show you the typical signs \u2013 and what you can do for your relationship now.","og_url":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/","og_site_name":"PaarBalance","article_publisher":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/paarbalance\/","article_author":"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/paarbalance\/","article_published_time":"2023-01-22T23:36:23+00:00","article_modified_time":"2025-12-12T01:38:54+00:00","og_image":[{"width":300,"height":300,"url":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/01\/Auseinander-gelebt.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Dr. Judith Gastner","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_title":"Auseinander gelebt: Gr\u00fcnde, Anzeichen, Phasen & Tipps","twitter_description":"Habe Sie sich als Paar auseinander gelebt? Paartherapeuten zeigen Ihnen die typischen Anzeichen - und was Sie jetzt f\u00fcr die Liebe tun k\u00f6nnen.","twitter_creator":"@paarbalance","twitter_site":"@paarbalance","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Dr. Judith Gastner","Est. reading time":"20 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/"},"author":{"name":"Dr. Judith Gastner","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#\/schema\/person\/8d461a864fc07eecb966c46293382528"},"headline":"Grown apart: 11 typical signs &amp; phases as well as proven tips for love","datePublished":"2023-01-22T23:36:23+00:00","dateModified":"2025-12-12T01:38:54+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/"},"wordCount":3384,"publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#organization"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g","articleSection":["Relationship crisis","Relationship testing"],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/","url":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/","name":"Growing apart: Reasons, signs, phases & tips","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g","datePublished":"2023-01-22T23:36:23+00:00","dateModified":"2025-12-12T01:38:54+00:00","description":"Have you grown apart? Couples therapists will show you the typical signs \u2013 and what you should do for your love now.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=256&amp;d=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.paarbalance.de%2Fwp-content%2Fplugins%2Fthrive-visual-editor%2Feditor%2Fcss%2Fimages%2Fauthor_image.png&amp;r=g"},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/auseinander-gelebt\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Startseite","item":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Grown apart: 11 typical signs &amp; phases as well as proven tips for love"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/","name":"PaarBalance","description":"Online Beziehungscoaching","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#organization"},"potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#organization","name":"PaarBalance GmbH","alternateName":"PaarBalance","url":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/","url":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/paarbalance-logo.png","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/paarbalance-logo.png","width":900,"height":229,"caption":"PaarBalance GmbH"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#\/schema\/logo\/image\/"},"sameAs":["https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/paarbalance\/","https:\/\/x.com\/paarbalance","https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/paarbalance\/","https:\/\/www.pinterest.de\/paarbalance\/","https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCt4xdwi87AXKeZFEQ3zWIXw"]},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/#\/schema\/person\/8d461a864fc07eecb966c46293382528","name":"Dr. Judith Gastner","image":{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=96&d=mm&r=g","contentUrl":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/6a4c6b6669af197cf3ed4086bb9bc3968c59737b7f53282f91990b1d0adc7740?s=96&d=mm&r=g","caption":"Dr. Judith Gastner"},"description":"Dr. Judith Gastner ist Diplom-Psychologin, Psychotherapeutin, P\u00e4dagogin und Paartherapeutin. Die Mitbegr\u00fcnderin und wissenschaftliche Leiterin von PaarBalance, der bekanntesten interaktiven Paartherapie online im deutschsprachigen Raum, unterst\u00fctzt seit \u00fcber 20 Jahren Menschen in den Bereichen Beziehungsanbahnung, Partnerschaftsgestaltung, Sexualit\u00e4t, Krisenbew\u00e4ltigung &amp; Trennungsverarbeitung.","sameAs":["https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/dr-judith-gastner\/","https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/paarbalance\/","https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/paarbalance\/","https:\/\/www.pinterest.de\/paarbalance\/","https:\/\/x.com\/paarbalance","https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCt4xdwi87AXKeZFEQ3zWIXw"],"honorificPrefix":"Fr.","honorificSuffix":"Dr.","gender":"weiblich","award":["Mitbegr\u00fcnderin und wissenschaftliche Leiterin von PaarBalance\u00a9","der bekanntesten interaktiven Paartherapie online - https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de im deutschsprachigen Raum."],"knowsAbout":["Paartherapie","Partnerschaftsgestaltung","Krisenbew\u00e4ltigung","Trennungsverarbeitung"],"jobTitle":"Diplom-Psychologin, Psychotherapeutin, P\u00e4dagogin, Paartherapeutin","worksFor":"PaarBalance GmbH","url":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/author\/jgastner\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65934","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=65934"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65934\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":67354,"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/65934\/revisions\/67354"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=65934"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=65934"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=65934"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}