{"id":65874,"date":"2024-09-18T14:56:16","date_gmt":"2024-09-18T12:56:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/zweite-chancen-in-der-beziehung\/"},"modified":"2026-05-05T08:12:25","modified_gmt":"2026-05-05T06:12:25","slug":"zweite-chancen-in-der-beziehung","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/en\/zweite-chancen-in-der-beziehung\/","title":{"rendered":"Second chances in a relationship – How to make a fresh start"},"content":{"rendered":"

Standard Blog-Post<\/span>Dr. Judith Gastner<\/a><\/span>Paartherapeutin und Psychotherapeutin<\/span>Category:<\/span>Trennung & Trennung auf Zeit<\/a><\/span>Article last updated on 12.12.2025 <\/span><\/span>Quality assurance<\/span><\/strong>Prof. Dr. Dr. Ludwig Schindler<\/span><\/a>Share this article \ud83d\udc47\ud83c\udffb<\/span><\/a><\/a><\/a><\/a><\/a><\/a>[tcb-script]document.addEventListener(“DOMContentLoaded”, function() { const copyLinks = document.querySelectorAll(“.copy-link”); copyLinks.forEach(link => { link.addEventListener(“click”, function(event) { event.preventDefault(); const textToCopy = “https:\/\/www.paarbalance.de\/zweite-chancen-in-der-beziehung\/”; navigator.clipboard.writeText(textToCopy).then(function() { alert(“Link wurde in die Zwischenablage kopiert!”); }).catch(function(error) { alert(“Fehler beim Kopieren des Links: ” + error); }); }); });});[\/tcb-script]\"Drawing<\/span><\/p>\n

It can happen to the best of us \ud83d\ude07: Over the course of a long relationship, words are said that would have been better left unsaid. Things are done that hurt. Thoughts are had that would have been better left unexpressed…<\/strong><\/p>\n

And before either partner is fully aware of it, they have repeatedly given each other one or two big emotional bumps.<\/p>\n

Suddenly, one thing leads to another. One of them has had enough, realizes that they haven’t felt respected, loved, or seen for far too long, and that they can’t continue like this any longer. They are frustrated, sad, and disappointed. And they can’t imagine that the wounds inflicted can heal and that the love can still be saved.<\/p>\n

Perhaps you are at exactly this point right now. Or perhaps you have already announced your separation, are in the midst of the separation process<\/a> , or have already divided your shared life \u2013 with all the pain and challenges that this entails for everyone involved.<\/p>\n

And perhaps you will become increasingly aware of how incredibly much is at stake and that the familiar and established bond cannot be completely severed, no matter how much effort is needed.<\/strong><\/p>\n